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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has anyone who’s also been on for a few years noticed how much it’s changed. I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Since when has 9” been the new minimum too?

For me fab was better before it’s became popular and common place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think anything much has really changed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anyone who’s also been on for a few years noticed how much it’s changed. I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Since when has 9” been the new minimum too?

For me fab was better before it’s became popular and common place. "

Bird you’re pounding in your profile looks pretty good

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Women have woken up and realised they deserve the best and clearly the best is 9".

I've not noticed a massive increase in people asking for gifts. More women who use another site and reference it on here, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has anyone who’s also been on for a few years noticed how much it’s changed. I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Since when has 9” been the new minimum too?

For me fab was better before it’s became popular and common place.

Bird you’re pounding in your profile looks pretty good "

Yeah she was. About 6 months after that pic was taken she messaged me on here. She said her fella was d*unk and wanted me to go over and bareback her on the sofa while he was asleep and didn’t know. I declined. Classy girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Women have woken up and realised they deserve the best and clearly the best is 9".

I've not noticed a massive increase in people asking for gifts. More women who use another site and reference it on here, yes. "

Yeah like us guys deserve the best and therefore specify size 8/10 and natural 34DDs only.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab changes and evolves all the time but it is what it is and still mainly good fun imho!!!

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

for me fabs is fab , but only been here a year and one month

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Been here 3 and half years think it has improved in some ways in my time x

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Women have woken up and realised they deserve the best and clearly the best is 9".

I've not noticed a massive increase in people asking for gifts. More women who use another site and reference it on here, yes.

Yeah like us guys deserve the best and therefore specify size 8/10 and natural 34DDs only."

Exactly OP, exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yesterday for example, I got speaking to two couples hoping to try and plan future meets when covid restrictions allow. One couple insisted that I had to treat her and buy her gifts.

The other was happy and chatting away and seemed interested until she asked how big I was. I asked how big she was looking for, when I said I wasn’t 9” I never heard back. Madness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How dare people ask for what they want!

Utter madness.

Is it a full moon today or something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they decided you weren't for them and put in these 'conditions' to put you off?

Some find that easier than saying 'this isn't working for us'

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"How dare people ask for what they want!

Utter madness.

Is it a full moon today or something

Works both ways I often get offered "gifts" on here which equally makes me uncomfortable! Which of course I politely decline x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anyone who’s also been on for a few years noticed how much it’s changed. I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Since when has 9” been the new minimum too?

For me fab was better before it’s became popular and common place.

Bird you’re pounding in your profile looks pretty good

And yet...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has anyone who’s also been on for a few years noticed how much it’s changed. I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Since when has 9” been the new minimum too?

For me fab was better before it’s became popular and common place.

Bird you’re pounding in your profile looks pretty good

And yet..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People ask for gifts? I'm missing a trick here. I would like my next meet to buy me a new car and a llama. Thank you so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What model, would you settle for an alpaca?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Society changes and Fab moves with it.

I've been here a while and people have always been looking for whatever floats their boat.

I have noticed a small increase in people posting updates that are basically adverts for O F sites they run, wish lists supporter passes and so on.

Folk asking for substances has always been a factor.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What model, would you settle for an alpaca?"

That is a different animal and not a compromise I'm willing to make.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People ask for gifts? I'm missing a trick here. I would like my next meet to buy me a new car and a llama. Thank you so much."

I have bought you a Lada as a compromise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People ask for gifts? I'm missing a trick here. I would like my next meet to buy me a new car and a llama. Thank you so much.

I have bought you a Lada as a compromise. "

Similar letters to llama. It might work.

BTW do ladas still exist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Society changes and Fab moves with it.

I've been here a while and people have always been looking for whatever floats their boat.

I have noticed a small increase in people posting updates that are basically adverts for O F sites they run, wish lists supporter passes and so on.

Folk asking for substances has always been a factor. "

Yeah it was alarming around Xmas and new year the amount of people asking to meet if you can bring ‘sniff’ or ‘party supplies’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People ask for gifts? I'm missing a trick here. I would like my next meet to buy me a new car and a llama. Thank you so much.

I have bought you a Lada as a compromise.

Similar letters to llama. It might work.

BTW do ladas still exist?

This one does. Just.

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By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Only been here a year, so no real frame of reference!

However, we have noticed during lockdowns we get a lot of low quality messages the 'hey hows u/' types..

read the profile! its your foot in the door.. why would you not do research!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yesterday for example, I got speaking to two couples hoping to try and plan future meets when covid restrictions allow. One couple insisted that I had to treat her and buy her gifts.

The other was happy and chatting away and seemed interested until she asked how big I was. I asked how big she was looking for, when I said I wasn’t 9” I never heard back. Madness "

but thats there choice ?? its not wrong of them that you did not suit them..

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Noticed a big change lately. Sad to see and really makes me question why I'm still here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only gift I offer is the pleasure I can give X

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By *ausageNmashCouple over a year ago

Andover

Paul has been on and off with ex wife for 13 years. Single and couples profiles. There used to be more parity but since android phones probably "single" male profiles has increased maybe 10 fold

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

" I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Don't you think this should be reported?

If I got it, I will report the profile.

or is it different from people asking to be paid and acceptable?

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

A guy wants to buy me gifts in exchange for not telling his wife hes on here.

I dont even know him or her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few years ago there was a man asking to take women on holiday abroad in exchange for sex. I'm sure he wasn't the only one to offer to 'buy' someone, it's not a new phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

been here on and off since the site started pretty much and the site is pretty much the same just the % of people have massively increased ...

there has alway be those looking for money/gifts and those offing money/gifts

there's always been fakes

but most importantly there always been a preference ....big cocks have alway been sought after no different than guys wanting big tit or bbw / slim women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The joy is all in the giving, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only been on a year or so, so don't have much to compare as how it used to be. But then again, I'd probably be oblivious to it anyways here in my little bubble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yesterday for example, I got speaking to two couples hoping to try and plan future meets when covid restrictions allow. One couple insisted that I had to treat her and buy her gifts.

The other was happy and chatting away and seemed interested until she asked how big I was. I asked how big she was looking for, when I said I wasn’t 9” I never heard back. Madness

but thats there choice ?? its not wrong of them that you did not suit them.."

Because I have pics on my profile, obviously I’m not 9”. They sent me the initial message, I wouldn’t message a woman on here if she was a size 18, then say oh actually, you’re not a size 10 I’m not interested would I?

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By *icolerobbieCouple over a year ago

walsall

"Has anyone who’s also been on for a few years noticed how much it’s changed. I’m sick of people asking for gifts, spoiling etc... what’s that all about?

Since when has 9” been the new minimum too?

For me fab was better before it’s became popular and common place. "

We’ve been here many years, pretty much since it’s inception.

Has it changed? God yes. It started as a very niche little corner of the internet for swingers to chat & meet. Now it has become very mainstream. People use it for all sorts, which is fine.

It’s not just fab that has gone mainstream, I think swinging in general has. I think that the edges between swinging and dating are now just blurring. Everything evolves and it will continue to do so.

Wonder what the future holds?

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

OP, I have been on FAB for 12 years and what you have described is what has occurred all the way through from what I've seen.

FAB continually evolves, with certain themes continually running through or repeating.

The "gifts" aspect is something I encountered twice. 1). Whilst en-route to a meet, the Couple rang me to ask if I'd collect a few items from their local Tesco, to save them time. But the text message listed about £60 worth and they wouldn't reimburse me; I turned round & went home!

2). Got to a meet, only to be advised nothing would happen with the lady till I paid for the Road Tax on their car! I walked out! Strangely, that couple are still on here! They probably live in a mansion now!

But FAB is what it is, fun!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

"been here on and off since the site started pretty much and the site is pretty much the same just the % of people have massively increased ...

there has alway be those looking for money/gifts and those offing money/gifts

there's always been fakes

but most importantly there always been a preference ....big cocks have alway been sought after no different than guys wanting big tit or bbw / slim women"

Agree with you.

Nothing wrong with having preferences.

But I am with the OP when it comes to people asking for gifts/money .. hmm.

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By *icolerobbieCouple over a year ago

walsall

"been here on and off since the site started pretty much and the site is pretty much the same just the % of people have massively increased ...

there has alway be those looking for money/gifts and those offing money/gifts

there's always been fakes

but most importantly there always been a preference ....big cocks have alway been sought after no different than guys wanting big tit or bbw / slim women

Agree with you.

Nothing wrong with having preferences.

But I am with the OP when it comes to people asking for gifts/money .. hmm.

Same here. Against site rules. Block & report.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, I have been on FAB for 12 years and what you have described is what has occurred all the way through from what I've seen.

FAB continually evolves, with certain themes continually running through or repeating.

But FAB is what it is, fun!"

Their road tax? That's insane! Brass neckery of the highest order.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been on and off off fab for 10 years and seen lot off changes on fab

Think the biggest I have seen guys think it’s a easy way to get sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can understand if I sent the initial message or read on a profile 9” minimum. But when a woman/couple start chatting, after seeing that I’m an averagely blessed guy in my pics they ask how big? Of course I’m not that big! I wouldn’t instigate a chat with a flat chested woman only to tell her I will only meet women with a minimum D cup!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

totally agree with the reporting of those asking for money and those offering

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, I have been on FAB for 12 years and what you have described is what has occurred all the way through from what I've seen.

FAB continually evolves, with certain themes continually running through or repeating.

But FAB is what it is, fun!"

I bet it wasn’t an economical, £20/year diesel super mini either!

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By *ittleAcornMan over a year ago

visiting the beach

"A guy wants to buy me gifts in exchange for not telling his wife hes on here.

I dont even know him or her

That sounds like a fantasy scenario for him...

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

"People ask for gifts? I'm missing a trick here. I would like my next meet to buy me a new car and a llama. Thank you so much."

Ask for a autocaravan and we could live together and no pay rent and travel with lots of fun added

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People ask for gifts? I'm missing a trick here. I would like my next meet to buy me a new car and a llama. Thank you so much.

Ask for a autocaravan and we could live together and no pay rent and travel with lots of fun added

But where would we keep the llama?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've been here for approx 14 years give or take a month or two ....

I don't know what a gift is in context.

I don't think FAB changed at all , as a whole.

The forums live and die by whoever is in and that can be seasonal etc.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

There has always been people pushing the boundaries on the site, if you help Admin by reporting they can take a look

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