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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
I'm not convinced... Yours is quite possibly the best back drop of a photo, matched perfectly with your outfit, and with a sexy bum... Ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
You'll never make the top ten with this attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
Aww that's super cute  Love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you OP, well said.
Regarding ‘best of lists, etc’ the best quote is from Groucho Mark: ‘I wouldn’t want to belong to any club that would have me as a member.’ |
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
Thank you OP, you have made me feel so much better after it dawned on me that I have never made the top ten of anything 
I was so upset I had to open some Ben and Jerry |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Maybe, but some fabbers are more equal than others....
No..they just think they are 
That's what counts in our society though."
I'm not sure it is though - I'm more drawn to people who aren't full of their own self-importance and somehow display that they think they're above others in their words and actions |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?
Thank you OP, you have made me feel so much better after it dawned on me that I have never made the top ten of anything
I was so upset I had to open some Ben and Jerry "
Great response to clique-creating posts.
Curious couple - top of the top 10 list for ice cream eaters for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's what counts in our society though.
I'm not sure it is though - I'm more drawn to people who aren't full of their own self-importance and somehow display that they think they're above others in their words and actions"
Agree 100%. They are not particularly appealing qualities in any context. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?
Thank you OP, you have made me feel so much better after it dawned on me that I have never made the top ten of anything
I was so upset I had to open some Ben and Jerry
Great response to clique-creating posts.
Curious couple - top of the top 10 list for ice cream eaters for you. "
Oi! no top tens or whatevers on this thread please! Thank you kindly. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed 
Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
wow.. That is a great post and you are 100 % correct. A lot of people are obsessed with list and competing. 8 personally couldn't care less. Just here to have some fun. This is the post i wanted to read and has given me a little cheer up. Thanks OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed
Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it."
Can I come and cuddle next to you?
That way you keep the dog off the settee, stay 1st and I get comfy boobies to rest my head against
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
I guess its natural.
I dont like this everyone is equal thing, when clearly we are not!
You know like when all the kids win at sports day?
Suck it up, its character building!
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed
Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it."
How can you be top when I was there first and you plonked you fine tush on my private parts. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed
Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it.
Can I come and cuddle next to you?
That way you keep the dog off the settee, stay 1st and I get comfy boobies to rest my head against
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That will throw everything off! Then I will have to be the top of the top ten female humans on the settee! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Am I allowed to be top of the top ten list of people sitting on my settee right now please OP? I promise not to get big headed
Although I must specify that I mean humans. As otherwise the dog would win it.
How can you be top when I was there first and you plonked you fine tush on my private parts. "
That was on your settee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings?
I guess its natural.
I dont like this everyone is equal thing, when clearly we are not!
You know like when all the kids win at sports day?
Suck it up, its character building!
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Slightly different when it's a competitive thing.
I don't personally think we should be competing with each other on fab like that.
Different context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you  |
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
 love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you "
Yep, completely agree with you and just what I was thinking.
It's just banter, friendship and it really doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. I don't bat an eyelid when other people name who they like etc but some take it so badly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you "
People can still be horrible whether you're on a list or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you "
Such people were not worth bothering with anyway. At least you find out their true nature! |
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I don't take it personally if I'm not named on a list when someone is giving a shout out to others.
I know my worth and it doesn't come from being named on such a list.
I Think they're just meant to be a bit of friendly banter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you
Yep, completely agree with you and just what I was thinking.
It's just banter, friendship and it really doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. I don't bat an eyelid when other people name who they like etc but some take it so badly.
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You’re right that it’s just banter with no harm intended, and none felt by most people I’m sure.
But I think it’s right and fair to ask if the Forum should be seen as a competitive environment, especially at a time when plenty are struggling with loneliness and self esteem and perhaps joined Fab for some online company. I can see this is not so encouraging for newbies.
Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault ! |
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"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you
Yep, completely agree with you and just what I was thinking.
It's just banter, friendship and it really doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. I don't bat an eyelid when other people name who they like etc but some take it so badly.
You’re right that it’s just banter with no harm intended, and none felt by most people I’m sure.
But I think it’s right and fair to ask if the Forum should be seen as a competitive environment, especially at a time when plenty are struggling with loneliness and self esteem and perhaps joined Fab for some online company. I can see this is not so encouraging for newbies.
Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault ! "
Hmmmm I kinda assume the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault !
Hmmmm I kinda assume the same "
It’s an Aries thing ! (you mentioned your birthday in another thread, mine is the next day) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All getting namechecked in anything does is stick a target you didn't ask for on your back and make other people stop talking to you, or worse, be horrible about you
Such people were not worth bothering with anyway. At least you find out their true nature!"
Yep.. Keep smiling, keep having a laugh, don't take it too seriously.. We all need a bit of light hearted escapism until life returns to normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice to be recognised occasionally, but popularity contests aren't really my bag
I'm a content kinda guy, happy with my lot, aware of the fact I'm not a natural fit here and OK with that
I don't need nor want nor crave spotlighting
A 'Hi Bussy' once in a while is enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's nice to be recognised occasionally, but popularity contests aren't really my bag
I'm a content kinda guy, happy with my lot, aware of the fact I'm not a natural fit here and OK with that
I don't need nor want nor crave spotlighting
A 'Hi Bussy' once in a while is enough "
Hi Bussy |
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Personally I’m so competitive that if I can’t win then I assume the contest is at fault !
Hmmmm I kinda assume the same
It’s an Aries thing ! (you mentioned your birthday in another thread, mine is the next day) "
Really...oh wow
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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Oh dear, i love the post, however having not one competitive bone in my body i never have even wondered if i was in the top 10 for anything. Luckily i really don't mind.
I do however love the context of your post OP & agree, everybody is simply lovely just for who they are....
Mrs WD |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's nice to be recognised occasionally, but popularity contests aren't really my bag
I'm a content kinda guy, happy with my lot, aware of the fact I'm not a natural fit here and OK with that
I don't need nor want nor crave spotlighting
A 'Hi Bussy' once in a while is enough
Hi Bussy "
Evenin' H&H |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm top of the list of fabbers to block instantly
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If your HappyandHorny clap your hands..clap clap.
Apologies but that's been stuck in my head
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Songs involving the use of the word 'clap' are not advised on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If your HappyandHorny clap your hands..clap clap.
Apologies but that's been stuck in my head
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Those innocent memories of sing a longs at Scouts will never be the same again !
Also I’ve NEVER given anyone the clap and my solicitor can prove it |
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"Yes you reading this here right now.
You might not be in the top ten of something on fab, or the best of something on fab, or have the best whatever on fab.....
But you still count, are still sexy in your own way, still interesting even if you don't think it, and still liked by many.
Why do we have to have the best and top whatever of things anyway?
Aren't we all just a little bit naughty and all equal human beings? "
Well said i couldn't agree more especialy as i would never make a top 10 on fab |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Because validation either for ourselves or others in the hope they reciprocate.
I don’t view others as better than me anymore than I feel I am better than anyone else. Its just a matter of preferences.
Unless we are talking skill based comparisons, in which case yes there are some people who are better or more skilled then I am at a given thing. |
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