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He was on Graham Norton recently and mentioned that his analogy on relationships had broken up 371 marriages and heap of other relationships from those watching the programme.
If you want to test your own relationship. Watch it!!!
It is an eye opening discovery....
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"He was on Graham Norton recently and mentioned that his analogy on relationships had broken up 371 marriages and heap of other relationships from those watching the programme.
If you want to test your own relationship. Watch it!!!
It is an eye opening discovery....
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I saw it when I was in my relationship with my ex, and at the time it didn’t phase me. In hindsight though it’s so accurate it’s almost scary.
Oh and I’ve met him 3 times. Lovely guy, if a little crazy  |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?"
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it. |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."
This makes complete sense to me, especially as someone who did exactly that in my 20’s |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."
Thank you for explaining this. Yep, I agree  |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."
That's me screwed! I've been doing this for years and I still haven't found anyone lol! |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."
I kinda get it, it's what I did with my two exes, made allowances for their shitty behaviour and very much lost myself for 11years with one of them. |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."
Spot on  |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it.
I kinda get it, it's what I did with my two exes, made allowances for their shitty behaviour and very much lost myself for 11years with one of them."
Me too x |
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"Hmm. Never heard of him. What does he advocate?
Basically he suggests that the idea that we need to find “our person” and settle down as soon as humanly possible is toxic. We find a person (usually in our late teens or 20s) and even if they aren’t an exact fit to us, we try and push them into the jigsaw of our lives, losing part of ourselves in the process. We make allowances for things we shouldn’t and change ourselves to try and squash them into that space.
Instead he says we should celebrate loving ourselves and knowing ourselves, so that when/if “your person” comes along, you’re more likely to recognise it."
Can't agree more. |
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