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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good morning to each and every single one of you. I hope you are all well? You have had a good weekend so far? Today I posted a video non explicit about my mental health. Yesterday when I was working people realised that it wasn't just sleep which I was down about ( because I work nights ) they understood especially with me having a breakdown last year and being off work for several number of months, sometimes you can have a good day and sometimes you can have a bad day just because that person might be smiling and laughing doesn't actually mean that underneath they are feeling supersonic so to speak.
I've always said about mental health I've always said about being kind I've always said about try and feel good about yourself. If you don't feel good about yourself try and talk to someone there are people there to talk to to even at that point in time you don't think there is anyone.
I know that this is a sex site and I know many people on here do not like when I actually post something like this on the forum but it's not always about feel sorry for myself looking for attention I'm just basically saying it as it is. Life can be a b**** and life can be so hard and we just need to face the facts to just try and understand what people are going through.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good morning to each and every single one of you. I hope you are all well? You have had a good weekend so far? Today I posted a video non explicit about my mental health. Yesterday when I was working people realised that it wasn't just sleep which I was down about ( because I work nights ) they understood especially with me having a breakdown last year and being off work for several number of months, sometimes you can have a good day and sometimes you can have a bad day just because that person might be smiling and laughing doesn't actually mean that underneath they are feeling supersonic so to speak.
I've always said about mental health I've always said about being kind I've always said about try and feel good about yourself. If you don't feel good about yourself try and talk to someone there are people there to talk to to even at that point in time you don't think there is anyone.
I know that this is a sex site and I know many people on here do not like when I actually post something like this on the forum but it's not always about feel sorry for myself looking for attention I'm just basically saying it as it is. Life can be a b**** and life can be so hard and we just need to face the facts to just try and understand what people are going through. "
Hope you doing ok op. Mental health stigma is alive and well unfortunately even on here. Ya its a sex site but so what if you want to post that your having a down day. Its a good a place as any. Sometimes just a actually saying it can bring some relief. Its often easier to say it to a stranger than the people we are close to.
Lack of sleep is a nightmare, I work shift work and feel your pain.
Keep talking and be open about how you feel. Its good to talk. Sending you a virtual.hug x |
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Hi OP, yes you are right, some days can be harder than others, especially in these challenging times.
After a year in lockdown I recognise that my mental health has wobbled a few times.I've just signed up for some CBT councelling through the NHS, I'm presuming its going to be on line rather than face to face. Start in a couple of weeks time.
Hug of support to anyone who needs one.
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Finding appropriate people to help at the right time is so important. Your threads are very valuable OP please keep posting them, so many people are suffering at this time. Much love to all of you and hugs x |
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I was talking about this yesterday, about how mental health is still stigmatised, even though there is much more recognition and awareness around the subject.
It doesn’t matter how it is affecting you, everyone is different and will react differently, but talking about it can help.
I’ve struggled with it in the last year, and am finding this lockdown incredibly hard. I’m another one who puts on a smile and pretends to be ok, when I’m not.
I think posting here can only bring more awareness, to what can be a very difficult subject.
Hugs to you. |
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Mental health is massive issue my friend .every body will av issues in life .I know from experience with my ex wife ..2 my own breakup in oct were I came so close 2 ending it all ... we can b surrended by people yet ur alone .posting on here is good my friend stay strong actually crying as I text .u av my upmost respect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was talking about this yesterday, about how mental health is still stigmatised, even though there is much more recognition and awareness around the subject.
It doesn’t matter how it is affecting you, everyone is different and will react differently, but talking about it can help.
I’ve struggled with it in the last year, and am finding this lockdown incredibly hard. I’m another one who puts on a smile and pretends to be ok, when I’m not.
I think posting here can only bring more awareness, to what can be a very difficult subject.
Hugs to you. "
I've always said that it's always best to talk unfortunately some people don't like that but you just got to do what you feel is best that's why I did that video This Morning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was talking about this yesterday, about how mental health is still stigmatised, even though there is much more recognition and awareness around the subject.
It doesn’t matter how it is affecting you, everyone is different and will react differently, but talking about it can help.
I’ve struggled with it in the last year, and am finding this lockdown incredibly hard. I’m another one who puts on a smile and pretends to be ok, when I’m not.
I think posting here can only bring more awareness, to what can be a very difficult subject.
Hugs to you.
I've always said that it's always best to talk unfortunately some people don't like that but you just got to do what you feel is best that's why I did that video This Morning "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was talking about this yesterday, about how mental health is still stigmatised, even though there is much more recognition and awareness around the subject.
It doesn’t matter how it is affecting you, everyone is different and will react differently, but talking about it can help.
I’ve struggled with it in the last year, and am finding this lockdown incredibly hard. I’m another one who puts on a smile and pretends to be ok, when I’m not.
I think posting here can only bring more awareness, to what can be a very difficult subject.
Hugs to you.
I've always said that it's always best to talk unfortunately some people don't like that but you just got to do what you feel is best that's why I did that video This Morning
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