"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha "
In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.
I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"
My minge is baron.
My butterflies have emigrated.
My hope is hopeless. |
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"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha
In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.
I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"
My minge is baron.
My butterflies have emigrated.
My hope is hopeless."
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"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha
In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.
I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"
My minge is baron.
My butterflies have emigrated.
My hope is hopeless."
I am with you on that one. Love is wank |
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"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..  "
I recover from rejection in a heart beat
The show always goes on  |
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"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..
I recover from rejection in a heart beat
The show always goes on "
It's good to be resilient! Go you. |
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"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on"..
I recover from rejection in a heart beat
The show always goes on
It's good to be resilient! Go you. "
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated. "
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are. |
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are. "
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it"
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
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Exactly! I didn’t think I needed to ‘classify’ this either, but clearly I did  |
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
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But it doesn't matter how he was rejected, it still made him feel like shit
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it"
The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.
OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on 
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
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Oh, so if someone is depressed and you ask them what they are depressed about, but what they are depressed about doesn’t fit your view of what is worthy of being depressed about, then they should get a grip too ?!
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
Oh, so if someone is depressed and you ask them what they are depressed about, but what they are depressed about doesn’t fit your view of what is worthy of being depressed about, then they should get a grip too ?!
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.
OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on
Mr HH"
Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information
Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped |
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
But it doesn't matter how he was rejected, it still made him feel like shit
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
Of course it helps to classify it, if it's feelings of rejection because he doesn't get a reply to messages, he needs to get a grip, if it's rejection from someone who he was close to and is no longer wanted then some sympathy may be needed.
But it doesn't matter how he was rejected, it still made him feel like shit
I’m not going to argue, as it’s derailing the thread, and serving no purpose. "
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.
OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on
Mr HH
Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information
Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped"
Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.
OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on
Mr HH
Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information
Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped
Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.
Mr HH"
I disagree because the meanings don't change however the context. But I've made my point and that is that |
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.
OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on
Mr HH
Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information
Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped
Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.
Mr HH
I disagree because the meanings don't change however the context. But I've made my point and that is that"
The context is actually everything.
Meaning change depending on context, be it social, cultural, political or religious context.
For instance, the word fab doesn't have the same meaning on here that it does in the outside world of fab. We automatically link it to fabswinger. |
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"Rejection is awful on any level, but not a reflection on you! Or so people keep telling me haha
In my case it really ain't a reflection on the other person.
I ain't looking to meet at all or even connect with another person on any level other than "go for a pint somewhen sometime"
My minge is baron.
My butterflies have emigrated.
My hope is hopeless.
I am with you on that one. Love is wank"
I don’t think mine emigrated. I think mine died |
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Can I just say I am in no way feeling down or unwanted.
I was just pointing out that rejection is like a kick in the nuts but the show must go on
Being kicked in the nuts really does ticke |
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"Can I just say I am in no way feeling down or unwanted.
I was just pointing out that rejection is like a kick in the nuts but the show must go on
Being kicked in the nuts really does ticke "
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"Nah. It's not.
If you're not for them, they're not for you.
Lu  "
We live in a world where by if your face does not fit you ain't the 1
We also live in a world where by lots of relationships fail
I'm no rocket scientist or a mathematician but I do have the intelligence to see the entire set up is floored
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"Hugs. You will recover. Perhaps with a little scar, but who doesn't have them.. and "show must go on".. "
Off topic  ......but what is this new emoji thing? How can i do that one!? I'm still learning the ninja one  |
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"Nah. It's not.
If you're not for them, they're not for you.
Lu
We live in a world where by if your face does not fit you ain't the 1
We also live in a world where by lots of relationships fail
I'm no rocket scientist or a mathematician but I do have the intelligence to see the entire set up is floored
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I disagree.
We live in a world where lots of people are assholes.
But lots are good too.
If you give no time or energy to those who aren't for you, the world becomes a different place.
I've met many people who weren't for me. People who have insulted me, abused me, made me feel worthless.
Now I have a wonderful relationship with an incredible man who loves me for exactly who and what I am, and vice versa. And my friends are good people who are kind and supportive.
Sure the cunts are still there, but they waste a lot less of my brain space these days |
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"How are you classifying rejection?
Does it matter? It is how he feels and that should be validated.
Why do you think I wasn’t going to validate him?
I was merely asking to clarify.
I would never question whether someone’s feelings are valid or not, purely because they always are.
Then he doesn't need to classify it
The purpose of the forum is to discuss a thread - so asking for clarification is absolutely what needs to be done. Asking a question does not invalidate his feelings or imply they are wrong in anyway.
OP - rejection does suck but there are many reasons and a lot of them are nothing to do with you individually. You are so right, the show must go on
Mr HH
Clarity is different because you are asking for clear information
Classify is putting something in a group. Rejection can't be grouped
Clarity and classification, in this case, are the same thing - what the OP sees as being rejected. Neither of these bring into question why he feels rejected or belittles his feelings of rejection.
Mr HH
I disagree because the meanings don't change however the context. But I've made my point and that is that
The context is actually everything.
Meaning change depending on context, be it social, cultural, political or religious context.
For instance, the word fab doesn't have the same meaning on here that it does in the outside world of fab. We automatically link it to fabswinger. "
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