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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A fresh hair always gives me that feeling, along with stuff like a nice fitting new Shirt/Waistcoat. Sometimes its just a day or moment where im feeling good. |
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When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would  . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though. |
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb  "
I think wearing clothes that fit well, nice boxers and a spray of aftershave help but most of all getting a nice smile from a pretty lady. It gives me a serious confidence boost!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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shirt, smart jeans & shoes ,best cologne in a nice bar with a whiskey in a cut glass.
You know that feeling of being chilled yet you've made a real effort for the night.. damn i miss that   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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agree with a lot of the above to be fair... fresh trim, quality clothes and knowing I made the effort for the night... coupled with finally making eye contact with a gorgeous woman across the bar having played glance tennis for a while! |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though."
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too . |
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "
A couple of things. Looking at myself post-workout (vain, I know!)
And when I think my hair and outfit is on point when going out |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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" shirt, smart jeans & shoes ,best cologne in a nice bar with a whiskey in a cut glass.
You know that feeling of being chilled yet you've made a real effort for the night.. damn i miss that "
You'll have it again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too . "
I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb
A couple of things. Looking at myself post-workout (vain, I know!)
And when I think my hair and outfit is on point when going out "
Nothing wrong with appreciating ur body once u done ur work out bet it’s nice  |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .
I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more."
That makes sense  |
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too . "
I know what you mean by a sensual ritual. Mines buying Extra Strong Mints from the petrol station on my way out. Oh and trimming my bits. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb
Not a lot these days sadly "
Aww come on you, put on your best pants, some sexy music and tell yourself you're sex on legs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Attractive (or as near as I can get) - fresh shave and shower, feeling in good shape, good smart clothes and shoes, being in a good mood.
Sexually attractive- I only feel that in close sexual/physical situations, someone responding to my kiss and touch, obvious arousal.
Better have a lie down now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess being in the gym, or when I finish my workout and I put on a t shirt that shows off my arms. Before the pandemic, I used to enjoy walking into a pub and taking my jacket off and having women watch me and then at least one or will walk up to me and pay me a few compliments about my body, my hair and face etc.
It was a lovely feeling. Oh how I miss the good ole days |
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb
Not a lot these days sadly
Aww come on you, put on your best pants, some sexy music and tell yourself you're sex on legs "
Why not? I’ll give it a go |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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THE most sexualising thing I've found about myself is when you're kissing and just pull away for a second to come up for air, the girl leans in lustfully to carry on. Or grabs you for a hard passionate snog.
That just gets me going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .
I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.
That makes sense "
As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful. |
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"I guess being in the gym, or when I finish my workout and I put on a t shirt that shows off my arms. Before the pandemic, I used to enjoy walking into a pub and taking my jacket off and having women watch me and then at least one or will walk up to me and pay me a few compliments about my body, my hair and face etc.
It was a lovely feeling. Oh how I miss the good ole days "
Can’t beat a good arm pump before heading out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "
A good shave, a well fitted suit, nice neat haircut and sparkling conversation/ flirty innuendo with a partner whilst sharing a whisky |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .
I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.
That makes sense
As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful."
Good for you doc! I find it interesting so many of these answers are more about interaction with another person than an internal feeling. I'm very much the same as you and can feel sexy any day. Certain music, dancing naked, a nice shower, certain clothes or underwear, even just writhing under my bed sheets on a weekend morning . |
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "
I’ve never had that feeling
I hate what I see in the mirror or pics
And most women seem to agree |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb
I’ve never had that feeling
I hate what I see in the mirror or pics
And most women seem to agree "
Concentrate on those who like what they see. Some women love a big, broad bloke who makes them feel all small and delicate in comparison |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Chopping wood! It's really hard work, better than most workouts, and feels really productive and masculine, if that makes sense!
Watching a man doing man jobs is quite hot  "
Watching male doctors doctor is hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "
Reading this again I would differentiate between confidence and feeling sexy, or ‘like a sex bomb’ !
Confidence in your own body and personality is almost always attractive and the sexiness for another person flows from that. But feeling that about yourself is something I don’t recognise, but fair play to those that do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing makes me feel sexy...
Id be more inclined to want to feel happy over sexy anyway neither have been the case for so long i forgot what it even feels like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is a fundamental difference here where women can get dressed all up, make a REAL effort,look in a mirror and think I look amazing.
Correct me if I am wrong fellas, I haven’t ever looked in the mirror and thought I look great. Normally the feeling comes from the prep and process before a meet, so picking your clothing, getting in the shower to get ready, trying to get that shave perfect...
It is more in the prep than the finished article for men than it is for women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb
A couple of things. Looking at myself post-workout (vain, I know!)
And when I think my hair and outfit is on point when going out
Nothing wrong with appreciating ur body once u done ur work out bet it’s nice "
Oh definitely, at least until the pump wears off 2 hours later |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't ever feel sexy
I don't think I know how to
I have never found myself attractive
I was the fat kid at school
I've never escaped that mentality
I have, however, built on it and I do have plenty of confidence
My weight will always be an issue mentally more than it is physically
I can feel better in myself wearing certain clothes, but I still don't feel 'sexy'
That's too much of a step |
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I feel sexy/good (most of the time) when I am going to work, earlier in the morning due to the the crisp shirt, wool pants, tie and matching belt and shoes and the freshly sprayed cologne.
Sexier if I put on my waistcoat as well (only wear them occasionally due to the heat/humidity here)
The feeling last only for 1-2 hours though  |
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"Do you mean what gives us sexual confidence or what puts us in the mood for getting frisky?
As in what makes you feel sexually attractive and like a sex bomb "
Messages like “You still own my pussy” the day after our meet are very empowering...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .
I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.
That makes sense
As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful.
Good for you doc! I find it interesting so many of these answers are more about interaction with another person than an internal feeling. I'm very much the same as you and can feel sexy any day. Certain music, dancing naked, a nice shower, certain clothes or underwear, even just writhing under my bed sheets on a weekend morning . "
Yes It definitely feels good when it is a state you can begin to access at will. It’s interesting how just responding to you on this thread I feel myself accessing it. I can feel my body change in how warm it feels to me. Until this thread I hadn’t really given it much conscious thought. I’d just been doing things that helped me feel really good. It is definitely the daily practice of doing this things that care for yourself, value yourself and to an extent endeavour to do that for others too, albeit that doesn’t always work. Thank you Lacey this thread has helped me a bit more as I am more conscious of things I am doing regularly without having acknowledged that’s what I have been doing. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When a woman gives me that look that says I want to ravish you is probably the most consistent, even more so when it’s in an inappropriate context. Being watched intently when doing anything when it’s obvious there is a sexual charge. When I look in the mirror and think I would . Posing for any photo and seeing a very positive result. And doing anything that involves me in an erotic scenario, including taking photos for sexual purposes. And for some weird reason mindful depilation of my body including shaving my face and head. The important word is mindful though.
I know what you mean. When I have a shower and shave my legs and things before going to meet someone when I know I'm highly likely to get fucked or if I'm getting ready to go to a club, it's almost like a sensual ritual and I finish looking and feeling my best. The silky smooth feeling is good too .
I don’t often do it in the context of meeting anyone as I meet infrequently, I think it is because it more of an act of self love. Particularly when I do it mindfully. I do it as it helps me maintain a good degree of self esteem sexually, even when I haven’t met anyone for sex for a year or more.
That makes sense
As a result I can feel sexy on a daily basis and don’t have to be doing anything special to get that feeling. I can just be sat chatting on here and feel sexy. It’s definitely a habit that creates a frame of mind. It is something I’ve developed more intentionally during the pandemic, as long term celibacy was once again on the cards. Finding ways to continually boost my self esteem has meant that days when I feel crappy have been limited to less than a handful.
Good for you doc! I find it interesting so many of these answers are more about interaction with another person than an internal feeling. I'm very much the same as you and can feel sexy any day. Certain music, dancing naked, a nice shower, certain clothes or underwear, even just writhing under my bed sheets on a weekend morning .
Yes It definitely feels good when it is a state you can begin to access at will. It’s interesting how just responding to you on this thread I feel myself accessing it. I can feel my body change in how warm it feels to me. Until this thread I hadn’t really given it much conscious thought. I’d just been doing things that helped me feel really good. It is definitely the daily practice of doing this things that care for yourself, value yourself and to an extent endeavour to do that for others too, albeit that doesn’t always work. Thank you Lacey this thread has helped me a bit more as I am more conscious of things I am doing regularly without having acknowledged that’s what I have been doing."
Aww you're welcome! Keep tapping into the sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy "
Men know your limits |
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"Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy
Men know your limits "
Disclaimer; feeling sexy is likely to lead to unwanted judgement and copious (daily) threads about how you are doing sexy “wrong”. Men! Get a grip (or rather, don’t) |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Taking pictures of my body and knob but apparently that’s frowned upon round here so I shall have to resign myself to feeling unsexy "
Take all the willy pics you want! Just don't send them to people who don't want them |
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"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.
I hooe you get it back soon"
Thank you but I am in the depths of the emotional glums at the moment since the middle of last year.
Just need to get my head back into a positive attitude and am sure things will get back.
Thank you anyway.
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.
I hooe you get it back soon
Thank you but I am in the depths of the emotional glums at the moment since the middle of last year.
Just need to get my head back into a positive attitude and am sure things will get back.
Thank you anyway.
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Sending hugs! You'll get there. Be kind to yourself. |
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"I'm not feeling very sexy at the moment.
I hooe you get it back soon
Thank you but I am in the depths of the emotional glums at the moment since the middle of last year.
Just need to get my head back into a positive attitude and am sure things will get back.
Thank you anyway.
Sending hugs! You'll get there. Be kind to yourself. "
Awe bless you thanks a hug on a wet cold Sunday morning is enough to cheer anyone up xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was going to bring sexy back, but some idiots have panic bought it and there’s none on the shelves, but there’s loads of frumpy, awkward, provocative, sultry and slinky left. |
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