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1st 3some experience or newbies?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Planning my first 3some and originally I planned a experienced married couple to show me the way, however now I'm wondering if it's best to start with fellow newbie's.
Who did you start with,any advice would be great x |
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Club . Made it much easier as felt no pressure to play if didn’t want to . Attended a few time before finding by the right guy. So difficult just meeting people as the expectations on there side can be so high especially if their experienced the pressure on you can be intense . Take your time pick your moment x |
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Absolutely you need to feel comfortable with them more than how it is all going to go down and hopefully they have some experience too and know to include everyone equally.
Communication beforehand is important too so they know what you like and you know what they want too.
Most of all try to relax and enjoy it as its epic fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go with what makes you feel good about it. Though some experience will be better and less fumbled.
Id happily have a 3 some with you, you look fantastic x |
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"Planning my first 3some and originally I planned a experienced married couple to show me the way, however now I'm wondering if it's best to start with fellow newbie's.
Who did you start with,any advice would be great x"
It's really about the people you are with. Don't worry too much about experience. There will always be a learning curve. You don't have to do things the way everybody else has done them. Find your own way with the people you most want to be intimate with.
You can start with us if you like.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I remember one of my first threesomes feeling like a toy being tugged between two kids. I learned from it if nothing else!
I'd say if you've got banter with people, it will likely flow easier from there. If conversation feels awkward, sex isn't going to be much better.
Also, message people/hunt for yourself. Find things in profiles that makes you smile and you can connect with. Sifting through endless incoming lazy messages gets draining after a while. And don't worry about rejections, no one is everyone's cup of tea plus, you're hot  |
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"Go with people you are comfortable with, don't worry about their level of experience. If you are comfortable, everything else will happen naturally "
this is exactly right , being comfortable is the most important aspect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Get to know the people well ... or if your lucky do it with friends, as it will make the situation much more relaxed. And communication obviously is key too. As long as you know your boundaries and theirs ... and what you all overall like and enjoy, you'll have a blast. As another member said in this thread earlier it will all come naturally. Don't think too much about it, as your brain will keep making up theories about how it might go down and you'll make it more daunting for yourself. Hope this helps happy shagging lol. x |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
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My first threesome was MFF with 2 girls I knew but was not really involved with one of them had a bf I was her bit on the side. The other was a mates gf, all the lads had gone to Spain on hols back in the day me being a student couldn’t afford to go.
Their was a party all the lads had left early hour for the airport I was left with the girl I was sort of seeing and my mates then gf.
I went to the shop for cigs came back and they were in bed told me I had to get naked before I could get in
Thought they were taking the piss but went for it when I got in they were both starkers, happy days let’s just say didn’t get out of bed until 3 in the afternoon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My first threesome was with 2 guys I'd met at a club (nilla club)....it was horrendous.
My second was with 2 friends and was lots of fun!
My advice would be to indulge with people you're comfortable with...and people you've already played with.
Lu |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice is to get to know a couple first and build up a comfortable relationship.
Knowing that you can talk about anything any of you are uncomfortable with is very reassuring.
Be sure there’s attraction between all.
Good luck |
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My first threesome was with two people who had previous threesome and group sex experience but we had all met each other at the same time a few weeks prior so we were all on more of a level pegging than it being a couple and a single . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Planning my first 3some and originally I planned a experienced married couple to show me the way, however now I'm wondering if it's best to start with fellow newbie's.
Who did you start with,any advice would be great x"
Why do you want a 3some? What appeals about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Planning my first 3some and originally I planned a experienced married couple to show me the way, however now I'm wondering if it's best to start with fellow newbie's.
Who did you start with,any advice would be great x
Why do you want a 3some? What appeals about it?"
That wasn't the question. Be nice. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Planning my first 3some and originally I planned a experienced married couple to show me the way, however now I'm wondering if it's best to start with fellow newbie's.
Who did you start with,any advice would be great x
Why do you want a 3some? What appeals about it?
That wasn't the question. Be nice. Lol"
I am being nice ffs.
The reasons I want a 3some will be different to other people's. The OP's wants and desires are important.
A 3some with a random fuck off the internet is very different fron a 3some with a couple. Or 3 friends. Etc |
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