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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there someone on fab or in life in general who you want, crave, need but for whatever reason (with or without covid) you just can't have in the way you want?
It is very frustrating both mentally and vaginally  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes sort of but it's manageableish. I'm focusing on the positive rather than the frustration atm.
P.S OP. Man.tox. "
I am trying, I promise but the call of the penis is strong |
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By *asher11Man
over a year ago
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"Is there someone on fab or in life in general who you want, crave, need but for whatever reason (with or without covid) you just can't have in the way you want?
It is very frustrating both mentally and vaginally "
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There is one particular person on Fab who we both massively fancy. We all get on well and have been happily exchanging messages, but whilst it is possible we could meet socially one day it is unlikely anything else will happen for a number of reasons.
It doesn't stop us from fancying her though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it. "
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!  |
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know! "
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you 
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha "
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!  |
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"I didnt realise so many women (and some men) could stop their feelings. I need to get on board with this
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It’s never an easy thing to do Lily, I think you just have to out weigh the way it makes you feel.
If these feelings don’t make you feel good or happy...why hold on to it right?
I do hope you’re ok, time does make things better or that’s what I’ve been telling myself but a long way to go still |
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog! "
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I’m just grateful to be free from this torture over the last year or so - I went through a couple of massive bouts of this in recent years.
I seem to be worse as I get older - a right emotional, loverlorn numpty . |
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"My previous fwb moved away  very frustrating time "
It's almost the 1 year anniversary since mine moved. I'd got back from Tenerife and we lay in bed, laughing, as he filled me in on folk stockpiling loo rolls...
Let's just say that my heart was broken right as we went into lockdown. Which was nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly "
Only if you promise to repeat my scottish terms in your best scottish accent! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thinking I’m greedy because there is a couple that come to mind... I have what I need though so I’m a lucky girl
We all crave things that are hard to get |
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly
Only if you promise to repeat my scottish terms in your best scottish accent! x"
Done deal
I’ll send you a clip of my best Scottish accent too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly
Only if you promise to repeat my scottish terms in your best scottish accent! x
Done deal
I’ll send you a clip of my best Scottish accent too "
Oh please do! Tell me you you're gonna lash the gums on me with a powerful shnecky!!  |
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly
Only if you promise to repeat my scottish terms in your best scottish accent! x
Done deal
I’ll send you a clip of my best Scottish accent too
Oh please do! Tell me you you're gonna lash the gums on me with a powerful shnecky!! "
Hahaha I’m giggling just reading that, don’t even know how I’ll sound actually saying it |
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us."
Can you start up a class for all those that quite simply aren’t learning fast enough Sparkles, I’d need to be in front of the class for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly
Only if you promise to repeat my scottish terms in your best scottish accent! x
Done deal
I’ll send you a clip of my best Scottish accent too
Oh please do! Tell me you you're gonna lash the gums on me with a powerful shnecky!!
Hahaha I’m giggling just reading that, don’t even know how I’ll sound actually saying it"
Give it a bash....play with your boobs when you video it and It'll make my year!! |
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"There has been , my heart is currently shut so I'm ok
There has been yes but like you’ve I’ve shut it closed and chucked away the key....no point in dwelling over it.
I'm only a 10 hour drive! You can pop up and lash the gums on me anytime ya know!
I’m driving skills are atrocious might take me 20 hours if that’s ok with you
Lash the gums?? I know I don’t smile In my pictures but I do have teeth, you know
Or Is that a saying I’m unaware of haha
Haha....its a Scottish term for a really big snog!
Hahaha oh well that’s why I’m oblivious to that term.
We need to have a chat about these terms more so that way I don’t look so silly
Only if you promise to repeat my scottish terms in your best scottish accent! x
Done deal
I’ll send you a clip of my best Scottish accent too
Oh please do! Tell me you you're gonna lash the gums on me with a powerful shnecky!!
Hahaha I’m giggling just reading that, don’t even know how I’ll sound actually saying it
Give it a bash....play with your boobs when you video it and It'll make my year!! "
I know you too well Mr Bants |
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
Can you start up a class for all those that quite simply aren’t learning fast enough Sparkles, I’d need to be in front of the class for that. "
You are still young |
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
Can you start up a class for all those that quite simply aren’t learning fast enough Sparkles, I’d need to be in front of the class for that.
You are still young "
I’m not feeling that young
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
Can you start up a class for all those that quite simply aren’t learning fast enough Sparkles, I’d need to be in front of the class for that.
You are still young
I’m not feeling that young
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I'm not feeling anything..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us."
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality. "
I'm craving a tin of tomato soup......wedged inbetween a big pair of knockers |
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality. "
I guess its because I've never "chased" a man as such. If you don't do it then you can't be disappointed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality.
I'm craving a tin of tomato soup......wedged inbetween a big pair of knockers "
!! Ah well, sometimes we do get what we want eh Bants?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not felt like that for a good while. It can be both wonderful and terrible. I'm not planning on feeling like that again any time soon!"
I second that, it is both a wonderful feel and can eat you up at the same time when things start to go the wrong way.
Sometimes I miss that feeling of wanting someone so bad that you almost can’t function but then again I think, most of the time it’s not worth it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality.
I'm craving a tin of tomato soup......wedged inbetween a big pair of knockers
!! Ah well, sometimes we do get what we want eh Bants?! "
All I would like is to have a few friends on here.. but as they say you can't always get what you want.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality.
I guess its because I've never "chased" a man as such. If you don't do it then you can't be disappointed x"
Aaah I think I was coming at it from a different angle. I was thinking more of the frustration of when it's there on a plate but you can't have it because of circumstances! |
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Not just one lily lots. a whole year of long distance fab weekends away to catch up on with various people, we all still chat regularly though so once travel restrictions are lifted and it's deemed safe to do so, I will get what I want and sometimes get what I need x |
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Only really the ex when he was working away. I would physically ache for him the day he left mine and then if it was more than a fortnight before I saw him in the flesh again.
I plan on never letting myself ache for another human in that way again.
Closed for business. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Is there someone on fab or in life in general who you want, crave, need but for whatever reason (with or without covid) you just can't have in the way you want?
It is very frustrating both mentally and vaginally "
No. I try not to deal in fantasies. If there is no hope of meeting or doing anything together then I don’t think about it. It doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t do something if they showed interest, but unrequited attention can lead to bad behaviour in my experience (abuse, stalking, passive aggressiveness etc.). |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality.
I guess its because I've never "chased" a man as such. If you don't do it then you can't be disappointed x
Aaah I think I was coming at it from a different angle. I was thinking more of the frustration of when it's there on a plate but you can't have it because of circumstances! "
Yes; that's what I meant. If something won't happen; I don't think about it. I've never had unrequited lust for another, my vagina dries up at the hint of someone not being interested in me out of self protection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past yes, the want still might arise, but have learnt not to allow things i have no control over become anythong more than just a thought or affect my mindset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never needed/craved anyone from here. Learned a long time ago that some things are just not meant for us.
100% agree that sometimes it's just tough luck, but still soooooo annoying. Generally it's someone that seems great but is already attached, so they're probably not worth craving in reality.
I guess its because I've never "chased" a man as such. If you don't do it then you can't be disappointed x
Aaah I think I was coming at it from a different angle. I was thinking more of the frustration of when it's there on a plate but you can't have it because of circumstances!
Yes; that's what I meant. If something won't happen; I don't think about it. I've never had unrequited lust for another, my vagina dries up at the hint of someone not being interested in me out of self protection. "
Is your vagina a possum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only really the ex when he was working away. I would physically ache for him the day he left mine and then if it was more than a fortnight before I saw him in the flesh again.
I plan on never letting myself ache for another human in that way again.
Closed for business."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’m getting better day by day at handling frustrations such as this. On an off day I hide, give my head a wobble, and return again when I am feeling more in balance. Head wobbling like a weeble definitely helps my balance. Weebles wobble but they don’t fall down after all |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
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"My previous fwb moved away very frustrating time "
Mine is moving away in about a month. We're both gutted but circumstances dictate and it can't be changed.
Already feeling sick at the thought of not being able to see her again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup.
But absence makes the heart grow fonder.
I’m banking on some explosive get togethers as soon as restrictions allow.
Good things come to those who wait. |
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