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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How significant is the difference in feeling, when a partner used a condom vs without a condom?
Of course nearly all guys say it’s night and day difference, some guys say they can’t cum with a condom on, but is it a massive difference in terms of feeling for you women?
I’m aware some people will talk about pleasure and climax not being an issue with or without a condom but I’m thinking more about the physical feeling during sex.
An old play partner really hated the ribbed ones or dotted. Said they were really uncomfortable where as I can barely feel them at all. |
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My gf loves sex with a condom, the sound of the ripping of the foil, the stretching of the condom, the smell of the lube and the rubber... All have a massive connection with her which heightens the experience. She always puts it down to when she spent a few years being extra naughty with a teacher while she was married. Amazing how powerful the mind can be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My gf loves sex with a condom, the sound of the ripping of the foil, the stretching of the condom, the smell of the lube and the rubber... All have a massive connection with her which heightens the experience. She always puts it down to when she spent a few years being extra naughty with a teacher while she was married. Amazing how powerful the mind can be. "
Absolutely agree with you there re’ the mind. Sounds like you’re both quite reflective in your sexual exploration too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation. "
Yeah, as a guy I can really tell. Thought it may be different for women but it seems varied. |
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"Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation.
Yeah, as a guy I can really tell. Thought it may be different for women but it seems varied. "
Skins condoms are wafer thin, I'm quite sure I'd not know if my eyes were closed. I'm not gonna test it out tho! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Both of us can feel a marked difference in sensation.
Yeah, as a guy I can really tell. Thought it may be different for women but it seems varied.
Skins condoms are wafer thin, I'm quite sure I'd not know if my eyes were closed. I'm not gonna test it out tho!"
I’ve never used skins. As a default I go for durex extra safe  |
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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago
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So different for me!!! I really feel the difference with a guy wearing a condom and hate both the feel and knowing that it’s there! But needs must of course! But still so much better without  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here. Condoms do spoil sex considerably for me, always prefer without. Him also cumming inside gives a feeling of satisfaction that can't be matched by anything else xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. |
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"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. "
I do understand that bit. I didn't know if it was me or just the lack of pre-splodge on his part. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I prefer without. With can be okay .... but if you have a good stayer and he has a condom on then I have to prepare for smoke........ y know....
Give me an unsheathed quick cummer n im happy."
That's a problem I have with some condoms. They dry me out, and some make me itch. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. "
I get it with some condoms; especially the extra safe ones.
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"I prefer without. With can be okay .... but if you have a good stayer and he has a condom on then I have to prepare for smoke........ y know....
Give me an unsheathed quick cummer n im happy.
That's a problem I have with some condoms. They dry me out, and some make me itch."
I know. I might start a new line made out of Marigold Gloves...... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.
I do understand that bit. I didn't know if it was me or just the lack of pre-splodge on his part. "
Ha, pre-splodge. Yes, I get similar but it's fine, lube makes everything better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.
I do understand that bit. I didn't know if it was me or just the lack of pre-splodge on his part. "
they just seem to suck up all the wetness no matter how much of it there was to start with. |
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100% prefer without... the feeling is so much better. And the little twitches and warm feeling when they cum wouldn't sleep with anyone unless in a relationship without tho. Better safe than sorry  |
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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago
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"Same here. Condoms do spoil sex considerably for me, always prefer without. Him also cumming inside gives a feeling of satisfaction that can't be matched by anything else xx"
Absolutely agree....that feeling of being filled when a guy cums....soooooooo good!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly for me i actually don't mind condoms 1 bit. Zero clean up after, it feels different but not in a bad way at all, gives piece of mind, not forcing anyone to turn into a nutter on the pill. The only down fall is putting it on, stopping foreplay to unwrap and slide one on can sometimes be a little awkward.
I think men should stop worrying so much about condoms. |
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"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying. "
I need lube anyway nowadays but later condoms used to cause soreness. Skyns are pretty good but there's still that difference in sensation for me. But we all feel things differently  |
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"Much nicer without! You can feel more and I don't know if other women get this but condoms seem to affect my natural lubricant and lube is needed which is really annoying.
I need lube anyway nowadays but later condoms used to cause soreness. Skyns are pretty good but there's still that difference in sensation for me. But we all feel things differently "
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It depends on the type of condom, but there's not much difference in feel with any. As mentioned above, some can cause dryness. And I don't particularly like the smell of them. But they're a necessity unless I'm with a regular partner and we both have regular tests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without feels better x a lot of it is in the head I think
Tho I’ve noticed with condoms I tend to feel a slight burning feel maybe due to latex and I get sore a bit easier x
Ideally without is the best but yeah, I still mostly do safe unless it’s a regular guy I trust x |
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