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Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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I'm not gonna lie, I got freaked out by it thinking someone was targeting me for some kind of revenge or something.
Creeped me out and concerned me.
I don't want anyone getting upset or concerned by it, so putting the shout out just not to respond and block. |
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"I’ve recently had quite a few random kik messages - I just block "
I don't use kik prickles
That's why it got me on edge, saying they'd spoken to me on kik and thanked me for giving them my fab profile name.
Would be like if someone said they'd seen me on a dating site or something, I'd be thinking someone had stolen my pics etc and got in a panic |
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"Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked  "
They'll say it just to get talking initially. When you suss them out they've already opened convo and now they get through filters unless you block them.
Try to palm it off with "oh my mistake, I'm sorry, anyway what you up to?"
Or something like that |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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It's not a new low, it's a long established one |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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Yep I have had this a couple of times nows
Had some say 'oh we spoke at so and so club' to. Then giving a name of a club I have never been to in my life
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
It's not a new low, it's a long established one "
I'd not had that one before. Plenty of others but not one that made me think I was on the end of some revenge malarkey! |
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"Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked "
I think they believe that they will get some kind of response and then maybe say something along the line says it was a mistake and see if that then leads to a conversation. |
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"I've had this a few times this week (hence hiding my profile for a bit).
It's usually 'Hey Jess (or any other random name), didn't know you were on here.. Recognised you straight away hun!' 
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I've one that's convinced I'm called Sam. Hi Sam....
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"Why would men pretend to know you?? Surely that's never worked
I think they believe that they will get some kind of response and then maybe say something along the line says it was a mistake and see if that then leads to a conversation."
Thats EXACTLY what it is.
Creepy as fuck |
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I've had a load of "Hi remember me/hello again" messages in the last few months.
Now I know I'm going a bit senile so initially I was thinking wtf?
But the penny finally dropped due to the sheer number with similar messages, as I just don't chat to randoms and never have. Now realise it's a ruse to try to get me talking/responding.
Feck off fella  |
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I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
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I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge. |
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well  "
i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion |
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"I've had this a few times this week (hence hiding my profile for a bit).
It's usually 'Hey Jess (or any other random name), didn't know you were on here.. Recognised you straight away hun!'
I've one that's convinced I'm called Sam. Hi Sam....
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Well he turned out to be a muppet, your name is clearly peach! You have a royal title however so I hope he addresses you as _rincess peach!
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Funny anuff you should say this I had something similar about 3/4 weeks ago
The message went hello not shour if you remember me
We meet dodging a couple off years ago at xxx spot
Witch straight away new was a lie as I have never been dodging before in my life
One I don’t drive any two I never found someone I trust to take me and not leave me there or something
Never thought anything more to it till up I read ur post x
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"There's a lot of bizarre tricks to get people to reply. "
Going in on a lie that's specifically meant to confuse you or frighten you is grim as fuck tho. There's bizarre and there's down right twisted |
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"There's a lot of bizarre tricks to get people to reply.
Going in on a lie that's specifically meant to confuse you or frighten you is grim as fuck tho. There's bizarre and there's down right twisted "
Oh it's all manipulative. Ugh |
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion "
Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point |
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion
Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point "
Ooh red flag |
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion
Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point
Ooh red flag"
I will have you know this is a very important question no point in asking you :
“Why is it a toothbrush and not teethbrush?”
“Why does Fred Flinstone drive with his feet, surely its easier to walk than carry a half ton car, barney,wilma,kids and dino?”
“Why does Drake want kiki to love him when he only loves his bed and his mom, he”s sorry!?”
But to get to these questions I have to know if I can ask you them!
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion
Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point
Ooh red flag
I will have you know this is a very important question no point in asking you :
“Why is it a toothbrush and not teethbrush?”
“Why does Fred Flinstone drive with his feet, surely its easier to walk than carry a half ton car, barney,wilma,kids and dino?”
“Why does Drake want kiki to love him when he only loves his bed and his mom, he”s sorry!?”
But to get to these questions I have to know if I can ask you them!
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We know perfectly well that the question that follows "do you mind if I ask you a question" will probably require copious amounts of brain bleach and a trip to Lourdes to exorcise  |
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion
Please don't say you start off with "do you mind if I ask a question?" because usually that's a bad initial starting point
Ooh red flag
I will have you know this is a very important question no point in asking you :
“Why is it a toothbrush and not teethbrush?”
“Why does Fred Flinstone drive with his feet, surely its easier to walk than carry a half ton car, barney,wilma,kids and dino?”
“Why does Drake want kiki to love him when he only loves his bed and his mom, he”s sorry!?”
But to get to these questions I have to know if I can ask you them!
We know perfectly well that the question that follows "do you mind if I ask you a question" will probably require copious amounts of brain bleach and a trip to Lourdes to exorcise "
Yes.
"The fact that I asked you a question so diabolical that it makes you puke is entirely mitigated by the fact that I sought your permission. I have manners, ungrateful woman" |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge."
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour "
Come meet me and you'll find out....
Erm , no creepoid! |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour
Come meet me and you'll find out....
Erm , no creepoid! "
I ask them questions about me.
So far, it's never actually been me and they're so sorry for trying to trick me. Block
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I've not had these ones yet but had an influx of very descriptive messages of what they "are going to do to me" or being told that I WILL screw them, I just don't know it yet  |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
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I had this one, only the time he claimed it happened I was in Hong Kong.
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"I've not had these ones yet but had an influx of very descriptive messages of what they "are going to do to me" or being told that I WILL screw them, I just don't know it yet "
Oh hate. "When we're alone..." I look to see how long the message is, see it's a wall o' text, and delete |
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"Weird.
I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark "
Has anyone told LVM of your black cock only preference?! |
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"Weird.
I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark
Has anyone told LVM of your black cock only preference?! "
Have you not seen his massive black cock yet? I will ask him to pm you it if you want |
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"Weird.
I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark
Has anyone told LVM of your black cock only preference?!
Have you not seen his massive black cock yet? I will ask him to pm you it if you want "
Actually I had seen it, but having it up close and personal in my inbox would be splendid 
You're a lucky woman |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour
Come meet me and you'll find out....
Erm , no creepoid! "
"Creepoid" lol. I like that |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I had this one, only the time he claimed it happened I was in Hong Kong.
Block "
Oooh,I wonder if it's the same one. It's such an odd approach |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour
Come meet me and you'll find out....
Erm , no creepoid!
I ask them questions about me.
So far, it's never actually been me and they're so sorry for trying to trick me. Block
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I also get "Long time, no speak" or "we spoke ages ago". From faceless guys I've absolutely never spoken to. Even verifications off people I've never met, in the hope I'll return the favour |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour
Come meet me and you'll find out....
Erm , no creepoid!
I ask them questions about me.
So far, it's never actually been me and they're so sorry for trying to trick me. Block
I also get "Long time, no speak" or "we spoke ages ago". From faceless guys I've absolutely never spoken to. Even verifications off people I've never met, in the hope I'll return the favour "
I messaged you once before after seeing you on the hot pics....think I got an instant delete! .
You're still on my hotlist though.  |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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Have/had a stalker (been quiet for a while tf & one good thing bout covid for me)
Remember me usually gets a instant delete unless I genuinely remember them...I do have quite a shitty memory with both names & faces though. !- |
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"I'm just gonna stick to my copy and paste tactic.....seems to work fairly well i tend to ask really random questions, I've found it start a great conversion "
I always ignore random questions
I’ve also turned off single men messaging, but thanks for the heads up. |
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"On behalf of the decent single guys on here, I apologise for the fuckwits that give us a bad name "
Agree, no wonder when us genuine guys see something that takes our fancy only to click on the message button to reveal the filters active  |
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"Weird.
I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark "
I'd like a dildo like that. |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
I have a friend on here, this very stunt happened to her.
Sad at how low people will go. But fir what? They will only get found out.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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This happened to a friend of mine on here.
Sad and disturbing how low people will go on here. |
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Another reason not to be on kik.
Deceitfulness doesn't bode well for a good meet does it?!
Such underhanded tactics will result in a block from us. It's no better than a phishing email - maybe these people should be reported?
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"Weird.
I just had someone telling me that a woman from fab told them I only take black cock. That's not true, my dildo is pink and glow in the dark
I'd like a dildo like that."
It's from Lovehoney. I am sure they have different colours and lengths too |
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"I've had a similar message today, saying hello stranger, I came and watched through your window, do you remember me.. I was like wtf"
Would “Hello stranger, I watched and came through your window, do you remember me?” have been better? Asking for a friend...... |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour "
This is to be expected when you put your face on public display on your profile, surely? Tattoos make you recognisable too. I’m not excusing this shitty behaviour, and I’ve had my share of it, including someone using my Fab profile pics to create a profile in kik....... |
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"Ooh they’re absolute tinkers!
It’s laughable when have the gall to complain we don’t reply. "
Yes, the follow up message of us being rude
Oh baby oh baby I adore manipulation, take me you gorgeous hunk of man meat |
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I've had men from here find me on kik as they know I have men blocked and then try to say we've met in the past.
Like fuck have we, I've never met men ever.
They soon shit themselves though when you let them know there are back access ways via kik of getting into their phone an having complete access to all their apps and data and that you will be coming to find them in person at their front door and that they won't have a clue who I am as a guy when I knock.
Why they do it I dont know, imbeciles. |
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"I've had men from here find me on kik as they know I have men blocked and then try to say we've met in the past.
Like fuck have we, I've never met men ever.
They soon shit themselves though when you let them know there are back access ways via kik of getting into their phone an having complete access to all their apps and data and that you will be coming to find them in person at their front door and that they won't have a clue who I am as a guy when I knock.
Why they do it I dont know, imbeciles."
I deleted and restarted my Kik to stop that happening, because don't message me means don't message me. |
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"Blocked over 500 for many a reason.
Lots of.... verbal abuse if dont agree with the reply of no"
Yeah it's funny how in their 1st message you are a babe, then when you say no, you suddenly are a cow! |
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Is there only me that sees these creepy creeps as good sport? I play along for a couple of messages...then hit them with double-barrelled scathing sarcasm. They tend to take their ball home after that |
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"It's not new, that particular sort of gaslighting has been used by some men for generations. It's slightly safer for women when they do it online but face to face it's incredibly scary."
Agreed. Same shit, different technology. At least online they're not an immediate threat. |
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I had a message saying Hay kirsty I still love watching that video of you in the toilet and was soooo freaked out.... Like wtf is kirsty? Why are you videoing her on the toilet, does she know you did? Major creeps but then I just decided it was a random stot in the dark message to try get a response.... Quite sad really |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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I had this at weekend and thought someone was out to get me ha deleted in the end |
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"I had a message saying Hay kirsty I still love watching that video of you in the toilet and was soooo freaked out.... Like wtf is kirsty? Why are you videoing her on the toilet, does she know you did? Major creeps but then I just decided it was a random stot in the dark message to try get a response.... Quite sad really"
When I had my initial as my Fab name, people would guess my name. Never got it right
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"It's not new, that particular sort of gaslighting has been used by some men for generations. It's slightly safer for women when they do it online but face to face it's incredibly scary."
It IS a form of gaslighting yes!
It's not big, it's not clever, it's NOT "an ice breaker to get talking"
It's lies and trickery and fraudulent.
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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Well, that's a new one.
Will be interested to see if I get anything similar.
I don't have kik and only use WhatsApp with 2 people I know personally.
Not to mention the fact that I don't meet single men. |
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"Is there only me that sees these creepy creeps as good sport? I play along for a couple of messages...then hit them with double-barrelled scathing sarcasm. They tend to take their ball home after that "
If I get one of these messages... I suspect I might be tempted to have a bit of sport with them. |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
Well, that's a new one.
Will be interested to see if I get anything similar.
I don't have kik and only use WhatsApp with 2 people I know personally.
Not to mention the fact that I don't meet single men. "
I think I'd have been less "oh shit" if I did use kik, it was that I don't use it that got me flapping to start. |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour
This is to be expected when you put your face on public display on your profile, surely? Tattoos make you recognisable too. I’m not excusing this shitty behaviour, and I’ve had my share of it, including someone using my Fab profile pics to create a profile in kik....... "
Well of course I'd be recognised with my face on here. And distinctive tattoos.
Still doesn't make such messages any less creepy. Ladies without their face pics on here seem to get odd messages too.
Regardless, face on show or not, it's out of order. Expected? Yeah of course. People are brave behind a screen/keyboard |
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"I've had a few of these.
One yesterday, apparently met me in a bar in Liverpool 13 years ago (even though I lived over 200 miles away back then)
Creepy as fuck
I don't think they realise it can do some damage, really put people on edge.
I'm far more creeped out by the faceless ones who blatantly know you away from Fab and make a point of letting you know. Yet won't reveal who they are. Proper gobshite behaviour
This is to be expected when you put your face on public display on your profile, surely? Tattoos make you recognisable too. I’m not excusing this shitty behaviour, and I’ve had my share of it, including someone using my Fab profile pics to create a profile in kik.......
Well of course I'd be recognised with my face on here. And distinctive tattoos.
Still doesn't make such messages any less creepy. Ladies without their face pics on here seem to get odd messages too.
Regardless, face on show or not, it's out of order. Expected? Yeah of course. People are brave behind a screen/keyboard "
It's completely out of order. |
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on KIK, you can do random conversations with people.
My (female) friend was telling me what crap she gets off guys so I went on there and identified as female. I said I wanted to speak to a certain location and age range, and wasn't up for sex chat right away.
Fifteen chats, maybe fiver were bots, and only one was a nice lad who accepted he wasn't what I was looking for and said to have a nice day.
The rest were dreadful, abusive and generally nasty.
No wonder these guys can't get anyone to chat to online. Made me feel ill. |
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"on KIK, you can do random conversations with people.
My (female) friend was telling me what crap she gets off guys so I went on there and identified as female. I said I wanted to speak to a certain location and age range, and wasn't up for sex chat right away.
Fifteen chats, maybe fiver were bots, and only one was a nice lad who accepted he wasn't what I was looking for and said to have a nice day.
The rest were dreadful, abusive and generally nasty.
No wonder these guys can't get anyone to chat to online. Made me feel ill."
Imagine how freaky it would feel having someone telling you it was great talking to you last night on there and thanking you for giving them your fab profile name when you know full well it hasn't happened.
It makes you think someone has been pretending to be you and directing random people to your fab profile. It makes you wonder what has been said. It makes you wonder if you've knocked someone back and they're now on a revenge mission.
Initially it's quite frightening coz you don't know who or why, you wonder if it's someone who may have info about you and possibly give other details out.
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Haha I delete and come back to fab quite a bit. I do message people saying remember me but always upload a face pic. They ofc always do because I’m being honest.
I can imagine guys do it for that purpose though. Some gusy really act as if there is some secret method as if once you have a reply the fuck is imminent |
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Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.
I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women. |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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I’ve been getting these for years, although it seems to be on the increase recently.
Do guys compare notes on what breaks the ice? |
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"Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.
I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women. "
This is so freaky! Kik really attracts all sorts because you don’t need a mobile number to join. The perfect app for fake accounts. |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
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I had this the other day... thought it was odd... told them they had the wrong person and blocked them... |
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"Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.
I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women. "
That's the whole twisted point, to get attention and communication going. They don't realise the upset it can cause. That you do involve friends trying to find out what the hell is going on. It causes a whole shitstorm ... just to get some fucking attention |
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"Kik is creepy. I had a couple set up a fake profile on there pretending to me and then have a "conversation" between themselves using a pic of mine stolen from here. They then messaged me on here saying someone was pretending to be me on Kik and thought I should know.
I don't have Kik so a couple of friends looked in to it for me and finally discovered what they're are doing. Turns out they thought I was "hot" apparently and wanted to get my attention. The pic they had stolen was on hot pics. They used it like a shopping list and done it to a few women.
That's the whole twisted point, to get attention and communication going. They don't realise the upset it can cause. That you do involve friends trying to find out what the hell is going on. It causes a whole shitstorm ... just to get some fucking attention "
Exactly! I was going nuts and then panicking thinking my pics had been plastered all over the place, my friends were using their time to help find out what was going on and trying to calm me down in the process. The whole thing was sick. I managed to find a couple of the other ladies they had done it too through statuses etc and give them details of who was doing it. People are fucked up. |
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"Some men folk have resorted to a new low to gain a response.
I thought it might have been a genuine mistake at first but it's not just me it's happened to and more than the one profile doing it.
The latest trend is no longer "hello stranger remember me?" When you've no idea who they are, now, they're thanking you for the lovely convo on kik and for directing them to your profile on here.
It's not a genuine mistake, it's bullshit to get a response from ya.
I had this the other day... thought it was odd... told them they had the wrong person and blocked them..."
And if you'd not blocked them, that was it, communication line open.
The one that I responded to and I was all "right give me details coz it's bullshit and I'm clearly the target of some revenge or something, heads are gonna roll when I get to the bottom of it" (as I do) well the dude wasn't expecting that and then told me the kik person then gave them a different fab name, then when HE told the kik profile he was gonna call the police they deleted. He wouldn't give me the (imaginary) profile name, which.... you would if that shit really happened to begin with.
Trying to be my saviour when all along they're the creep. |
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