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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?"
Not tried a club yet.... but it depends on who it is and what the plan is for the meet.
I do like a hotel though. Very much. |
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Hotel - not normally one to meet at mine first time. Too many bad experiences.
But once I know they aren’t crazy then I’m much more comfortable at mine. But I’m easy going, so whatever would make the other party happier & relaxed. More relaxed you are easier my work is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, hotels every time.
Love the build up when sat at the hotel bar enjoying a few drinks, flirting with each other and then heading up to the room.
There’s a fair few who don’t do hotel meets which I struggle to get my head around but each to their own of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know hotels offer neutrality & safety, but they edge towards the impersonal to me
I never truly relax in someone elses home, certainly on a first visit, so again it would take some of the sexual 'edge' away for me
An ideal meet would start in the afternoon, be local to me, local enough to show someone round the village, walk on the trails or along the canal, take in a lunch & drinks or just coffee & cake in a cafe
Back home, shoes off, feet up, open fire on, snuggled on sofa, chatting away, film on the telly and letting the 'tension' build naturally over the evening
I'm just an old romantic at heart  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like hotels and i would want the man to stay overnight with me and wake up together in the morning."
Ideally when you have got to know each other well maybe whole weekends away in different cities.
Not straight to the hotel though maybe dinner or drinks first, potentially a club then hotel! |
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"I like hotels and i would want the man to stay overnight with me and wake up together in the morning.
Ideally when you have got to know each other well maybe whole weekends away in different cities.
Not straight to the hotel though maybe dinner or drinks first, potentially a club then hotel!"
I always do socials first. Would never meet someone i had never seen for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotel, no quarms with myown place if im seeing someone regular and trust is there. Im very private and only people i really trust and know come to my abode.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotel or my place. Always a risk when going to their place... do they have 30 cats? A housemate? A really dirty house? I don't want to be put off what I went there for  |
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Hotels for us...we’ll meet
We met together in a hotel first but then we started going to each other’s houses but the occasional hotel too.
I think if it’s something regular then own places are good but hotels add to the excitement.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Their place, it hotel. Outside if desperate but far from ideal. Xx"
but what do you do if it snows! I know my person foofie filler won't work in the cold!
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Usually if everyone is happy then we like to meet at a club,if we do a first meet anywhere else then it is for a socail drink and chat.
We did get put off from doing first meets at ours due to a very bad experience,but since then we have met some lovely people and they have restored our faith. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like hotels and i would want the man to stay overnight with me and wake up together in the morning.
Ideally when you have got to know each other well maybe whole weekends away in different cities.
Not straight to the hotel though maybe dinner or drinks first, potentially a club then hotel!
I always do socials first. Would never meet someone i had never seen for sex."
You would be surprised but there are people who do, personally as mentioned by yourself and I , a social has to take place, although I am happy to play if the social goes well, rather than a purely social only first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not from fab, but following a coffee social I was invited to her place thereafter. Her choice, she felt comfortable at home.
The other invited me to hers straight away and again we always met there afterwards.
Some people just feel comfortable in their own surroundings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?"
Your bed  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I used to enjoy clubs and the vibe in them - but having used hotels since they'd be my first choice now, more relaxed, no closing time until lunchtime the next day, provide a base if you want to do something sociable - generally have nice bathrooms and are clean and comfortable. |
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A club is always my first choice as the safest option - after meeting for a coffee and vetting of course.
Public space, dungeon monitors, friends and community around - a good club is as safe as it gets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?"
I'd like to meet at your place, demolish a bottle or two of wine and get to know each other.. And then hit the spa for massages, facials, detox and pampering the next day 
girls rule xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only meet at my place. I would never meet in a hotel x
Hotel generally for safety and cos I can't be arsed hoovering "
I will happily role play the role of a slut but I am not going to be one by meeting some married man in a hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotel if it’s strictly unadulterated filth, no worry about mess or ruining beds or disturbing neighbours
Club if it’s a fun meet combining the sexual side and social part you get with other people in clubs
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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It depends on how I know them/the type of connection.. but my favourite is my place. I know its clean and cosy and that I can create a nice atmosphere. Hotels are fun too. Its nice to be entertained at theirs. I like a good connection and all nighters or all weekenders rather than quickie meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on how I know them/the type of connection.. but my favourite is my place. I know its clean and cosy and that I can create a nice atmosphere. Hotels are fun too. Its nice to be entertained at theirs. I like a good connection and all nighters or all weekenders rather than quickie meets. "
*Withdraws offer of doing up the back alley behind M&S* |
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?
I'd like to meet at your place, demolish a bottle or two of wine and get to know each other.. And then hit the spa for massages, facials, detox and pampering the next day
girls rule xx "
Now we're talking. I'd love this and we will definitely do this as soon as it's possible xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on how I know them/the type of connection.. but my favourite is my place. I know its clean and cosy and that I can create a nice atmosphere. Hotels are fun too. Its nice to be entertained at theirs. I like a good connection and all nighters or all weekenders rather than quickie meets. "
That's what my previous fwb preferred. I always suggest a social first at a venue of her choice and I expect her to 'vet' me before agreeing to anything further. That said we have always chatted for some time even before a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd like to meet at your place, demolish a bottle or two of wine and get to know each other.. And then hit the spa for massages, facials, detox and pampering the next day
girls rule xx
Now we're talking. I'd love this and we will definitely do this as soon as it's possible xx"
Yaaassss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?"
Clubs
We don’t like hosting at ours unless we have met before x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?"
I've very, very, very rarely arranged a meet from on here so clubs have always been my go to place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kmow we are not meeting but if we were...
Where do you prefer to meet for a night of passion?
Hotel?
Your place or theirs?
Outdoors?
Clubs?
Or somewhere else?"
Public place like a bar, restaurant or hotel bar and then take it from there and see it goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would love to be able to at mine
Invite them round for a coffee or even a dinner - yes a man can cook
Just takes the nerves out of it
If something happens it happen if not - at least your getting to chat to like minded peeps from here
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