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Why do people own dogs

By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

And employ people to walk them, I mean I have neighbours that do this, they are perfectly mobile, what's the point. They have a golden retriever and a guy comes round to walk it every day, it's not like they are out working.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they want to?

If it doesn’t hurt you, and they are happy then that’s ok.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

And why does that bother you OP?

They may have limted mobility, or be working from home or shielding or a million other reasons.

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By *imon_hydeMan over a year ago

Stockport

They sound like perfectly good dog owners to me, the dogs going on regular walks.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Maybe it's just a way they can help him out financially and they have the means to.

Maybe they love the dog but don't enjoy walking it.

Maybe the dog is over protective of its owners and acts like a prick if it walks with them

Maybe they don't like the rain

Maybe the dog genuinely loves the walker dude and looks forward to it

Maybe the walker dude can't have a dog or is mourning the liss of their own, so the owners are being kind

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By *.R.MMan over a year ago

Norfolk

Socialisation for the dog maybe

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

"Maybe it's just a way they can help him out financially and they have the means to.

Maybe they love the dog but don't enjoy walking it.

Maybe the dog is over protective of its owners and acts like a prick if it walks with them

Maybe they don't like the rain

Maybe the dog genuinely loves the walker dude and looks forward to it

Maybe the walker dude can't have a dog or is mourning the liss of their own, so the owners are being kind

Nah they had a different guy recently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes limited mobility

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last dog i had a walker, because i was out at work from 8 until somtines 7 at night it wasnt fair to leave him alone all day. I walked him early morning then had a walker at 2pm even if i was working from home it was useful to have her to walk him, and im all for employing others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whatever the reason is, why does it bother you?

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why do folk buy takeaways when they can cook?. Hòw people spend their money is up to them.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Send em my way can take my 2 hate walking them in this weather x

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

It does seem odd. Well spotted OP.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Why do people go on holiday when they can sit in their own garden ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve always had dogs staffs manly good company and it gets you out of the house as well

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By *amillMan over a year ago

Warrington

Why do people buy water when they can get it for free?

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By *100Man over a year ago

Essex

Lol you’ve opened up a can of worms mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some dog walkers operate like nurseries

You lose your slot, you may not get it back

There are more working dog owners than there are professional dog walkers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a simular view, I.e why have a dog and not train it?

The amount if people I see with there dog taking them for a walk is unreal... come to the conclusion that its the same reason people do most things- self gratification/vanity/ego!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they can just like people that have children and then have a Nanny to look after them before they send them away to boarding school.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a simular view, I.e why have a dog and not train it?

The amount if people I see with there dog taking them for a walk is unreal... come to the conclusion that its the same reason people do most things- self gratification/vanity/ego!

It doesn’t occur to them to do it

They don’t want to

They don’t know how?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Why do birds sing when they can just use spotify?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they want to.

Why does it matter?

People get cleaners to clean their house even though they could do it themselves.

If they are not hurting anyone what difference does it make?

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

Just to reiterate they are fully mobile and not out at work when the dog walker arrives or leaves, might as well have a fluffy cushion really, don't get me wrong I love dogs but I just don't get owning one and not walking it. Oh they live in a flat by the way, not ideal for a retriever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why cats are better pets. If any of mine want to come for a walk with me they're very welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to reiterate they are fully mobile and not out at work when the dog walker arrives or leaves, might as well have a fluffy cushion really, don't get me wrong I love dogs but I just don't get owning one and not walking it. Oh they live in a flat by the way, not ideal for a retriever"

I am genuinely curious, why does it bother you?

If the dog is happy, and the owners are happy- who cares.

I’ve got a big dog, who sleeps the whole time he’s in the house, I’m not sure the size of the home matters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you have similar complaints of people who get domestic cleaners, nanny's or take their car to a car wash instead of doing it themselves?

What business is it of yours?

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

Could he be a dogger ?? He may just be borrowing the dog to avoid suspicion and it will be his alibi if the police challenge him down a country lane peering i to cars at night. ( unless he also has his trousers around his ankles at the time in which case having tbe dog with him may get him into a hell of a lot more trouble !!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

So you see the bond they have with the dog once inside the flat?

You're chastising them for being responsive owners and making sure the pooch gets exercise.

They're keeping someone in a job ffs, surely that's a good thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mental health

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

Do you have similar complaints of people who get domestic cleaners, nanny's or take their car to a car wash instead of doing it themselves?

What business is it of yours?"

Why does it have to be my business to post on FAB that I don't understand the point, are you forum police now then, when were you appointed?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mental health "

I'm sure many people get dogs for their company, unconditional love and non-judgemental attitudes.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

There's a website where you can lend your dog out. Someone can borrow your dog and walk it for you.

It has many benefits and I've thought about borrowing a dog to walk after losing my own beloved girl.

Also, they could be working from home, you have no idea, and regardless of however they want to get their dog the exercise it needs, they're covering it so it's all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you have similar complaints of people who get domestic cleaners, nanny's or take their car to a car wash instead of doing it themselves?

What business is it of yours?

Why does it have to be my business to post on FAB that I don't understand the point, are you forum police now then, when were you appointed?"

I didn't say you couldn't post on fab, I'm asking what business it is of yours to know why they get dog walkers.

Go and ask them, see what they tell you if it's bothering you so much

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

The g is entitled to his opinion and was simply asking why they dont walk it themselves , i guess its like having a car but have it sat in a garage and never use it from one day to the next , some have passports but ne er go abroad , its a funny old world we live in , forums all about freedom of speech and opinions, lets not slaughter him for expressing his

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

Do you have similar complaints of people who get domestic cleaners, nanny's or take their car to a car wash instead of doing it themselves?

What business is it of yours?

Why does it have to be my business to post on FAB that I don't understand the point, are you forum police now then, when were you appointed?

I didn't say you couldn't post on fab, I'm asking what business it is of yours to know why they get dog walkers.

Go and ask them, see what they tell you if it's bothering you so much

Did I say it was bothering me, I think I just said I don't understand it, hell I am reminded why I took a month off the forum now, maybe nowhereman felt the same

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I"

You're being judgemental and it sounds like you're calling them bad owners for having someone else walk their dog.

I had a mental breakdown a few years back. I couldn't leave the house I was that stricken with fear.

My dog kept me alive because I didn't trust anyone else to love her as much as I did.

Was I a bad owner for having someone else walk her for me?

Was I a bad owner for not leaving the house some days and walking her myself?

You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"The g is entitled to his opinion and was simply asking why they dont walk it themselves , i guess its like having a car but have it sat in a garage and never use it from one day to the next , some have passports but ne er go abroad , its a funny old world we live in , forums all about freedom of speech and opinions, lets not slaughter him for expressing his"

And people are giving actual responses that aren't arsey, yet he's being facetious and picking fault with all of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as the dog is getting walked, that's all that matters

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By *an hjCouple over a year ago

Stowmarket

Maybe they don't like picking up poo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And people are giving actual responses that aren't arsey, yet he's being facetious and picking fault with all of them "

This is the third thread I’ve seen today where someone has asked a question, received quite a few negative but non abusive replies, then had a go at those replies! In one case they opened a new thread just to have a dig back.

If people open a thread then anyone has the right to reply as they like, as long as they’re not abusive, no ?

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I

You're being judgemental and it sounds like you're calling them bad owners for having someone else walk their dog.

I had a mental breakdown a few years back. I couldn't leave the house I was that stricken with fear.

My dog kept me alive because I didn't trust anyone else to love her as much as I did.

Was I a bad owner for having someone else walk her for me?

Was I a bad owner for not leaving the house some days and walking her myself?

You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero.

How do you know that, really how. They are my neighbours for gods sake so how do you presume to know that I don't know what's going on with their lives. You don't speak to your neighbours, well I do so don't presume

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And people are giving actual responses that aren't arsey, yet he's being facetious and picking fault with all of them "

Exactly. I’ve asked a question, which hasn’t been answered. I’m not slaughtering him, I’m genuinely curious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They might be working from home.

They might have hidden disabilities.

The dog walking company could be owned by a family member or friend.

It could have been a long term arrangement that they've maintained to help with Covid situation.

Because they can afford it.

To give them some time alone at home.

Pick any of the above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lock down fever....people doing strange things gonna b a lot of unwanted dogs soon....

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I

You're being judgemental and it sounds like you're calling them bad owners for having someone else walk their dog.

I had a mental breakdown a few years back. I couldn't leave the house I was that stricken with fear.

My dog kept me alive because I didn't trust anyone else to love her as much as I did.

Was I a bad owner for having someone else walk her for me?

Was I a bad owner for not leaving the house some days and walking her myself?

You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero.

Where the frig did I say I knew what was going on in their lives? I told you a small fraction of what went on in MINE.

Re-read and try again.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I

You're being judgemental and it sounds like you're calling them bad owners for having someone else walk their dog.

I had a mental breakdown a few years back. I couldn't leave the house I was that stricken with fear.

My dog kept me alive because I didn't trust anyone else to love her as much as I did.

Was I a bad owner for having someone else walk her for me?

Was I a bad owner for not leaving the house some days and walking her myself?

You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero.

Where the frig did I say I knew what was going on in their lives? I told you a small fraction of what went on in MINE.

Re-read and try again."

Oh my bad, I just realised what you meant. They tell you everything do they? If they DID, you'd know why someone else walks their fucking dog wouldn't ya!

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I

You're being judgemental and it sounds like you're calling them bad owners for having someone else walk their dog.

I had a mental breakdown a few years back. I couldn't leave the house I was that stricken with fear.

My dog kept me alive because I didn't trust anyone else to love her as much as I did.

Was I a bad owner for having someone else walk her for me?

Was I a bad owner for not leaving the house some days and walking her myself?

You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero.

Where the frig did I say I knew what was going on in their lives? I told you a small fraction of what went on in MINE.

Re-read and try again."
. Well let's see, hmm how about this

"You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And employ people to walk them, I mean I have neighbours that do this, they are perfectly mobile, what's the point. They have a golden retriever and a guy comes round to walk it every day, it's not like they are out working."

My daughter in law does this for a living and earns good money from it, she is qualified and insured and she also has a background in training

She has a few disabled clients on her books who some days physically can't exercise their dogs.

Some of her clients work long hours

Some of her clients have more money than sense and pay for her services because they can

Some clients want one to one training so she will combine that with walking them.

Lots of reasons, at least these people aren't leaving their dogs alone for hours on end and care enough to make sure their pets needs are fulfilled

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By *eoeclipseWoman over a year ago

glasgow

It's better than the dog/s being stuck in house all day bursting for the loo.

I get op's sentiment that if you take on a pet you look after it, there are of course reasons they may be using a dog walker.

Either way, I know we are all bored but stop curtain twitching & making assumptions.

Assumptions are the mother of a f**k ups.

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

"As long as the dog is getting walked, that's all that matters

"
. ###. Hope to god thats not a typo on the word " walked " ! Now that woukd be going the extra mile as a dog walker !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's those people who get domestic cleaners who confuse me.

I mean why?

WHY?

They can clean their own house god damnit!

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist."

And people gave you valid reasons, you wouldn't take them on board and "knew better" because you didn't like the reasons you were given.

We all have stuff we don't understand and that's cool, but we don't shoot those that try to give us answers.

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By *urtyGentMan over a year ago

eastleigh

I hate it when I say something silly in public and people point out how silly it is making me, in turn, look silly.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I hate it when I say something silly in public and people point out how silly it is making me, in turn, look silly. "

I make a dick of myself all the time. I accept it instead of fight it

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

And people are giving actual responses that aren't arsey, yet he's being facetious and picking fault with all of them

If people open a thread then anyone has the right to reply as they like, as long as they’re not abusive, no ?

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CORRECT , everyonesentitled to their opinion , im not a lover of hats but if your happy with that thing on your head then thats your right no matter what what people think it looks like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist."

I don’t agree. You posted a question, and people responded. That is the nature of the forum.

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By *urtyGentMan over a year ago

eastleigh

"I hate it when I say something silly in public and people point out how silly it is making me, in turn, look silly.

I make a dick of myself all the time. I accept it instead of fight it "

Same, you get it wrong sometimes. No need to flounce off in a strop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they can. Their could be loads of invisible disabilities you dont know about that stops them walking a long way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The question I have is ..

Why do dog owners have dogs and don't walk then ever or get someone else to walk them. My next door neighbour has a sheep dog, not been walked for years...no disabilities in the house. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they can so long as the dog is well looked after that’s all that matters.

Maybe they love dogs but don’t like walking I’d be worried about those who take on a dog but don’t exercise it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The question I have is ..

Why do dog owners have dogs and don't walk then ever or get someone else to walk them. My next door neighbour has a sheep dog, not been walked for years...no disabilities in the house. X

Maybe they go out early morning or late at night?

I walk my dog late at night because he is quite anxious outside the house.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

If the animal is exercised does it really matter who does it.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Many have posted loads of valid reasons why they may have a dog walker. But I have a friend who employs one for none of the above reasons, she got the dog because it was cute and totally underestimated the amount of time walking it required so she employs a dog walker. My ex brother in law got a golden retriever again underestimated how much hard work he'd be and had to give the dog up. But regardless as long as the dogs welfare is taken into account it's all good. Though I do wish some people did more research before getting a dog.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I"

I love my dogs but I often HATE walking them, particularly days like today when it is wet and rainy. I still do it, obviously, but if I could afford to pay someone to do it, I'd be very tempted.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

"Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist."

No one attacked you.

You asked a question and people have given you answers, just because you don't like the answer it doesn't mean it isn't valid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The question I have is ..

Why do dog owners have dogs and don't walk then ever or get someone else to walk them. My next door neighbour has a sheep dog, not been walked for years...no disabilities in the house. X

Maybe they go out early morning or late at night?

I walk my dog late at night because he is quite anxious outside the house."

I once had a neighbour threaten to call the RSPCA on me for "not walking my dogs".

I walk them early in the morning and very late at night, because one of them has problems with anxiety and it's best for us to avoid people.

I hate interfering, nosey people.

(And if anyone wonders - no, as far as I know, they never made the report. Kind of wish they had, because they would have looked stupid in the end.)

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By *arker secrets 321Man over a year ago

West Bromwich

Same reason u av dog groomers .they offer a service that people want 2 use .supply and demand

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"Jeez and I thought people owned dogs for the enjoyment of it which includes walking them, how wrong was I

You're being judgemental and it sounds like you're calling them bad owners for having someone else walk their dog.

I had a mental breakdown a few years back. I couldn't leave the house I was that stricken with fear.

My dog kept me alive because I didn't trust anyone else to love her as much as I did.

Was I a bad owner for having someone else walk her for me?

Was I a bad owner for not leaving the house some days and walking her myself?

You have zero clue what's going on in their lives. Zero.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"As long as the dog is getting walked, that's all that matters

Yup

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By *lymDrewMan over a year ago

plymouth

Why, if people work long hours, they don't want to spend their free time doing domestic chores.

A family member has a live in domestic helper 50 weeks a year... It's great, party until the early hours, go to bed with the house looking like a bomb site, and by the time you wake up it's miraculously clean and tidy. They work hard and they can afford it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So yes there probably are valid reasons to own a dog and employ walkers

Then don't you think it would have been better to acknowledge the reasons suggested, rather than find flaws or pick holes in the replies?

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

So yes there probably are valid reasons to own a dog and employ walkers

Then don't you think it would have been better to acknowledge the reasons suggested, rather than find flaws or pick holes in the replies?"

Haven't picked holes in anyone's reply, read mine and tell me where I did, like I said this can be an ugly place, but hey stick the boot in if that's your pleasure

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Probably lazy arses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having your dogs walked by a walker usually means they get walked in a group - this is good for dogs as it gets them used to socialising with other dogs.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist.

No one attacked you.

You asked a question and people have given you answers, just because you don't like the answer it doesn't mean it isn't valid.

I've been called facetious and I wasn't, I was accused of knowing nothing about my neighbours and I do (was retracted), I haven't said I didn't like the answer.

I've been messaged and I quote

"its a horrible forum, i see this type of thing daily"

Also

"Even fab itself is like a war zone, that’s why I left."

So yes there probably are valid reasons to own a dog and employ walkers but honestly, someone above suggested it's so that people who are dog walkers are employed, get real, that's a reason to own a dog. This forum can be an ugly place, won't be back.

Not a single person said they get a dog to keep a dog walker in employment, so nobody needs to get real. Given the current financial climate where people are losing jobs left and right, if ya can afford to keep someone like a dog walker employed then surely that's a good thing?

And you have been facetious, you've been given plenty of valid and personal answers yet refused to accept or at least try to understand any of them.

My first list you ignored all of the reasons and just came back with "no, it's a different guy"

If I had a dog at the moment and someone else walked it for me I'd be feeling really self conscious at the judgement you're passing and wondering if my neighbours were feeling the same about me, that I should replace my dog who I love with all my heart with a "fluffy cushion". And no, you may know your neighbours but you don't know what's going on in their lives and their minds. You know what you see (which isn't everything) and you know what they tell you, which again, will be limited as to what they want you to know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe its all a cloak and hes really actually banging them both

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

Lets be honest , were all bored shitless, were all picky , ratty, sharp with people , reacting like we normally wouldn't , this virus and the lockdowns and rules are getting to us all , i guess we on forums to let steam off or even interact with others ( its the highlight of the day for some ) then we go and look at fab profiles to see what what we cant have or who we cant meet !, its like we are all teasing ourselves by being on here !, but hey we are swingers and its what we do best , its no fun when we are prevented from doing so

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist.

No one attacked you.

You asked a question and people have given you answers, just because you don't like the answer it doesn't mean it isn't valid.

I've been called facetious and I wasn't, I was accused of knowing nothing about my neighbours and I do (was retracted), I haven't said I didn't like the answer.

I've been messaged and I quote

"its a horrible forum, i see this type of thing daily"

Also

"Even fab itself is like a war zone, that’s why I left."

This is standard for the Lounge.

I wouldn't take anything to heart. Some people can't just answer a question without the Why does it bother you replies.

I wouldn't give them the time of day.

You asked a perfectly reasonable question, which some people answered without getting snotty.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Lets be honest , were all bored shitless, were all picky , ratty, sharp with people , reacting like we normally wouldn't , this virus and the lockdowns and rules are getting to us all , i guess we on forums to let steam off or even interact with others ( its the highlight of the day for some ) then we go and look at fab profiles to see what what we cant have or who we cant meet !, its like we are all teasing ourselves by being on here !, but hey we are swingers and its what we do best , its no fun when we are prevented from doing so

Can't blame lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

", but hey stick the boot in if that's your pleasure"

It's comments like that which spark a response.

Maybes thats what your after, who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Leaving the forum, you post something to say you don't understand why, which is just an opinion after all and the forum attack dogs smell blood and can't resist.

No one attacked you.

You asked a question and people have given you answers, just because you don't like the answer it doesn't mean it isn't valid.

I've been called facetious and I wasn't, I was accused of knowing nothing about my neighbours and I do (was retracted), I haven't said I didn't like the answer.

I've been messaged and I quote

"its a horrible forum, i see this type of thing daily"

Also

"Even fab itself is like a war zone, that’s why I left."

This is standard for the Lounge.

I wouldn't take anything to heart. Some people can't just answer a question without the Why does it bother you replies.

I wouldn't give them the time of day.

You asked a perfectly reasonable question, which some people answered without getting snotty.

I asked him why it’s bothers him, I was curious and it was a genuine question.

For me, examining why something bothers you can be quite valuable. I wasn’t being horrible in the slightest.

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

"Maybe its all a cloak and hes really actually banging them both"
. I rest my case, people are bored and ratty and spout utter tosh ! , i do hope these dog walkers are socially distancing and sanitizing when accepting dogs and returning them ? And lets hope he isnt " banging them during lockdown

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

Can't blame lockdown. "
cant blame lockdown ???? So can yoy honestly say hand on heart the last 12 months hasnt affected you at all? Your moods?, your day to day living ? Restricted you regarding holidys, hobbys, work, family time ??? Wow you must be the only one in the country , i salute you !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree, I think people are reacting differently.

People are stressed, anxious and behaving in ways that are out of character.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As an aside, stroking a pet is known to provide a form of social support and is known to have many benefits to both physical and mental health

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By *ob Carpe Diem OP Man over a year ago

Torquay

Anyway won't be back at least for a while, meantime 28th January, Wolf moon, stay away from the moors, won't be here to remind you so let that be my parting gift

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Can't blame lockdown. cant blame lockdown ???? So can yoy honestly say hand on heart the last 12 months hasnt affected you at all? Your moods?, your day to day living ? Restricted you regarding holidys, hobbys, work, family time ??? Wow you must be the only one in the country , i salute you !!!!"

I wouldn't come on here to vent my annoyance on other people if it did.

To answer your question though, it hasn't affected me that much.

I'm still alive and I can find other things to do to occupy my time. I'm pretty good at occupying myself.

I'm not the only one either. I know lots of people who are still cheerful and keeping their spirits up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My friends do it for their pooch to socialise with other dogs /have doggy friends

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe they can't walk far. Maybe they love the dog and not the walks. Maybe to get a break from the dog. Maybe they have other things to do. Anyhow .... I don't see that it should affect anyone else but them.

People have children then run umpteen jobs to keep them and never see them. So I guess it's okay for the dogs too.

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM) over a year ago

warrington

I wouldn't come on here to vent my annoyance on other people if it did.

To answer your question though, it hasn't affected me that much.

I'm still alive and I can find other things to do to occupy my time. I'm pretty good at occupying myself.

I'm not the only one either. I know lots of people who are still cheerful and keeping their spirits up.

"
. your contradicting yourself im afraid , you said " cant blame lockdown for people acting and feeling different yet you then say it hasnt affected me " THAT MUCH " ! So it has affected you, its affected everyone in some way , large or small , so why say cant blame lockdown ? Im afraid you are not making any sense at all

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By *nked_kittenWoman over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

My friend has offered to lend me her dog while I’m on furlough. Any time I want I can go over and take the pup for a walk.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I wouldn't come on here to vent my annoyance on other people if it did.

To answer your question though, it hasn't affected me that much.

I'm still alive and I can find other things to do to occupy my time. I'm pretty good at occupying myself.

I'm not the only one either. I know lots of people who are still cheerful and keeping their spirits up.

. your contradicting yourself im afraid , you said " cant blame lockdown for people acting and feeling different yet you then say it hasnt affected me " THAT MUCH " ! So it has affected you, its affected everyone in some way , large or small , so why say cant blame lockdown ? Im afraid you are not making any sense at all"

Can't blame lockdown for the comments on here. No need to take it out on someone asking a simple question.

Now I'm going to wish you a good evening and hope you got some pent up anguish off your chest.

Keep staying safe

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Cos some people have got too much money..and are lazy bastard's..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chris Jericho has a suggestion for what you should do about your neighbour

https://youtu.be/G8iAhSuRV7E

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they have enough money. Because I would rather stay in and watch Netflix when I'm not in the mood to walk a dog. Because they work and don't have the time for their dog to get a good amount of exercise. Plenty of reasons. It's good they care for their doggo enough to pay someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dogs are for people that have failed to find love with their own species lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dogs are for people that have failed to find love with their own species lol"

Dogs show unconditional love, whereas some people do not

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By *hysoseriouslyMan over a year ago

Kent

"Whatever the reason is, why does it bother you? "

Have to say I’m thinking this too...

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"Why do birds sing when they can just use spotify?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

``Maybe the dog is over protective of its owners and acts like a prick if it walks with them``................

^^^^^^^ I love this possible reason

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By *ichaelangelaCouple over a year ago

notts

you sound like a right nosey curtain twitcher

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine is a jolly good work companion ! Also gets me out the house when I need to escape!

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By * AND R 777Couple over a year ago

Teesside

"Why do people buy water when they can get it for free?"

Where do you get it for free from out of a puddle lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do people buy water when they can get it for free?"

Nothing is free - water has a cost.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want to?

If it doesn’t hurt you, and they are happy then that’s ok. "

Exactly this

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Do you have similar complaints of people who get domestic cleaners, nanny's or take their car to a car wash instead of doing it themselves?

What business is it of yours?

Why does it have to be my business to post on FAB that I don't understand the point, are you forum police now then, when were you appointed?

I didn't say you couldn't post on fab, I'm asking what business it is of yours to know why they get dog walkers.

Go and ask them, see what they tell you if it's bothering you so much

It isn't very pleasant though to keep telling people to go away and ask the people concerned

He is allowed to ask here , leave the man alone please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they need some Pointers.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Wow, I am not sure there was any need for half of these comments, a person brings a different subject to the forum and the answers are enough to put anyone off them

Please, lets be kind, it doesn't hurt

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

I would have wondered too OP, sometimes though reasons are not always obvious why people can't walk far so could be a reason why they wanted their dogs walked by someone

Of course they could be just lazy sods or can't be bothered and would rather pay someone to do it...they still get to have their dog when it isn't being walked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about the same reason I employ a dog Walker? I have 2 German shepherd, when hubby isn’t working nights we walk them together, but when he’s on nights I employ a dog Walker to walk them as I wouldn’t be able to take them both on my own and because if I walk them solo then the other is at home barking and waking my hubby up.

It’s also ideal to get dogs walked in groups to socialise, also gets them used to different walking routes and different people.

My dog Walker is amazing and has access to her own field where my dogs can be off the leash and run themselves til their heart is content.

As stated above numerous times, diff people have diff reasons . If it makes you so curious then ask them and find out?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

Dog walker's lives matter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just answering the thread title exclusively...

Because dogs are the best x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe the wife is on here... maybe he walks the dogs and then bangs her?

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