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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On a break at work. After discussing with another nurse about the patients we have been moving, lifting and caring for.
We got into body shapes.
And whilst every human have their merits we all have certain criteria we don’t find AS attractive. What’s yours.
We have a great mutual friend. She is very sexy. But says she suffers because she is too thin. Yes she is a stick. Would love some curves.
Is it wrong that we judge.
But we will. And do.
If you had the choice of thin or curvy which would you pick. And why. ? |
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By *in82Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"On a break at work. After discussing with another nurse about the patients we have been moving, lifting and caring for.
We got into body shapes.
And whilst every human have their merits we all have certain criteria we don’t find AS attractive. What’s yours.
We have a great mutual friend. She is very sexy. But says she suffers because she is too thin. Yes she is a stick. Would love some curves.
Is it wrong that we judge.
But we will. And do.
If you had the choice of thin or curvy which would you pick. And why. ?"
As a general rule I would say curvy. I do like a lady that's got shape and curves. However, I've also seen plenty of women who have very little shape but are stunning still. I think a person's shape needs to suit how they look, if that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say for me it's the mind and the eyes of a lady that gets me everytime.
but if I had to choose then curvy it is, I like a bit of meat on my ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who gives a fuck?
All of the men on here will say curvey, all of the women will agree and all of the ‘sticks’ will be shamed for not being over weight and curvey.
These posts benefit no one, you’re just making people feel bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who gives a fuck?
All of the men on here will say curvey, all of the women will agree and all of the ‘sticks’ will be shamed for not being over weight and curvey.
These posts benefit no one, you’re just making people feel bad. "
Don’t think this posts something you want to partake in. Personal preference. Chill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really...hate...that word.
Stick.
Im thin and i think im sexy enough as i am. I dont need anymore weight on me than i have.
Im healthy.
Your friend has just had her confidence battered by the world's obsession with "Thicc" women.
Its just media and fashion bashing a womans shape...same in the 60's where stick thin ruled.
Women should be proud of what they are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really...hate...that word.
Stick.
Im thin and i think im sexy enough as i am. I dont need anymore weight on me than i have.
Im healthy.
Your friend has just had her confidence battered by the world's obsession with "Thicc" women.
Its just media and fashion bashing a womans shape...same in the 60's where stick thin ruled.
Women should be proud of what they are"
Her confidence rarely gets shattered or knocked.
She is not short of play mates.
The post is about opinions and thankfully we can have them still. I never said she was not as attractive. It’s to see what others think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really...hate...that word.
Stick.
Im thin and i think im sexy enough as i am. I dont need anymore weight on me than i have.
Im healthy.
Your friend has just had her confidence battered by the world's obsession with "Thicc" women.
Its just media and fashion bashing a womans shape...same in the 60's where stick thin ruled.
Women should be proud of what they are
Her confidence rarely gets shattered or knocked.
She is not short of play mates.
The post is about opinions and thankfully we can have them still. I never said she was not as attractive. It’s to see what others think.
My opinion is she should be happy with how she is.
Everyone should.
We all have our natural body weight
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who gives a fuck?
All of the men on here will say curvey, all of the women will agree and all of the ‘sticks’ will be shamed for not being over weight and curvey.
These posts benefit no one, you’re just making people feel bad. "
It’s asking for an opinion.
Based on conversations.
Equally. We like guys of a certain look. Everybody has a choice
Thankfully we can still have opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who gives a fuck?
All of the men on here will say curvey, all of the women will agree and all of the ‘sticks’ will be shamed for not being over weight and curvey.
These posts benefit no one, you’re just making people feel bad. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But it’s not about that. No need for the negative feedback why not sick to death of body shaming threads on here. Im sure all the slim women are going to feel great reading this thread"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There will always be people who find faults with your body shape, sure everyone has preferences, but we need to be careful when labelling people. Getting people to choose a body type only makes the ones not chosen feel worse. It is wrong to judge and I have never understood how people comment so openly about other people's weight. We are all different shapes, sizes and should embrace that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Our post said it’s wrong to judge.
But we asked your opinion.
I’d say I was perfect. One day. The next I’m not happy.
We can all be different. Thank god.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It don't matter what shape us women are we are never happy with our bodies... To us personality goes a long way "
A smile and personality are so important. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There will always be people who find faults with your body shape, sure everyone has preferences, but we need to be careful when labelling people. Getting people to choose a body type only makes the ones not chosen feel worse. It is wrong to judge and I have never understood how people comment so openly about other people's weight. We are all different shapes, sizes and should embrace that."
Agreed.
We are not judging. Just asking. |
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It has to go to the waist to hip ratio.
Females tend to have lower waist:hip ratio due to wider hip in relation to their waist.
For men, the ratio then to be higher but still less than 1.
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Waist to hip ratio is helpful to assess health, complimenting BMI (not accurate). skin thickness etc.
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Whenever someone says curvy, personally, my mind will go back to the ratio : regardless of their body (dress) size.
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"You called your friend.... a stick.....
We did. Her words.
She is allowed an opinion. "
Even in a thin woman, you will find that the waist:hip ratio will most likely be below 0.8 and thus curvy still |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is normal ??"
There is no such thing as normal.
That’s our point. We all have preferences. We are all different.
But people have ideas and that’s our point in this post. To discuss. To see what others think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it’s not about body shape. It’s about body confidence, personally I have no ‘preference’.
All women should have the confidence that men or other women are going to shame their shape. Everyone is different, no 2 bodies are the same.
Be positive, not negative x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it’s not about body shape. It’s about body confidence, personally I have no ‘preference’.
All women should have the confidence that men or other women are going to shame their shape. Everyone is different, no 2 bodies are the same.
Be positive, not negative x"
The key is to be happy with who you are.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is normal ??
***There is no such thing as normal. ***
That’s our point. We all have preferences. We are all different.
But people have ideas and that’s our point in this post. To discuss. To see what others think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s not about body shape. It’s about body confidence, personally I have no ‘preference’.
All women should have the confidence that men or other women are going to shame their shape. Everyone is different, no 2 bodies are the same.
Be positive, not negative x
The key is to be happy with who you are.
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Correct & it’s far more attractive to see a woman who isn’t worried with what people might think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You called your friend.... a stick.....
We did. Her words.
She is allowed an opinion. "
Yes she is. 
I prefer the middle of the body range, not the extremes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never judged any female on body shape in my lifetime.
When a younger man I had fun with females of all shapes and sizes.
A females attitude and confidence makes their body shape or size completely irrelevant to me.
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By *in82Man
over a year ago
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I think it's fair to say that anyone's body shape doesn't matter, what does matter is everyone's health. If a person's healthy then it really doesn't matter what shape they are. I used to play american football with a guy that was 30 stone, but he was fit as fiddle and marathons.
Had he been that size and it was having a negative impact on his health, then obviously it would be an issue.
Be healthy, be happy. Live life. |
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Its not wrong to judge, we are only confirming our preferences after all. It's whether you chose to deliver those judgements to a person that is the step everyone should ask themselves first before opening their mouths.
In answer to your question I've not got a preferred body shape I am attracted to, all of my playmates are a variety of shapes and sizes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think first and foremost, personality and the mind is the biggest attraction, closely followed by good hygiene and looking after ones self. and the way a person carries themselves. Wether they be slim, curvy, or large is irrelevant.
One persons imperfections is another’s attraction don’t you think?
So no one reading this thread should feel bad about there body type. We are all beautiful in our own way and attractive to lots of people. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong that we judge.
If you had the choice of thin or curvy which would you pick. And why. ?"
It's not wrong, we all judge people on a daily basis based on our personal preference, from music to fashion to the food they like. If judging wasn't so popular gossip magazines, tabloids, opinion shows and bear bating ones like Jeremy Kyle or Jerry Springer would be a thing of the past.
The issue is do you treat them differently because of the choices they make that differ to your own?
Personally, we have no preference in body shape or size. Being bigger anyway we are not going to be hypocritical. We find people attractive on a number of points, attitude being number 1. It then comes down to do we share common ground and interests. A person's physicality only comes into it regarding their ability to do the things we want them to do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The more people answer these and/or/preference/normal comparing threads the more they will be done. I have opinions/preferences but prefer never to give them, my life is run how I like it and that really doesn't effect others ...
If we stop giving unnecessary opinions then perhaps one day they will stop being asked for = noone needs to offend anyone, they choose to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads just attract outrage that their body type isn't the most admired 
Everyone likes what they like and there is nothing wrong with that.
Our society says we have to look a certain way to be beautiful - and most people believe it.
Respect other peoples preferences - the fake outrage is so boring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The more people answer these and/or/preference/normal comparing threads the more they will be done. I have opinions/preferences but prefer never to give them, my life is run how I like it and that really doesn't effect others ...
If we stop giving unnecessary opinions then perhaps one day they will stop being asked for = noone needs to offend anyone, they choose to! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The more people answer these and/or/preference/normal comparing threads the more they will be done. I have opinions/preferences but prefer never to give them, my life is run how I like it and that really doesn't effect others ...
If we stop giving unnecessary opinions then perhaps one day they will stop being asked for = noone needs to offend anyone, they choose to! "
It’s not an unnecessary opinion. She has asked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's fine to have a preference, but why do these preference threads always have to shame or talk about people in a negative light?
Why call someone a stick because they are slim? How is stick a pleasant word to be described as?
Why imply someone isn't normal because they aren't curvy or small?
Damn. I completely understand why people are offended.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's fine to have a preference, but why do these preference threads always have to shame or talk about people in a negative light?
Why call someone a stick because they are slim? How is stick a pleasant word to be described as?
Why imply someone isn't normal because they aren't curvy or small?
Damn. I completely understand why people are offended.
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They use the word stick.
We were asking as it’s a genuine concern of hers.
But as usual people get on high horses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Defo curvy. Thin isn't attractive to me and I would detest to be thin. But unfortunately curvy is misunderstood here on Fab and elsewhere. Curvy means slim but with a curvy ass and boobs....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The more people answer these and/or/preference/normal comparing threads the more they will be done. I have opinions/preferences but prefer never to give them, my life is run how I like it and that really doesn't effect others ...
If we stop giving unnecessary opinions then perhaps one day they will stop being asked for = noone needs to offend anyone, they choose to!
It’s not an unnecessary opinion. She has asked.
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You asked the question here thus choosing to open a can of worms? If you ask for opinions then you'll get them warts and all ... personally I wonder if it's necessary in our lives? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's fine to have a preference, but why do these preference threads always have to shame or talk about people in a negative light?
Why call someone a stick because they are slim? How is stick a pleasant word to be described as?
Why imply someone isn't normal because they aren't curvy or small?
Damn. I completely understand why people are offended.
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This. We have opinions and preferences but that doesn’t mean we have to ‘judge’ (OP’s word) anyone, least of all publicly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The more people answer these and/or/preference/normal comparing threads the more they will be done. I have opinions/preferences but prefer never to give them, my life is run how I like it and that really doesn't effect others ...
If we stop giving unnecessary opinions then perhaps one day they will stop being asked for = noone needs to offend anyone, they choose to!
It’s not an unnecessary opinion. She has asked.
You asked the question here thus choosing to open a can of worms? If you ask for opinions then you'll get them warts and all ... personally I wonder if it's necessary in our lives? "
My query was it wasn’t unnecessary because we asked for opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us we can generally find an attraction in most body types, thin is fun for throwing around type play. Moderate is a nice all rounder and as the song says big girls, you are beautiful.
Its rather a shame that attraction to different body types appears to be something that happens only in consideration of female bodies however.
Males are more just a sliding scale from Calvin Klein model downwards. One archetypal body style to rule them all. You either have it or you don't. |
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"Who gives a fuck?
All of the men on here will say curvey, all of the women will agree and all of the ‘sticks’ will be shamed for not being over weight and curvey.
These posts benefit no one, you’re just making people feel bad. "
Doesnt make me feel bad I just think " what a load of sad w**kers they are if they rules by body shape" !!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads just attract outrage that their body type isn't the most admired
Everyone likes what they like and there is nothing wrong with that.
Our society says we have to look a certain way to be beautiful - and most people believe it.
Respect other peoples preferences - the fake outrage is so boring."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thin every single time I just love thin women. "
Have to admit that I just got completely side tracked by your profile. definitely a guy that knows what he likes. Fair play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Body shape doesn't matter to me, Common interests and sense of humour wins everytime  "
Almost agree with this.
It’s someone’s personality that wins out every time but I must say I’m not really attracted to fat people. Sorry. Just the way I am! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Different strokes for different folks we all like something different. All bodies are sexy and beautiful in different ways let's just appreciate everyone "
Agree |
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"I like all three. A time, place and mood for everything. "
Same.
My tastes are as wide as my arse.
Happily I'm not narrow minded enough to have to take an "either or" perspective to fellow human beings.
I don't want to be limited by what current fashion deems as "normal" or "sexy".
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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago
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"I like all three. A time, place and mood for everything.
Same.
My tastes are as wide as my arse.
Happily I'm not narrow minded enough to have to take an "either or" perspective to fellow human beings.
I don't want to be limited by what current fashion deems as "normal" or "sexy".
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There aren’t enough types to be as wide as my arse unfortunately!!  |
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"Thin, normal or curvy"
WTF is normal. This implies thin and curvy can't be normal, when they can and are. It puts those body types in the margins and makes them less acceptable.
Thin is normal for my body right now.
Curvy is normal for some.
Fat is normal for some.
Muscly is normal for some.
Etc etc
We all have preferences for our own bodies, and we all have physical qualities we're attracted to in others.
None of them are more or less worthy. None are inherently normal or abnormal. They just are.
Each individual will have their own words to use for their body and how they perceive it, and we should respect and use those as appropriate, but it is not for anyone to make that decision for another or to use a description that implies judgment or value.
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"Who gives a fuck?
All of the men on here will say curvey, all of the women will agree and all of the ‘sticks’ will be shamed for not being over weight and curvey.
These posts benefit no one, you’re just making people feel bad. "
No but you seem happy to shame curvy people as overweight..... |
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"These threads just attract outrage that their body type isn't the most admired
Everyone likes what they like and there is nothing wrong with that.
Our society says we have to look a certain way to be beautiful - and most people believe it.
Respect other peoples preferences - the fake outrage is so boring.
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