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Yeah, not sure on what you mean, with the other party?.. hmm. with a solo male.. no, it'd be weird.
with a couple it's a lot more intimate, so I don't know, I can imagine K's answer would be a hard no! :P |
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"Yeah, not sure on what you mean, with the other party?.. hmm. with a solo male.. no, it'd be weird.
with a couple it's a lot more intimate, so I don't know, I can imagine K's answer would be a hard no! :P "
Yes, sorry that's what I meant. With the person/couple you're having the meet with.
I think it's something that should be between husband/wife/partners. As you say it's an intimate thing. Not sure if I'm over thinking |
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"If its first agreed to be within the boundaries of the play meet then yes, if not then no.
Breaking a couples trust by pushing boundaries when you have one of them on they're own is a big no no. "
He thinks it's fine, I think I would feel uncomfortable with it |
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"Depends
If it’s a man then no
If it’s a couple then no that’s they thing they trust
If it’s a woman and that’s what she wanted then yes "
And all have to be comfortable with it?! |
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"Depends
If it’s a man then no
If it’s a couple then no that’s they thing they trust
If it’s a woman and that’s what she wanted then yes
And all have to be comfortable with it?! "
Yes
Well with men it’s just a sex thing for me cuddling means more intimate to me
For couples I am under no elusons that it’s nothing more than sex
And for single woman well then could be a chance that they want things to go much further and transcend just casual sex |
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"We don’t and wouldn’t cuddle with others it just wouldn’t feel right .Kissing others during playing then yes cuddling after no."
That's what I said. I wouldn't feel comfortable afterwards. There is a degree of cuddling during I suppose, but after, no. It's a more intimate and personal thing afterwards |
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"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x
With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party? " I've never cuddled up to a man after sex except an actual partner. I've also rarely kissed during a fab meet till recently. |
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"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x
With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party? I've never cuddled up to a man after sex except an actual partner. I've also rarely kissed during a fab meet till recently."
Has that just been your preference, or another reason, if you don't mind me asking |
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"If its first agreed to be within the boundaries of the play meet then yes, if not then no.
Breaking a couples trust by pushing boundaries when you have one of them on they're own is a big no no.
He thinks it's fine, I think I would feel uncomfortable with it "
Then you have your answer for now, things may change if you find a third who is a good friend and the trust boundaries are there.
After all including others into sexual play is only to enhance each others sexual experiences, sex should be fun no dramatics included |
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"It's a bit too intimate for me. Something I'd only really do with a partner, not a Fab meet "
You can recieve love from absolutely anybody if you accept it |
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"It's a bit too intimate for me. Something I'd only really do with a partner, not a Fab meet
You can recieve love from absolutely anybody if you accept it "
I'm sure you can. I'd just rather not |
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"Very hot to do after reclaim Sex x
With your own partner yes, definitely. What about with the other party? I've never cuddled up to a man after sex except an actual partner. I've also rarely kissed during a fab meet till recently.
Has that just been your preference, or another reason, if you don't mind me asking " my preference. The not kissing is a bi product of something that happened to me on my first sexual experience... but the cuddling during random sex has more been my personal choice. When I was a couple it was the only thing that ever caused me jealousy. I came back in and my partner was laying cuddled up and I was not happy... ( we had agreed to not do so prior to this too though) |
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Its worth mentioning for me that I'm a greedy girl and rarely do 121 sex... however I haven't really cuddled up with individuals either if its random sex.
To those not getting those that choose to... remember somewhere someone will be judging us for wanting to share our partners with others full stop.. to have multiple partners... you dont have to understand it just respect it |
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