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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people seem to get so het up about what you should and shouldn't be doing with your own body?!
There was a thread yesterday about overweight people shouldn't be being classed as fabulous, in the virus forum threads about the vaccine and how beneficial it is to have it, even being on fab there are those who feel being on a site like this you should be sharing your body with anyone who asks.
Where does it stop? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people seem to get so het up about what you should and shouldn't be doing with your own body?!
There was a thread yesterday about overweight people shouldn't be being classed as fabulous, in the virus forum threads about the vaccine and how beneficial it is to have it, even being on fab there are those who feel being on a site like this you should be sharing your body with anyone who asks.
Where does it stop? "
Did someone actually say that, that if you’re on here you should share with anyone who asks  |
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Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice. |
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For the same reason some people get het up by anything other people do that's different to what they do. It bothers them because they're not 100% secure in their choice. If they criticise the ones who make different choices and can get other to back them up they feel better about themselves. |
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"Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice. "
But how does somebody not finding another person sexually attractive make them superficial ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice.
But how does somebody not finding another person sexually attractive make them superficial ?"
i was thinking this too ?? rejection is part of the scene best get used to it as it happens to all of us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For the same reason some people get het up by anything other people do that's different to what they do. It bothers them because they're not 100% secure in their choice. If they criticise the ones who make different choices and can get other to back them up they feel better about themselves."
Well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems
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This.
People who incessantly criticise others reveal a deep dissatisfaction with themselves and their own lives. Projection, the shrinks call it. |
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"Got to admit that being fat and ugly does not help. Just stating facts about me by the way. So that makes it hard for me to meet and have a couple profile with my wife and I know I put most people off when they see my pics as there are a lot of superficial people here. However I understand there are also people out there that want attraction but that does not mean you have to be rude. I find there are lots of good people here who politely say not interested. But that is their choice.
But how does somebody not finding another person sexually attractive make them superficial ?"
OK that was badly worded on my part |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems
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Very true. Lot of headfucked people out there these days. |
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"I think some have such a lack of control in their own lives they need to control others, rather than address their own problems
Very true. Lot of headfucked people out there these days. "
Even more on these forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol I try and avoid personal trainers or guys to into fitness after dating some slim guys are ok depending I like bigger men and women size 12 upwards where as some people would like size 8-10 or a gym fit guy end of the day it's preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has opinions about something.
Why do people get het up about people having opinions?
I don't as long as they have the same opinions as me.  "
Scary.   |
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