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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

A fabulous score is a high score, a fabulous glossy shine is just that. So why do bigger people claim to have fabulous figures. Now I'm not svelt, toned, an Adonis but when I click on a profile and see fabulous you.would expect an amazing figure.

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

Why cant a bigger woman have a fabulous body?...many men think they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Brace yourself Op, incoming.

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By *hilledGuerillaMan over a year ago

In the monkey house

Standby for incoming fire.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Like you care about our health

Anyone can think they have a fabulous body so anyone can choose that option. I know I'm fucking fabulous regardless of my dress size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Early prediction, this ones going the distance.

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By *isAdventure69Woman over a year ago

Hampshire

I'll must park myself here and munch on my wotsists ....

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By *lovebustyladiesMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I thought 16-18 average body size anything under 12 needs a good meal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Popcorn time

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Pulls up a chair and snacks on popcorn....

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

CALLING ALL UNITS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Holy...... Brave!!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Popcorn time

Got enough there for 2?

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

This post just comes across as very ignorant and judgmental and shows a complete lack of knowledge on women's bodies.

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m not svelte but I’m pretty fabulous. When it comes to me I care how I feel about myself not others

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

Surely it's how the individual feels about themselves. If they are on the larger size but they are happy, then why can't they call themselves fabulous.

Why should it affect you how others describe themselves?

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Another attempted fabicide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Brace yourself Op, incoming. "

Not worried in the slightest, think whatever but a size is factual, a body type on here seems like opinion. There are slim women who say curvy coz they have big tits, skinny toned who say athletic, then there are slim, average, curvy and large who all.claim fabulous. Think what they want but fab really makes it difficult.

At least of there were definite sizes for men, women and all the other genders people could filter searches and omit those.outsode their preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not going to go well this op

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Oh look. A thread where large AND slim ladies are body shamed. Sheesh.

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By *scouple07Couple over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Hope OP has his hard hat on as we can predict a barrage on replies coming in

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By *lackCherry...Woman over a year ago

North East

Pretty sure size 16 is average in the UK

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Brace yourself Op, incoming.

At least of there were definite sizes for men, women and all the other genders people could filter searches and omit those.outsode their preference"

Or you could look at pictures maybe?!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Oh look. A thread where large AND slim ladies are body shamed. Sheesh."

Equal opportunities in action

From a fat lass (but couldn't find that category when signing up to Fab

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm just here for the labels!

Jo.Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because they feel good about themselves and are seeking those who agree with that assessment.

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By *luebellRacerCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

Wow.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

OP, fat people (and thin for that matter) can describe themselves how they want.

However, the choices for descriptive purposes on Fab are very narrow and they don’t have a “fat bastard”choice.

Maybe take it up with the site?

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

Then they should also have a box for the blokes to tick called wanker...or maybe just missed it..

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By *ympho6969Woman over a year ago

glasgow

I am curvy and love my body. I am far from a 12.

I have no health issues whatsoever. So not sure how you say its a heath scare...

Everyone likes different things OP. Some thing a size 8 is amazing while others think that its skin and bones. Conversely some love 16 18 and even bigger, while others would call them fat or unhealthy.

Just because its not to your taste doesnt mean that no one sees the appeal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So your looking for a very size specific op? Like what 10/12 kinda specific just asking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

So enlighten me as to what I am at a size 12/14/16 then? Just plain old fat?? What do "we all know" a size 14-18 is as you've missed that bracket. Women's "sizes" vary depending on where they shop. Also have you actually stopped to think there could be medical issues??? My weight fluctuates due to a thyroid issue....

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By *ancaster31Man over a year ago

Blackpool

Fabulous is a silly body type option I do agree. What's fabulous to one is not to another. That's from someone who prefers girls to be flabulous

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Get ready to dodge the bullets OP....

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also love men who try to inform women about women's clothing sizes

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Hmm wonder if this is one of these threads, where if I insult one kind of lady then the other kind will think I'm amazing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah because we need more body shaming in this world. I for one would not give my dress size out as a body size, It's no one's damn business. Don't like the look of me? Pass on by but don't stop and shame on the way

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

Looking at your pic you definitely not Slim size 8 more size 12/ 13 .

I’m a size 20 and have a fabulous shapely figure . What exactly was your point ?

I Don’t have any health problems apart from under active thyroid .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm fabulous and so is my body, I couldn't care less what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that? "

Fully considered, and people should be able to search based on preference. As not every profile has a picture, and people are creative with camera angles and filters nowadays an actual size would help many.

I get clothes bridge sizes, bit of I preferred larger 16+ size women, or under size 14 I should be able to filter accordingly. The site has been around long enough to introduce better filters and search parameters.

It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now this may be a sensitive subject for some but why on earth do big people.claim they have a fabulous body.

I can't speak for others (like you did) but I picked fabulous because they told me so.

More seriously - what qualifies you to decide what is fabulous or not?

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By *evoncream2017Couple over a year ago

exeter

"I'll must park myself here and munch on my wotsists ...."

Hmmm love wotsits.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman over a year ago

Near Bourne

I'm a size 16-18 and get plenty of compliments on my body. I believe a 16 is your average for the UK.

If I think my body is fabulous I'll say so. If I'm happy in myself why can't I say I'm fabulous..... now wheres that block button??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having fun fishing OP? Some folk will say anything for attention. If ppl are happy surely that enough they don’t need to telling them how to feel about their body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I get what you're trying to say. You've said pretty bloody badly, but I think what you meant was that that Fab makes it hard to filter by body size preference because the categories are vague. I understand that, I call myself curvy because I am curvy, but I've been criticised for doing this as others think curvy means other things. There's no right answer, we all interpret it our own way. Your idea of clothes sizes is tricky because they vary by height/frame - a size 8 on someone my height would look skeletal, for example.

Your best bet is just to look at photos. And brace yourself for the responses you'll get in this thread lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fabulous is a silly body type option I do agree. What's fabulous to one is not to another. That's from someone who prefers girls to be flabulous "

I don't think it's silly at all.

If that's how somebody whatever their shape or size wants to describe their own body that is on them and maybe they don't fit into any of the other categories because they are very narrow.

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By *luebellRacerCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site"

Then take it to the FAB advice section, not here in the lounge.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Fabulous is a silly body type option I do agree. What's fabulous to one is not to another. That's from someone who prefers girls to be flabulous

I don't think it's silly at all.

If that's how somebody whatever their shape or size wants to describe their own body that is on them and maybe they don't fit into any of the other categories because they are very narrow."

Yeah, to me it's "fuck this, none of the above"

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By *lovebustyladiesMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm a size 16-18 and get plenty of compliments on my body. I believe a 16 is your average for the UK.

If I think my body is fabulous I'll say so. If I'm happy in myself why can't I say I'm fabulous..... now wheres that block button??"

Just looked your profile not bad, not bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *evoncream2017Couple over a year ago

exeter

Hubby prefers me curvey .

But It’s what size makes you happy really

If you don’t like it jog on

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Look, when they add it as an option, I'll pick "fat lass, slight seconds (damaged goods) - no warranty"

Is that okay?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman is fabulous if she believes it no matter her size

However what grips me is profiles stating curvy then the write up is along the lines of hygienic, plays safe etc but in the pics it’s more like ample, the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy and the “fuck” pics are all with unsheathed cock, not safe

Basically bullshit from start to finish, so if the boot fits please be truthful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" we all know a size 8 is slim, a 12 is average bit a size 18 and above is definitely not fabulous it is a health scare"

Well thanks for your view & opinion OP, you have such a way with words. If a lady wants to decribe herself as fabulous who are you, or anyone other than herself, to say she isn't? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You might want to remember that one & just scroll on by.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look, when they add it as an option, I'll pick "fat lass, slight seconds (damaged goods) - no warranty"

Is that okay?

Will they also add ‘man with penis growing from forehead’?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site"

You will not be the 1st all the last to suggest this however you did it in a very clumsy way.

You say you are not having a dig at anyone larger but if that was the case you would not have said anything 18 plus was a health scare.

Cloths size actually has very little to do with body shape or type.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP is correct in a certain point though, more filters would deffo help in our search for what we are looking for!

It would save sooo much time for us, to be able to rule out those we want to avoid!

Suggestions could include:

Arrogant

Twat

Judgmental

Ignorant

Shallow

Hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have thought everyone understood that the "fabulous" category is a kind of ironic, tongue-in-cheek option for those who don't want to label themselves by a category and let people decide from their pics (like me).

Not really sure why you care enough to make a whole thread about it? Don't really see how it hurts you. If you don't like someone's body just... Move on to the next profile...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Brace yourself Op, incoming.

At least of there were definite sizes for men, women and all the other genders people could filter searches and omit those.outsode their preference"

I didn’t realise we weren’t allowed to make our own decisions about it?

Who is anyone to say someone isn’t fabulous!

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Pulls up a chair and snacks on popcorn....

Shares on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy"

Charming

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My body is twice as fabulous as many others........ Literally.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's up to the person themselves what they want to call themselves. If you don't agree then just move on. Why knock a body type just because it doesn't fit what you think it should.

I'm not slim I wish I was but I'm not it's a work in progress. Would I have the body confidence to call myself fabulous not a hope so I am full of admiration for those no matter what their size is for doing that.

It's just sickening how people on here knock others because they don't fit into what they think is right and take pleasure in knocking anyone who may have confidence in how they look.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site"

Yet it was. You had a problem with bigger women choosing fabulous as a body type because you don't think it's fabulous and is a heath scare.

It is what it is. Fabulous is above curvy and large so makes sense that the larger ladies use it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP

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By *ackformore100Man over a year ago

Tin town

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that? "

It's clearly a touchy subject I think op has merit. It's not about body shaming at all, and that's never been said. Nor is he commenting on whether someone "feels" fabulous or "feels" marvelous or anything else.it's just observing the anachronism of the term. "body type" is the label. And fabulous is a judgement. Its kind of similar to changing the height label to... "tall, short or fabulous" or the sexuality to straight, bi or fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not sure the OP has read the room here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP

Maybe that is what we should all do and not have a category on body type.

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP

Pfffffft. Ive been saying you're fabulous for years.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Also.... I would love to see a guy look at a woman and guess their clothes size correctly. They all seem such experts at women's sizing on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

You can't search for body size can you ?

People could put supermodel, broomstick or fridge freezer I'm not interested what they put down I use my eyes when looking

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

OP you say "It's not a dig at larger or slimmer people it's directed at fab as they don't seem to take a great deal on board to improve the site."

So you don't believe that saying

"Fabulous you would expect an amazing figure" so your suggesting that larger people cannot be fabulous though I don't see why they cannot be?

And this is the worst one in my opinion using a person's health which you don't give a crap about let's be honest, but you're using it as a put down "fabulous it is a health scare".

Now you're entitled to your preference and yeah the body categories here aren't ideal. But you choose to go for the larger ladies not men. If you're that worried you could have offered some ideas for both genders, but no you decided not to, funny that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

I dont get why you reply and quoted me.... you could have just posted without the reply and quote.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Also.... I would love to see a guy look at a woman and guess their clothes size correctly. They all seem such experts at women's sizing on here

There's something of a fixation on women's sizing, yes. If it's not clothes size, then it's bra size (woefully misunderstood). Have we had any examples of women asking for men with only a certain waist size?!

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By *..TsunamiPandaWoman over a year ago

Stoke-On-Trent

Curvy/fabulous or so I'm told.

Have curves in all the right places.

Now where is that popcorn

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By *everlyandersonTV/TS over a year ago

newcastle

"Like you care about our health

Anyone can think they have a fabulous body so anyone can choose that option. I know I'm fucking fabulous regardless of my dress size. "

I agree with the above , I'm not a woman but a cd/TV not the slimmest but it's amazing how many people love the fuller figure ,I bet he wouldn't refuse to have sexy fun with anyone with a fuller figure lol

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

There's a slight difference between "has an active infection" and "has not bowed to fashion and removed hair that naturally grows"

Just a teeny tiny difference

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The labels that we assign to ourselves are much more important than the ones that others pick for us.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Years ago when I first joined Fab it was explained to me that Fabulous was next size up from Curvy in Fab sizes.

But size is always subjective and many guys on Fab need a re-think too

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also.... I would love to see a guy look at a woman and guess their clothes size correctly. They all seem such experts at women's sizing on here

I have thoughts on this.

I'm not going there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The labels that we assign to ourselves are much more important than the ones that others pick for us.

Cal"

Nail on head Cal!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

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By *ovestruck69Man over a year ago

Southampton

Many yrs ago I used to be slim, around 8.5st and thought anyone over a size 10/12 was fat, but that came and bit me in the ass, as I had a thyroid condition called hypothyroidism, it ment I could eat 15,000 calories a day and not put an ounce of weight on, but I had a hard choice to make, either try and eat 20,000+ calories a day or my body would start to eat itself and could possibly die or have a operation to have my thyroid removed, so I chose to have the operation, within 6mts I put on 10st, I lost 1.5" off my cock (it now 6.5") and I gained more weight my highest was 26st. But it now around 18 to 19st and I started to love the more fabulous lady one of my ex's was a size 22 and another size 26, I've also had some ladies size 10 upwards. I know I'm no Adonis but I feel great in my body and many fabulous women look fucking hot and sexy. I just wish I wasn't such a dick all those years ago. Keep it going you fabulous sexy hot women!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well from a crisp eating fatty. I wear sizes 20/22/24. Does that help. We all come in various shapes. How many options would you like choose from?

Perfection doesn't come from options,it's in the eye of the beholder. I'm not very good with words but this woman is trying damn hard to except her self the way she is.

Sorry I don't come with a delete button. Just move on.

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By *oroRick1027Man over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Speaking as someone who works in a clothing warehouse, I can tell you that the most popular size is 14

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"A woman is fabulous if she believes it no matter her size

Basically bullshit from start to finish, so if the boot fits please be truthful

Just FYI, body hair does not mean poor hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Speaking as someone who works in a clothing warehouse, I can tell you that the most popular size is 14"

And thats relevant, how?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though. "

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Many yrs ago I used to be slim, around 8.5st and thought anyone over a size 10/12 was fat, but that came and bit me in the ass, as I had a thyroid condition called hypothyroidism, it ment I could eat 15,000 calories a day and not put an ounce of weight on, but I had a hard choice to make, either try and eat 20,000+ calories a day or my body would start to eat itself and could possibly die or have a operation to have my thyroid removed, so I chose to have the operation, within 6mts I put on 10st, I lost 1.5" off my cock (it now 6.5") and I gained more weight my highest was 26st. But it now around 18 to 19st and I started to love the more fabulous lady one of my ex's was a size 22 and another size 26, I've also had some ladies size 10 upwards. I know I'm no Adonis but I feel great in my body and many fabulous women look fucking hot and sexy. I just wish I wasn't such a dick all those years ago. Keep it going you fabulous sexy hot women!

You mean hyperthyroidism. Not hypo. Glad you got it fixed and you're happy

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

It is absolutely bodyshaming to state that everyone over a certain size is unhealthy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm gonna go change mine to fabulous just to annoy you OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A woman is fabulous if she believes it no matter her size

Basically bullshit from start to finish, so if the boot fits please be truthful

Just FYI, body hair does not mean poor hygiene."

I know, I have a bit of peach fuzz myself but I’m squeaky clean but some, not all, maybe are

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think there is no way that you can actually use body shape/size labels as a guide to what someone's body is like. Saying that, you can also not use clothes size or even measurements to accurately know what someone's body will be like. Because we are all different, and some people (sit down, this will come as a shock) aren't entirely truthful.

All you can do, if body size matters that much to you, is go by pictures. And if someone doesn't have pictures then they are obviously not for you.

And by the way, I had way more health issues when I was a size 12-16 (as the size that fits depends on so very many things) than I do now I'm a size 18-24 (if I went down a couple cup sizes I'd drop a size immediately).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps the OP chose the right name - he probably didn’t imagine this much hot fun though.

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

For arguments sake there was such an option. I'm a size 10 waist. I sometimes have to go up to a 14/16 up top for the boobs. So what would I tick?

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can’t believe this post! Who the hell are you OP to be so judgemental?

I for one like all body sizes so in my eyes they are all fabulous!

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By *ackformore100Man over a year ago

Tin town

"Your OP is a tad ignorant but youre entitled to your opinion. Going by dress size is moot, size 12 in one shop is size 14 in another.

Live and let live? We all know being over weight is bad and lockdown(s) haven't helped. Maybe not everyone wants to be a size 12 slim thing, ever considered that?

Read the OP again and tell me that is not boby shaming.

He said very clearly anything over a size 18 is a health scare"

I don't read it as shaming anything. But then I may have blinkers on or just not refined my language skills enough yet. Text can certainly be a clumsy communication medium..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can’t believe this post! Who the hell are you OP to be so judgemental?

I for one like all body sizes so in my eyes they are all fabulous! "
well said obviously the op isnt happy with his own life or body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming."

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For arguments sake there was such an option. I'm a size 10 waist. I sometimes have to go up to a 14/16 up top for the boobs. So what would I tick? "

You tick what you feel is right for you.

It doesn't matter what you tick because somebody will feel the need to come and tell you you are wrong.

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

I can also choose fabulous as my male body type

I choose not to as I’m not that confident in my body

I’d like to think there would be one or two females out there who think I might be fabulous though

I love the fact that anyone can choose fabulous to describe themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO"

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often read stuff on here from men whining they cant get layed

And think " try losing the shitty attitude big boy"

This thread says it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the cooch is randomly hairy and looks rather messy

Charming

I’m genuinely not being disrespectful but I have looked at and read a few profiles to find some very, IMO unsightful lady bits, like if you ladies saw a penis with warts or worse

Think it’s called catfishing and I’d be mortified if, when safe, I met someone who’d blatantly lied

It's not catfishing if they include actual photos of themselves. They haven't hidden the truth, it's there to see. There's no need to be disgusted by someone's body though.

I’m not disgusted, I didn’t say that, I think women full stop are lush but feel some are a little deceitful is all x

But I don’t condone body shaming and fabulous is “FABULOUS” and amazing

Making nasty comments about people’s genitals is also bodyshaming.

Possibly but not my intention, more like pointing out a dislike of mine is all IMO

You can express a preference without suggesting women are deceitful."

True but I was making a point of my own, not intending to shame or disrespect, just a point, my view is clearly wrong, not.