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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3rd account here
Yes I do because I think if I’d of found it earlier with the girl I was with at the time, we would of had an amazing couples account & experiences
But will never know so make the best of what you have & when you have it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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11 years ago, but discovered swinging at the end of the nineties. I wish I’d worked it out in my 20s. The door was open but I was still a slave to my conditioning at the time. |
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"3rd account here
Yes I do because I think if I’d of found it earlier with the girl I was with at the time, we would of had an amazing couples account & experiences
But will never know so make the best of what you have & when you have it"
Yes everyone needs to enjoy what they have at the present moment. Things can change too quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was either late 2010 or early 2011 originally
I had a great 2/3 years of meeting people and there were some right characters in the forums that will stick me with for some time |
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"11 years ago, but discovered swinging at the end of the nineties. I wish I’d worked it out in my 20s. The door was open but I was still a slave to my conditioning at the time. "
11 years is good going  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was either late 2010 or early 2011 originally
I had a great 2/3 years of meeting people and there were some right characters in the forums that will stick me with for some time "
Yeah. I would have liked to have discovered the forum earlier than I did. It took me until November 2013 to find the forum. I was in the verge of leaving but bumped into a newbie. So I ended up asking an innocent question about local clubs with a view to visiting one with her. She left the site soon after, but the banter on that thread hooked me in.
By Christmas I was kicking myself for not finding it sooner, having spent the first four years frequenting the chatrooms and struggling to make any connections at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to chat on this, get alot of American slander towards me on these forums. Other then that I been on it for a year, I don't take it seriously anymore, need more decent and genuine people on this that's for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"11 years ago, but discovered swinging at the end of the nineties. I wish I’d worked it out in my 20s. The door was open but I was still a slave to my conditioning at the time.
11 years is good going "
Just before Bussy joined, although our paths didn’t quite cross early on. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Eight years ago, admittedly there have been breaks for long/short stretches of time.
No, I don't wish I found it any earlier, I'm happy when I did. I wish I'd had the confidence in myself on here when I was younger - to ask for what I wanted sexually, to say no it's not working etc. |
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Not as long as most joined years ago and came back with a singles profile. Then met Alice when I was about to leave again after throwing my dummy out the pram.
Now I wish i had met her alot sooner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking back I think the writing was always on the wall for me to be a hotwife, just didnt realise it until a year ago! Im glad I've waited until im secure and confident in myself so as fun as it is, I dont wish I'd done it sooner  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Joined Fab 8 years ago and have enjoyed the experiences we have had. Yes wish we had took the plunge and entered the lifestyle earlier but jobs and family would probably have restricted our fun back then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2015 with the original couple’s profile I think.
It’s the friendships that have been the major hold for me here.
People of similar mindsets and beliefs.
Part of me does wish I’d been exposed to the kind of open minded chats and ideas that have become such an influence from fab but then I might not of had the experiences that have led to being where I am now.
On balance I don’t wanna change a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 11/12 years ago with my then husband, when we separated I joined on my own as wanted a wide variety of naughty fun but not ready for a relationship . It didn't work out that way as I found the love of my life on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have found fab to be a light in a dark place
Fun where I thought there was none left
And most of all it has brought my closest friends
So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier
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Quack! |
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"I have found fab to be a light in a dark place
Fun where I thought there was none left
And most of all it has brought my closest friends
So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier
Quack! "
Now this is a very rare duck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have found fab to be a light in a dark place
Fun where I thought there was none left
And most of all it has brought my closest friends
So yes, I like it and I wish I found them all earlier
Quack!
Now this is a very rare duck "
As rare as rocking horse shit?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long have you been on Fab and do you wish you had found this lifestyle earlier?"
I've been on a couple of times in the last two years.
Definitely wish I'd found this lifestyle earlier. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Five years in Feb since I originally joined - and five years in October with this profile.
More than happy with my experience to date, although how much longer it continues remains to be seen.
Do I wish I had found it sooner? I can see the pros and cons of having done so and on balance I don't know is the honest answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here almost 2 years i think
I was very straight laced, constrained by my upbringing and societal conditioning... But I've always had a gleam in my eye
I definitely wish I'd found it in my 30s.. I kinda feel I'm so old now, I'll never get to be truely me.. I'll run out of time  |
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"Been here almost 2 years i think
I was very straight laced, constrained by my upbringing and societal conditioning... But I've always had a gleam in my eye
I definitely wish I'd found it in my 30s.. I kinda feel I'm so old now, I'll never get to be truely me.. I'll run out of time "
I would say you are in your prime!
But it’s a state of mind that I totally understand, didn’t think this is where I would hang out at 50 lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 6 yrs now...introduced by a friend
Gave me confidence about my desires I was seeking after being put down for yrs. Felt liberated and once introduced to a club I'm now hooked..
Gives me light and laughter |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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We've been on and off for about 5 years now we think, having deleted our account for about 2 months last time, we quickly came back... We do wish we'd found it before starting our family. A little more freedom in that respect would have probably helped.  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
January 2016. Prior to that I was on another sex site. Whilst I wish I had found Fab earlier as more local men here, the site prior to Fab gifted me two red hot lovers that I had some of the best sex ever with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I've been on and off of here for about 11 or 12 years. This is my 2nd profile, I had a break of 4 or 5 months between profiles.
Before here I'd been on smaller swingers sites for about 3 or 4 years but have been swinging for over 20 years, starting with the contact mag era. I think I started just at the right time for me
Up until covid kicked in FAB was just a place to keep up with people I met at swingers clubs, people I hoped to meet at swingers clubs and a place for promoting events I held or ran guest lists for at swingers clubs.
Now it's a place to while away a bit of time until lockdown restrictions start to ease again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very new to me. We wonder about whether we had found it sooner during our marriage it would have made any difference, but clearly we weren’t ready. Now we are x |
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