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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards "
Maybe put exactly what you want on your profile and see who responds....your in charge and make your own rules |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards "
I think what you are looking for is perfectly understandable and realistic. In fact I think quite a few people, male and female are looking for similar but maybe call it something else.
Good luck with the search - I think it is perfectly possible.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seek and ye shall find.. " apparently. Easier said than done but this place appears to be a splendid one and contains lots of decent folk so dont give up and best of luck x. |
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You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Seek and ye shall find.. " apparently. Easier said than done but this place appears to be a splendid one and contains lots of decent folk so dont give up and best of luck x."
Thank you comrade |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X"
For the love of all gods in the world
I really need to give my sarcasm a break on here |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X"
It is all down to communication and that seems to be the hardest thing, don't you think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had this problem on here... hence why I have hidden away.
It isnt a standard relationship I seek, but not just fwb either. 
Quite the conundrum. "
It sure is a pickle |
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"You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X
For the love of all gods in the world
I really need to give my sarcasm a break on here"
Sorry. Sarcasm is tricky to detect by text. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I have had this problem on here... hence why I have hidden away.
It isnt a standard relationship I seek, but not just fwb either.
Quite the conundrum. "
You'll find it LilLil. It might not be immediate but I think that it's possible. You can't really force it to happen, you have to wait and see where it goes.
P.S What about the mantox?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X
It is all down to communication and that seems to be the hardest thing, don't you think? "
I think it is
Plus the notion that some of us on here have the as ability to be quite funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards "
Two minds one thought xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X
For the love of all gods in the world
I really need to give my sarcasm a break on here
Sorry. Sarcasm is tricky to detect by text. "
Exactly !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had this problem on here... hence why I have hidden away.
It isnt a standard relationship I seek, but not just fwb either.
Quite the conundrum.
You'll find it LilLil. It might not be immediate but I think that it's possible. You can't really force it to happen, you have to wait and see where it goes.
P.S What about the mantox? "
The Mantox is currently a forced one as I cant even give my vagina away (joke, I know it is a pandemic) |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"You can see how people might get confused though....
"21 minutes ago... Is looking only for meaningful relationships with non needy people"
Men are fairly black and white. If you ask for them to make steak and chips for dinner but actually want vegetable curry, don't be too surprised if you get steak and chips. X
It is all down to communication and that seems to be the hardest thing, don't you think?
I think it is
Plus the notion that some of us on here have the as ability to be quite funny "
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If find this a rather interesting debate.
Two fabulous, strong , independent ladies are having troubles finding the right connections.
All we ever here is boys complaining about the site and no response etc etc.
We all know that FAB has a gult single males.
Conclusion
Gentlemen there are ladies outhere looking for connections. You are just not forfilling their needs.
Perhaps rethink your approach and outlook gentlemen and you could be the connection these ladies and many more are looking for... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That’s what I’m looking for as well. However, even you think you find them. Most of them tend to steer away for some reason after a certain time. Guess my ongoing excitement not appealing for men  "
Not all xx |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards "
Looking for exactly the same here! I think we are in the right place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If find this a rather interesting debate.
Two fabulous, strong , independent ladies are having troubles finding the right connections.
All we ever here is boys complaining about the site and no response etc etc.
We all know that FAB has a gult single males.
Conclusion
Gentlemen there are ladies outhere looking for connections. You are just not forfilling their needs.
Perhaps rethink your approach and outlook gentlemen and you could be the connection these ladies and many more are looking for..."
Amen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apply settings to what your after. Your not in the wrong place, it's just some people can't be bothered to read what you put. Hope you find what you're looking for. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apply settings to what your after. Your not in the wrong place, it's just some people can't be bothered to read what you put. Hope you find what you're looking for. Xx"
My tongue was firmly in my cheek
But thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apply settings to what your after. Your not in the wrong place, it's just some people can't be bothered to read what you put. Hope you find what you're looking for. Xx
My tongue was firmly in my cheek
But thank you "
I now have a mental picture to go with your eyes. Love the 80's deffo my era. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apply settings to what your after. Your not in the wrong place, it's just some people can't be bothered to read what you put. Hope you find what you're looking for. Xx
My tongue was firmly in my cheek
But thank you
I now have a mental picture to go with your eyes. Love the 80's deffo my era. "
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"That’s what I’m looking for as well. However, even you think you find them. Most of them tend to steer away for some reason after a certain time. Guess my ongoing excitement not appealing for men "
That's not my experience but maybe I've been lucky. I think people come to this site for multiple reasons and I am sure that you will find what you are looking for. Try a forward projection of you in this ideal relationship. What does it look like? How does it make you feel? How would you describe it to your best friend? |
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"Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards "
That’s what I’m searching for but very difficult to find .
Covid making it harder I think   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I in the wrong place ?
I don’t want a relationship, I don’t really want someone bothering me a lot.
I do however want someone to be there when I want them, not necessarily for full on sex either - I quite like giving you see.
I may have to rethink my life
Kind regards
That’s what I’m searching for but very difficult to find .
Covid making it harder I think "
Well
Yes  |
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