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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I send very little. Shame on me

I don't have expectations either.

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

I don't send many pictures, for which the guys I message are profoundly grateful!

I do receive some beauties. I'm quite a selfish messager though I'm very openly appreciative of the photos I receive.

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

I send more than I receive, but the men I’m talking to are gentlemen and never ask for them, if I’ve taken new pics I’ll offer to send some and no-one’s said no yet. My FWB sometimes sends me videos and I do appreciate those. The only person I get a similar amount of pics from as I send is a woman. I think maybe women just take more photos than men. I’d like to receive more (from the men I’m talking to, before anyone gets any ideas), but I’m too shy to ask. I like sharing mine though so I’m happy with that side of it, as they’re all polite and never make demands.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're telling me you send more than you receive?

Where's more women like you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

Your going against the status quo. Majority of ladies on Fab are very clear they have no interest in 6 o'clock shots. Far more concerned with the person and character. It's why my page is a wfz. (winky free zone)

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By *arker secrets 321Man over a year ago

West Bromwich

Pics should b fun and no lady should b pushed 2 send anything she is not comfy with ...its always nice 2 receive a nice tastefull pic ie face wen u receive face pic tells me ur comfy with our conversation x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're telling me you send more than you receive?

Where's more women like you

Here!

I send way more than I receive.

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

She’s talking about people we’ve met or intend to meet, I think. That’s a very different thing than unsolicited pics from strangers.

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By *rre786Man over a year ago

Reading

From my perspective, I'm happy to share but think it's polite to wait till I'm asked, rather than sending unsolicited (plus, it's a turn on to be asked).

I try not to ask too much, trends to feel like pestering. But anything shared is very welcome.

I feel like it's that old stereotype that men are more visually simulated than women (although of course there are exceptions...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're telling me you send more than you receive?

Where's more women like you

Here!

I send way more than I receive. "

Woah, I've missed my delivery!

I don't think I've ever chatted to someone to who would send more than me, but I'm a pervy little shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics should b fun and no lady should b pushed 2 send anything she is not comfy with ...its always nice 2 receive a nice tastefull pic ie face wen u receive face pic tells me ur comfy with our conversation x "

I don't get pushed in to sending them, I choose to and I know they make my friends smile. Would be nice to get a few more in return though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

I'm talking more when youve established that you're both sexually attracted to each and sleeping with each other. (pre covid of course)

I could send pics to a man to get him in the mood but I could almost guarantee that most of the time he wouldn't send any back or be the first to.

I want to know why that is.

Is it a confidence thing or do guys think we aren't as visually stimulated? Or something else?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I don't know, I think I'd feel weird just randomly sending a photo of me to them and so I'll only send them if they ask but they don't tend to (probs because it's nicer to look at my words than a photo of me

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nothing to do with being pushed into pics at all. Totally an own choice to send with no expectation to get any back but it would nice if you did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I send considerably more than I receive and soon get blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

She’s talking about people we’ve met or intend to meet, I think. That’s a very different thing than unsolicited pics from strangers."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

She’s talking about people we’ve met or intend to meet, I think. That’s a very different thing than unsolicited pics from strangers."

I hadn't considered it that way. From the stage of attraction being reciprocated. It shouldn't be one way traffic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

I'm talking more when youve established that you're both sexually attracted to each and sleeping with each other. (pre covid of course)

I could send pics to a man to get him in the mood but I could almost guarantee that most of the time he wouldn't send any back or be the first to.

I want to know why that is.

Is it a confidence thing or do guys think we aren't as visually stimulated? Or something else?"

Perhaps the latter? Usually women complain about being spammed with pics so maybe he thinks you won't like it

Talk to him

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Strangely enough - i don't get asked for sexy pics.

Any other guy might think his fat hairy arse wasn't sexy.

Not me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway."

Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get more pics from my female friends than I do from my male ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

I'm talking more when youve established that you're both sexually attracted to each and sleeping with each other. (pre covid of course)

I could send pics to a man to get him in the mood but I could almost guarantee that most of the time he wouldn't send any back or be the first to.

I want to know why that is.

Is it a confidence thing or do guys think we aren't as visually stimulated? Or something else?

Perhaps the latter? Usually women complain about being spammed with pics so maybe he thinks you won't like it

Talk to him

This is bit about anyone in particular at all. That might sound defensive I promise you it isn't. It's a geral question based on an observation over time spanning many years of men and not just based on my own experience. Friends complain about the same thing.

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By *randMrsCambridgeCouple over a year ago

Stansted (Herts/Essex)

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway.

Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that. "

Do you find it different when messaging with a couple? xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

I'm talking more when youve established that you're both sexually attracted to each and sleeping with each other. (pre covid of course)

I could send pics to a man to get him in the mood but I could almost guarantee that most of the time he wouldn't send any back or be the first to.

I want to know why that is.

Is it a confidence thing or do guys think we aren't as visually stimulated? Or something else?

Perhaps the latter? Usually women complain about being spammed with pics so maybe he thinks you won't like it

Talk to him

*not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway.

Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that. "

I wouldn’t assume one of my torso pics would brighten anyone’s day., perhaps that’s it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway.

Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that.

Do you find it different when messaging with a couple? xxx"

Haven't been in that situation to know if it's different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

I'm talking more when youve established that you're both sexually attracted to each and sleeping with each other. (pre covid of course)

I could send pics to a man to get him in the mood but I could almost guarantee that most of the time he wouldn't send any back or be the first to.

I want to know why that is.

Is it a confidence thing or do guys think we aren't as visually stimulated? Or something else?

Perhaps the latter? Usually women complain about being spammed with pics so maybe he thinks you won't like it

Talk to him

Well now I'm self conscious that I perhaps don't send enough pics to my friends

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By *rre786Man over a year ago

Reading

I want to know why that is.

Is it a confidence thing or do guys think we aren't as visually stimulated? Or something else?"

Yeah, certainly for me it's a mixture of confidence and assuming that pictures of me wouldn't be that stimulating.

That said, have been in conversations before where conventions have been established so that I've sent stuff (which seemed to be well received...). If I was talking to someone and they wanted to see more visual stuff I'd want them to feel they could ask. It's very flattering, if nothing else...

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By *ussexboxMan over a year ago

Ferring

I’d be happy to send pics once I’ve chatted with someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you're in a regular conversation/sexual arrangement or more with a man do you feel that you end up sending lots more pictures than you receive?

Are you asked for more all the time? Do you receive an equal amount or do you feel you would have to point out the unbalance?

Let's face it ladies we want perving material too don't we?

Well feel free to have a perv on mine... that goes for all ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway."

Oh good grief madam. You realise your inbox is going to Kaboom now.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that. "

The men I talk to would. Or an erection in clothing photo. Or one in scrubs. Men in scrubs.

Talk to the person you're talking to and say you'd like some more photos OP, if you're at the point where you're sending photos and I think talking a fair bit, you should be able to say, "Hey, send me a photo of x, y and z". Whatever dynamic you're in, both parties should feel satisfied and there should be mutuality within it. You can't do all the lifting with your photos and I think most men would be flattered if a woman they wanted to have sex with asked to see more photos of them.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When C and myself were ‘dating’ online

...we used to send equal amounts.

Sometimes to tease, sometimes to show what’s we were up to....we chatted on Telegram and still do actually and you can see the collection of pics we’ve sent in one group and they are the most random things ever...

Some suggestive, some pics we have taken together, some pics of family, some jokes, some of weird shit you see on here

...it’s quite scary looking at them collectively

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When C and myself were ‘dating’ online

...we used to send equal amounts.

Some suggestive, some pics we have taken together, some pics of family, some jokes, some of weird shit you see on here

...it’s quite scary looking at them collectively

Your pics are bloody good.

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By *randMrsCambridgeCouple over a year ago

Stansted (Herts/Essex)

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway.

Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that.

Do you find it different when messaging with a couple? xxx

Haven't been in that situation to know if it's different "

OK. Our experience has been that single women have been much more keen to share than couples xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

"I'd never point out the imbalance because it's not really a tit for tat thing in my mind - I send photos, messages whatever because I enjoy it.

That being said, the men tend to send me more than I send them.

I'll try tomorrow maybe. I'm happy with men sending me videos and photos, I'm more a voyeur anyway.

Really not a tir for tat thing

Let's just day you know said guy is at work so you send a cheeky boob pic to brighten his day.

Would a guy send a torso pic to brighten up your day at work?

I think more often than not they wouldn't do that. "

One of my friends does exactly that, and I am always extremely appreciative.

I do think the point about knowing the sender is a great one - I enjoy receiving pictures from people I chat to but I'm rarely bothered about random pics being sent to me.

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