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over a year ago
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"Only in the bedroom
Lol when your better acquainted you mean ?  "
Yeah.
There's a time and place for this, but I don't think it's in every day life or messages.
I don't mind being called a slut in bed, but that's all.
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"What do you think about being called this in a message ? Do any woman actually accept this as a compliment? Have to say it doesn’t work for me x"
Nor me, ever.
I know some women like it but probably best to check your audience first.
I also dislike messages that start "does she" followed by one of a number of crudely described and unlikely sexual practices  |
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Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block |
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block "
Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow |
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block
Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow "
Oh yes.
And worse |
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block
Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow "
That's nothing. We once had a message in very broken English from a man demanding to be breast fed by Mrs dark |
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block "
Its overfamiliar cocky ignorance  |
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block
Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow
That's nothing. We once had a message in very broken English from a man demanding to be breast fed by Mrs dark"
Did he ask nicely though or did he call her a slut ?  |
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block
Its overfamiliar cocky ignorance "
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"Just seems some guys think it’s acceptable to call you this on a first message like it’s a compliment. For instance “morning you sexy little slut how are you” ?
I’m like “great thanks “ delete block
Seriously in a 1st message!! Wow
That's nothing. We once had a message in very broken English from a man demanding to be breast fed by Mrs dark
Did he ask nicely though or did he call her a slut ? "
No manners at all lol.
We have friends with all kinds of weird and wonderful fetishes but if you want your fetish to be taken seriously and respected then you need to be respectful when presenting it to someone.
Had he chatted for a bit and then mentioned it we would have politely declined and said not our kink |
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"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag
Spot on once you are closer its ok in bed "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, I wouldn't enjoy it because it conjures up a certain image for me and it's not very... well sexy sounding.
Definitely not on a first message, probably best if you refrain from calling anyone something other than their name on a first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For someone I know well and know that it will go down well, yes. As an opener, God no  I wouldn't do it to a stranger in person so I wouldn't send it in a first message either. |
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"For someone I know well and know that it will go down well, yes. As an opener, God no I wouldn't do it to a stranger in person so I wouldn't send it in a first message either."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think about being called this in a message ? Do any woman actually accept this as a compliment? Have to say it doesn’t work for me x"
If directed at me, I'd be questioning the senders sanity
Or eyesight |
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"For some it's a great pet name but in messages when you haven't met its just a boundary crosser and an instant red flag"
Totally this. Once consent is given then yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's another reclaimed word - a bit like queer in that sense.
Using it to a stranger is bizarre and crossing boundaries - a huge amount of people on here need to learn about boundaries and consent.
It depends wholly on your relationship with a person, and using it without consent just makes you look like a twerp. Education. |
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"It's another reclaimed word - a bit like queer in that sense.
Using it to a stranger is bizarre and crossing boundaries - a huge amount of people on here need to learn about boundaries and consent.
It depends wholly on your relationship with a person, and using it without consent just makes you look like a twerp. Education."
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"I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.
Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.
Mrs"
Which interestingly I could never and would never call anyone. Bitch (to me) is an awful thing to call someone. A bit like prick. Urgh. |
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"I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.
Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.
Mrs
Which interestingly I could never and would never call anyone. Bitch (to me) is an awful thing to call someone. A bit like prick. Urgh."
All those words are humiliating to me but maybe its meant to be part of the experience? Verbal masochism? I had numerous men trying to convince me to their favourite word whether that be a cunt, slut, whatever else they came up with..you can't change someone else meaning of it and dress it up as liberating and positive if they don't feel it.. |
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"I don't like the word slut. Sexy bitch would be so much better, but only if said in the bedroom.
Call me a bitch in public and I'd walk away from you and that would be it.
Mrs
Which interestingly I could never and would never call anyone. Bitch (to me) is an awful thing to call someone. A bit like prick. Urgh.
All those words are humiliating to me but maybe its meant to be part of the experience? Verbal masochism? I had numerous men trying to convince me to their favourite word whether that be a cunt, slut, whatever else they came up with..you can't change someone else meaning of it and dress it up as liberating and positive if they don't feel it.."
Absolutely. There's a time and a place for all sorts of things, but I get in trouble on the forums if I start discussing them in any detail. |
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