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over a year ago
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"I've put the ugliest part of my body on show.
I'm not saying that you've got one 
But if you have,have you ever shown it?"
You are Beautiful My Friend 
And that is a Beautiful profile picture !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only ever shown my worst parts to one person on here! But I'm very comfortable with him! I don't really upload photos often of things I'm not very comfortable with like my vagina or mummy tummy!
You look great OP! Your body is wonderful and just because it isn't what society accepts as beautiful doesn't mean it isn't glorious.
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There was a thread fairly recently where a lot of people posted pictures of their least favourite body parts...I kept the picture of my squidgy tummy that I took for that in my gallery because I got a lot of positive feedback on it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My boobs stay well hidden except for strategic pics...i don't even take those anymore.
I don't see my fatness as a negative like most people do so that's clear from my pics
Lu |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ugly is a strong word OP
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I have posted a pic today which shows I have gained weight, espescially on my tummy x"
I think you look amazing. |
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It's something I tend to do fairly often on here. I've posted pictures of the stretch marks on belly, I've posted one of me holding my belly, and ones of the cellulite on my arse. It's normal to have hang ups but I can genuinely say I've only had positive feedback from such pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've put the ugliest part of my body on show.
I'm not saying that you've got one
But if you have,have you ever shown it?
You are Beautiful My Friend
And that is a Beautiful profile picture !! "
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"There was a thread fairly recently where a lot of people posted pictures of their least favourite body parts...I kept the picture of my squidgy tummy that I took for that in my gallery because I got a lot of positive feedback on it "
That was a good thread. Sometimes it’s good to recognise that others don’t see us as we see ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've put the ugliest part of my body on show.
I'm not saying that you've got one
But if you have,have you ever shown it?"
I dont see ANYTHING ugly in your photo |
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"It's something I tend to do fairly often on here. I've posted pictures of the stretch marks on belly, I've posted one of me holding my belly, and ones of the cellulite on my arse. It's normal to have hang ups but I can genuinely say I've only had positive feedback from such pictures. "
I think your pics are amazing!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i posted today also my almost full body and more dificult i posted picture with my face "
You have a lovely face. There's nothing wrong with the rest of you either xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah every Face Pic Friday. I don’t think it’s ugly but judging by the number of times I have been blocked after sending it, it is clearly in the eye of the beholder |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My boobs stay well hidden except for strategic pics...i don't even take those anymore.
I don't see my fatness as a negative like most people do so that's clear from my pics
Lu "
You look great. Your husband's not bad either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, I've seen so many naked people over the years that nothing, body wise, phases me
I think we all have something about us that we would like to change
I think, perhaps more importantly, there are things about us that we can't change (as much as we'd like to)
It is those things that we need to embrace
If we can't love them, the least we can do is accept them
I think the inability to accept what we can't change is mentally destructive
If not managed, it can turn into a catalyst for further betrayal of self
OP, your pics mark a part of that acceptance
Huge step
Congratulations in taking it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My whole body is so ugly I can only ever show one part of it at a time. "
I hope you don't believe that true x
I've got a full lengthy photo of my fat body out on my profile - I'm guessing there's no surprises then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't see the ugly either, you've got a lovely heart-shaped bum!
The area I'm least confident about is my foof. As I'm not one for close-ups of genitals I won't be showing a picture of mine. Everything else has already been on display. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Erm no.... I’d like to think one day I’ll pass the point of caring....it’s not others perceptions but my own...
I can't see any problems at all "
I hide the not so nice bits in my pictures...but thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see the ugly either, you've got a lovely heart-shaped bum!
The area I'm least confident about is my foof. As I'm not one for close-ups of genitals I won't be showing a picture of mine. Everything else has already been on display."
I'm with you on the foof,mine won't be seen either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honestly, I've seen so many naked people over the years that nothing, body wise, phases me
I think we all have something about us that we would like to change
I think, perhaps more importantly, there are things about us that we can't change (as much as we'd like to)
It is those things that we need to embrace
If we can't love them, the least we can do is accept them
I think the inability to accept what we can't change is mentally destructive
If not managed, it can turn into a catalyst for further betrayal of self
OP, your pics mark a part of that acceptance
Huge step
Congratulations in taking it x"
Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My whole body is so ugly I can only ever show one part of it at a time.
I hope you don't believe that true x
I've got a full lengthy photo of my fat body out on my profile - I'm guessing there's no surprises then "
It is true. I love it but I won't inflict it on anyone else.
You're gorgeous.  |
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"I’ve got an overhang from having two big baby boys as my skin stretched but never went back  I hate it but no one has ever mentioned it or been revolted by it, some have even kissed it 
We all have bits we don’t like but we are what we are  "
Yes I'm same having the last baby at 42 meant it didnt shrink back and all 6 were big one was 10 lb 2 x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine would be my fakey no nipple huge scar left boob. Due to breast cancer.
Think we have 1 pic of it in friends only. I dont show it off.
MsD"
Will you get it tattooed? I know someone with no nipples for the same reason and she got lovely tatts on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My whole body is so ugly I can only ever show one part of it at a time.
I hope you don't believe that true x
I've got a full lengthy photo of my fat body out on my profile - I'm guessing there's no surprises then
It is true. I love it but I won't inflict it on anyone else.
You're gorgeous. "
Aw thanks luvvie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's a lovely pic OP but I can't imagine it was easy to to do if it's a part of you you're not comfortable with so well done
I joined in with the thread mentioned above and posted a pic with no filters and not breathing in, definitely not feeling confident enough body wise to do it again at the moment though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's a lovely pic OP but I can't imagine it was easy to to do if it's a part of you you're not comfortable with so well done
I joined in with the thread mentioned above and posted a pic with no filters and not breathing in, definitely not feeling confident enough body wise to do it again at the moment though. "
Thank you. It does have a lot to do with confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't it have been kinder to yourself to say the part of your body that you like least?
The thing is I think it's vile."
You should have a wee look at the joys of being female thread.
We can't expect things to change if we're guilty of feeding into it |
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Just to echo what other folks have said, you have absolutely nothing to feel ashamed about. I used to be very self conscious about my own body. Taking up swimming regularly again as an adult gave me more body confidence and made me appreciate more that people come in all shapes and sizes. which is what makes us special and unique.
Well done for being so brave though in revealing a part of yourself you feel insecure about!  |
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I don’t feel like I have a “ugly” part. People’s preferences are vary so I may not be a match for some even with perfection.
Personally, I do want to get more toned and improve my figure, yes! but I don’t think I need to show my supposed flaws or bad angles publicly. Don’t think it will bring any good |
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"I've put the ugliest part of my body on show.
I'm not saying that you've got one
But if you have,have you ever shown it?
I dont see ANYTHING ugly in your photo
What about in mine last photos  "
Which last photo ? You look fabulously sexy in all of them |
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"I've put the ugliest part of my body on show.
I'm not saying that you've got one
But if you have,have you ever shown it?"
No , can't bring myself to . Where to begin ....
I tend to crop my bingo wings , I hold my tummy in like my life depends on it, the one photo of my bum is so blurry it's hard to tell it's an arse.
There's no pic of me sitting down ( wobbly rolls ).
Most people , not just women , have body issues .
More often than not unjustified and this thread demonstrate just that.... Where we see our flaws others see beauty , sexiness , deliciously arousing features ....
You look fabulous OP |
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Every mark, scar, contour and blemish tells your story of the journey you and your body have been on to arrive at this point of your life, it's our "imperfections" that make us all uniquely perfect.
Due to suffering with acute cystic acne most of my life I look like I've been set on fire and put out with a fork, however somehow and I dont know how I managed to get over my insecurities surrounding it (well for the most part anyway) when I was single I regularly posted face pics for forum games and was pleasantly suprised by some of the responses from the people on this site.
Mr H.
P.s you all look fabulous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve got an overhang from having two big baby boys as my skin stretched but never went back I hate it but no one has ever mentioned it or been revolted by it, some have even kissed it
We all have bits we don’t like but we are what we are "
My ex also had that from giving birth to children and no matter how many times I tried to reassure her she was so conscious of it and wouldn’t get undressed in front of me with the light on. She ended up getting a loan out for a tummy tuck and the surgeon who did it messed it up TWICE and now is left with a massive scar that she’s even more conscious of now.
In my opinion it’s a REAL woman’s body and it’s something you should be proud off and I know it’s easy for me to say as I’m not a woman but that’s my point of view. |
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"Mine would be my fakey no nipple huge scar left boob. Due to breast cancer.
Think we have 1 pic of it in friends only. I dont show it off.
MsD
Will you get it tattooed? I know someone with no nipples for the same reason and she got lovely tatts on them. "
Yes...its on my next tattoo list. Might as well add to my 15 other tatts! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've put the ugliest part of my body on show.
I'm not saying that you've got one
But if you have,have you ever shown it?
I dont see ANYTHING ugly in your photo "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine would be my fakey no nipple huge scar left boob. Due to breast cancer.
Think we have 1 pic of it in friends only. I dont show it off.
MsD
Will you get it tattooed? I know someone with no nipples for the same reason and she got lovely tatts on them.
Yes...its on my next tattoo list. Might as well add to my 15 other tatts!"
That's great x |
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