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By *oroRick1027 OP Man over a year ago

Middlesbrough

If I send a message and you reply in a positive way, that's fine.

If I message and you read it and delete it, that's also fine as you are obviously not interested.

The problem I have is when you read a message but don't respond and don't delete.

Are you interested? are you thinking about it? Are you waiting to see if I send another message?

Help, please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably best to overthink it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Not interested, only delete once in a blue moon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The way I read a non reply is as 'No thanks'

That way, if you do get a reply in a few hours (or days) then it's an unexpected bonus

If you don't get a reply then you're no worse off

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I would read it as a "no" - I only delete messages every so often, not instantly unless they were offensive.

As Bussy said, if you get a reply later that is a bonus

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Don't wait and think, just move on. It's a no, unless you ever hear otherwise. Live in the moment, maximise and enjoy it - which is what I'm doing when I get a message that I didn't reply to, or delete. Let go, and live.

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By *heGateKeeperMan over a year ago

Stratford

No response is a response

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I leave a message on read, it’s usually because I’m not interested, I’ll mark it read if I don’t have time to reply there and then, and I’ll only delete if offensive or ignored what I said in my profile.

Then I’ll do a mass delete at some point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I give it 3 days to allow for couples who will want to decide together. After that, I delete and remove photos, not message further.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

I rarely delete messages. But then I often reply out of politeness. I only really ignore the ‘hey’ type messages. I even reply to the obvious fakes when I’m bored.

Don’t overthink it, if they were interested you’d know.

Lou x

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