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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve made some amazing friends on here, and they have been there for me when I’ve really needed them
Same....
Lifesavers "
I did not expect to find what I have on here. I’ll be eternally grateful for it |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’ve made some amazing friends on here, and they have been there for me when I’ve really needed them
Same....
Lifesavers
I did not expect to find what I have on here. I’ll be eternally grateful for it "
It was a total revelation to me |
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"Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
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So I'm a Twat then?? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
So I'm a Twat then?? "
Yep. Suck it up buttercup |
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"Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
So I'm a Twat then??
Yep. Suck it up buttercup "
Suck it ?? Oooh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id give almost anything to have friends like this.
I lost most of my friends during my marriage.
I lost my closest friend to suicide in November.
Some people can never be replaced and i just feel lost |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Id give almost anything to have friends like this.
I lost most of my friends during my marriage.
I lost my closest friend to suicide in November.
Some people can never be replaced and i just feel lost"
People can't be replaced. But you can rebuild
I'm so sorry for your losses |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Id give almost anything to have friends like this.
I lost most of my friends during my marriage.
I lost my closest friend to suicide in November.
Some people can never be replaced and i just feel lost" people uve lost cant be replaced but u can find people that are just as good but don't look to replace people, look for people that will bring joy to your life xx |
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"Id give almost anything to have friends like this.
I lost most of my friends during my marriage.
I lost my closest friend to suicide in November.
Some people can never be replaced and i just feel lost"
Kinda puts things into perspective that .
That's awful dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
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So is your friends list actually your Twatlist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id give almost anything to have friends like this.
I lost most of my friends during my marriage.
I lost my closest friend to suicide in November.
Some people can never be replaced and i just feel lost"
I’m so sorry for your loss . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id give almost anything to have friends like this.
I lost most of my friends during my marriage.
I lost my closest friend to suicide in November.
Some people can never be replaced and i just feel lost"
You can't replace them.
You can make new friends who are just as special to you tho
Lu |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
So is your friends list actually your Twatlist? "
Nah.... that's a special extra list.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I've found my sisters on here, my best friends uniquely special to me in so many ways I miss them all so much!
Love you!
Lu
Hot tub sleepover as soon as we can! "
Don't sleep in the hot tub....
That's my health and safety advice! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"A friend who treats you like rubish when with other people and treat well when are only both together , is that a friend ?
Or is time to just let it go ?"
I would say let it go. But I've been there and it's never that simple, is it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I had really close friends and I'm jealous of those who have had friends since childhood.
I feel like I've only had surface level friends who I can talk and have banter with regularly but no one I can really talk to about personal stuff I'm going through. Although to be honest, a lot of that may be on me not being open and not wanting to burden them with my issues as I tend to keep a lot to myself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my time here I have met (virtually) some really awesome twats, don't ever change.
Just like to add, I'm not a twat, just a bit of a dick
Twat "
What a dick |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I wish I had really close friends and I'm jealous of those who have had friends since childhood.
I feel like I've only had surface level friends who I can talk and have banter with regularly but no one I can really talk to about personal stuff I'm going through. Although to be honest, a lot of that may be on me not being open and not wanting to burden them with my issues as I tend to keep a lot to myself..."
Oh honey. I want to hug you.
I've got 2 friends from childhood. We've changed so much since then and are now completely different people to who we used to be. I'm so lucky with them that we formed a deep bond, but that was circumstantial more than anything else.
I know how you feel about not wanting to burden people. I feel that way. But I hope you'll find people, as I have, who don't need you to share and tell them your troubles. They just show their love and support anyway. It will encourage you to share just by their nature.
You can form deep connections with people virtually as well as in person sweetie xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"My siblings, although we don't really share our troubles.
I don't have friends now.
Don't be sad for me, I like it like that "
I'm glad you've found your bliss with your siblings rather than friends then! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"In my time here I have met (virtually) some really awesome twats, don't ever change.
Just like to add, I'm not a twat, just a bit of a dick
Twat
What a dick "
I think that whenever I see you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my time here I have met (virtually) some really awesome twats, don't ever change.
Just like to add, I'm not a twat, just a bit of a dick
Twat
What a dick
I think that whenever I see you "
Oi Oi, cheeky I like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anytime you feel down I be gladly happy to pick you back up and make you smile by telling you just how wonderful you really are x
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Ur welcome I new that would make you smile because you deserve to smile as ur incredible x |
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"A friend who treats you like rubish when with other people and treat well when are only both together , is that a friend ?
Or is time to just let it go ?
I would say let it go. But I've been there and it's never that simple, is it?
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Thank you , is time to let it go |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"In my time here I have met (virtually) some really awesome twats, don't ever change.
Just like to add, I'm not a twat, just a bit of a dick
Twat
What a dick
I think that whenever I see you
Oi Oi, cheeky I like it "
Not as much as I do |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Anytime you feel down I be gladly happy to pick you back up and make you smile by telling you just how wonderful you really are x
Ur welcome I new that would make you smile because you deserve to smile as ur incredible x"
You're an angel xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"A friend who treats you like rubish when with other people and treat well when are only both together , is that a friend ?
Or is time to just let it go ?
I would say let it go. But I've been there and it's never that simple, is it?
Thank you , is time to let it go "
Good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anytime you feel down I be gladly happy to pick you back up and make you smile by telling you just how wonderful you really are x
Ur welcome I new that would make you smile because you deserve to smile as ur incredible x
You're an angel xx"
Awww thank you so much it make me smile knowing I can make you smile and that’s all I will ever need x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I had really close friends and I'm jealous of those who have had friends since childhood.
I feel like I've only had surface level friends who I can talk and have banter with regularly but no one I can really talk to about personal stuff I'm going through. Although to be honest, a lot of that may be on me not being open and not wanting to burden them with my issues as I tend to keep a lot to myself...
Oh honey. I want to hug you.
I've got 2 friends from childhood. We've changed so much since then and are now completely different people to who we used to be. I'm so lucky with them that we formed a deep bond, but that was circumstantial more than anything else.
I know how you feel about not wanting to burden people. I feel that way. But I hope you'll find people, as I have, who don't need you to share and tell them your troubles. They just show their love and support anyway. It will encourage you to share just by their nature.
You can form deep connections with people virtually as well as in person sweetie xx"
Thank you for this, it's actually encouraging that so many people on here have even been able to make such good friends without meeting before.
I think I just like being able to confide in someone with them listening and being there like you said. In the past, friends and family have tried to come up with solutions and while I appreciate them trying to help, it's sometimes nice just to say what you feel x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As Freddie said ...
Friends will be friends
When you're in need of love they give you care and attention
Friends will be friends
When you're through with life and all hope is lost
Hold out your hand 'cause friends will be friends
Right till the end
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I’ve got some great friends on here, and what’s amazing is that we haven’t met but we know we are friends.
I have suspicions that some don’t even fancy me but they are still great friends.
Hello you gorgeous people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those friends who you know will be there.
The ones who do something just to make you smile.
They support you when you're feeling down, even when you try and push them away.
They don't need or want anything from you, they put no pressure on, they just want you to be happy.
And they know that you feel the same, do the same and want the same for them.
They're great.
Mine are mostly utter twats but they do say like attracts like and they're my twats
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I would happily be anyone’s friend on here but I only give one chance to upset me
Message me or wink and I’ll respond x |
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