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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m definitely guilty of thinking a lot of women are out of my league but I’m beginning to see that this isn’t so.
Does anyone else feel like this or is it just me haha  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I agree OP. I sometimes jokingly say something like that but no, I don't think leagues exist, just folk you'll click with and others you don't. Why be so disparaging about yourself? There are enough out there who will be. |
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I used to believe in leagues.
It's bullshit.
None of us know what anyone else finds attractive or why.
However, I do still find myself thinking "what the fuck would they see in me?" at times.
Then I remember I'm a fucking awesome delight  |
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When I first joined I genuinely thought I wouldn't stand a chance of actually finding anyone that would think i was remotely attractive.
Even now I dont see how but obviously I'm not completely abhorrent  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all, leagues aren’t a thing in reality and we’re not all for everyone else I know but the forums have definitely changed my opinion and yeah go with the flow  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to believe in leagues.
It's bullshit.
None of us know what anyone else finds attractive or why.
However, I do still find myself thinking "what the fuck would they see in me?" at times.
Then I remember I'm a fucking awesome delight "
You most definitely are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are no leagues, different people find different features attractive... Being what is considered beautiful or handsome doesn't make you attractive, just good looking, which means nothing if you're an arse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are no leagues, different people find different features attractive... Being what is considered beautiful or handsome doesn't make you attractive, just good looking, which means nothing if you're an arse "
Very true  thanks (kiss) |
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"Leagues don’t exist. It’s all about connection and chemistry "
This.
Additionally, there's people we'd love to meet for socials from the forums (as well as those we'd pounce on). Sometime it's not all about the quick fuck, shocking I know!  |
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"Leagues are just in our own heads, they don’t actually exist. Remove the mental barriers and you’ll be surprised how attraction works."
They really do exist, if not in your own head then they can in other people’s.
However it’s always worth a try to be a nice person, because for some people that’s enough. The ones who dismiss me at a glance, I wouldn’t want to know anyway |
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"I’m definitely guilty of thinking a lot of women are out of my league but I’m beginning to see that this isn’t so.
Does anyone else feel like this or is it just me haha "
You should never feel that way. We are all just people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Leagues don’t exist. It’s all about connection and chemistry
This.
Additionally, there's people we'd love to meet for socials from the forums (as well as those we'd pounce on). Sometime it's not all about the quick fuck, shocking I know! "
I know and I’m far more classy than a quick leg over I prefere connection and excitement |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whilst I don’t necessarily “believe” in leagues I am sometimes a little unsure if I should message if the guy has super hot photos. 
V x "
From what I’m learning V “go for it” what’s the worst that can happen  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Leagues are just in our own heads, they don’t actually exist. Remove the mental barriers and you’ll be surprised how attraction works.
They really do exist, if not in your own head then they can in other people’s.
However it’s always worth a try to be a nice person, because for some people that’s enough. The ones who dismiss me at a glance, I wouldn’t want to know anyway "
Thanks friend  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You wait till the fab socials come back up again, the mixture and variety of people on here Is massive and you will see that leagues don't exist "
Maybe some day I’ll witness the carnage haha 
Thanks |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Too be honest this is how I felt when I joined and still do at times as I don't see myself as anything so special but I've been found attractive or appealing by those, who I assumed were well out of my league
So is a thing such as a miracle  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too be honest this is how I felt when I joined and still do at times as I don't see myself as anything so special but I've been found attractive or appealing by those, who I assumed were well out of my league
So is a thing such as a miracle "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Leagues.....no.
Self doubt about why someone might like you though is definitely a thing for me.
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Self doubt is a bitch that resonates in us all in one way or another, I say fu*k that bitch haha |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Leagues.....no.
Self doubt about why someone might like you though is definitely a thing for me.
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Exactly this.
I find it hard to understand why anyone might like me. Mostly anyone I like.
But I'm coming to realise that there must be something about me that's appealing, even if it is just my dab hand with a camera angle and a decent cropping tool |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Leagues.....no.
Self doubt about why someone might like you though is definitely a thing for me.
Exactly this.
I find it hard to understand why anyone might like me. Mostly anyone I like.
But I'm coming to realise that there must be something about me that's appealing, even if it is just my dab hand with a camera angle and a decent cropping tool"
Minus the dab hand at camera angles etc I agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone on here is out of my league. Everyone."
How can you say that after what I’ve just been educated on?
Maybe show a pic or two and say to hell with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are no such things as leagues, it is all about that connection and chemistry with someone.
We are proof of that; Hippy is stunning, beautiful & sexy and I am grumpy, curmudgeonly & with a shocking sense of humour - so lucky I paid attention in chemistry class
Mr HH |
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I don't believe in leagues, and I think it's wrong in a relationship to think one is above the other. I personally think it leads to insecurity and possibly resentment. You're attracted to who you are attracted to, and there is no simple equation to love and attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone on here is out of my league. Everyone.
How can you say that after what I’ve just been educated on?
Maybe show a pic or two and say to hell with it "
What were you educated on?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are no such things as leagues, it is all about that connection and chemistry with someone.
We are proof of that; Hippy is stunning, beautiful & sexy and I am grumpy, curmudgeonly & with a shocking sense of humour - so lucky I paid attention in chemistry class
Mr HH"
She is stunning and fair play |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Leagues.....no.
Self doubt about why someone might like you though is definitely a thing for me.
Exactly this.
I find it hard to understand why anyone might like me. Mostly anyone I like.
But I'm coming to realise that there must be something about me that's appealing, even if it is just my dab hand with a camera angle and a decent cropping tool
Minus the dab hand at camera angles etc I agree "
You don't like my camera angles?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone on here is out of my league. Everyone.
How can you say that after what I’ve just been educated on?
Maybe show a pic or two and say to hell with it
What were you educated on? "
I had an inbox from someone as a result of another feed, I was shocked and delighted but would never have assumed what I was told.
Plus all the helpful feedback here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are no such things as leagues, it is all about that connection and chemistry with someone.
We are proof of that; Hippy is stunning, beautiful & sexy and I am grumpy, curmudgeonly & with a shocking sense of humour - so lucky I paid attention in chemistry class
Mr HH"
Pfft, you know you’re sexy, and that I love your (terrible) sense of humour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Leagues.....no.
Self doubt about why someone might like you though is definitely a thing for me.
Exactly this.
I find it hard to understand why anyone might like me. Mostly anyone I like.
But I'm coming to realise that there must be something about me that's appealing, even if it is just my dab hand with a camera angle and a decent cropping tool
Minus the dab hand at camera angles etc I agree
You don't like my camera angles? "
Oh I do for sure, I was saying my camera techniques are shite x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know I am definitely out of most guys leagues "
There’s no such thing as leagues, there’s no such thing as leagues
However you’re very much in my league if I had one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know I am definitely out of most guys leagues
There’s no such thing as leagues, there’s no such thing as leagues
However you’re very much in my league if I had one
You are a star "
DesaSTAR (spelt different but mean same) |
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"Leagues.....no.
Self doubt about why someone might like you though is definitely a thing for me.
Exactly this.
I find it hard to understand why anyone might like me. Mostly anyone I like.
But I'm coming to realise that there must be something about me that's appealing, even if it is just my dab hand with a camera angle and a decent cropping tool"
You are realising then xx |
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