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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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More times then most on here when you get talking to someone and they sound promising that they'll be coming to meet you soon. Chances are its a lie or it just never happens.
What has been your biggest anti-climax on here? |
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Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife."
Ouch! That has to hurt!  |
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"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife.
Ouch! That has to hurt! "
Sure does.
Needless to say I can't see myself trusting another human with my heart in a relationship capacity.
Busted me big time and has put me on a trajectory of crazy cat lady. I'm just missing the cats. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife.
Ouch! That has to hurt! "
Thats an understatement.
I hope this is something you've had time to heal from? |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife."
Ouch |
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Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him.  and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
Bloody hell!  |
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"I was chatting with someone, then they announced they cut their crusts off bread before eating it
He was also exiled into an eternity of darkness  "
If you don’t eat your crusts, you’ll never grow up to be a big strong boy...that’s what my mother said |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
Bloody hell! "
Also, why didn't I think about that? |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I had many times people slide in dms talk about meeting then when the day comes they ghost.
Happened 13-24 times can’t remember exactly but more thanks a few for sure.
I also had a lot of couple dm me saying they okay with cuckhold and the close to time they ask if I can suck or be a bottom. |
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable. |
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This is why I don't have sexual chats anymore with anyone bar my friends on here, bored of quick 2/3 days of fake friendship conversation for his self gratification then he's off onto the next one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anticlimax for me has to be the dishonesty and deception on here.
Like... Saying there are no 'others' when there clearly is.
Or saying they are into certain things and then it becomes evident that was just said to impress and they aren't into them at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was chatting with someone, then they announced they cut their crusts off bread before eating it
He was also exiled into an eternity of darkness
If you don’t eat your crusts, you’ll never grow up to be a big strong boy...that’s what my mother said "
This is..
#notfakenews
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable. "
And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.
That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
That is bloody awful. |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.
And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.
That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown."
Sorry to hear hope your Better now , people can be cruel sometimes |
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.
And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.
That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.
Sorry to hear hope your Better now , people can be cruel sometimes "
Yeah I'm sound ta, just a cynical bitch who's like an FBI agent with anyone that I may consider spending time with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.
And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.
That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown."
I dont
Im just as cynical. And i have bloody good reason to be
Thinking youre the centre of someones universe and realising youre actually just a convenience
Its not nice |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Anticlimax for me has to be the dishonesty and deception on here.
Like... Saying there are no 'others' when there clearly is.
Or saying they are into certain things and then it becomes evident that was just said to impress and they aren't into them at all. "
Oh this!
Tell me you're talking to other people for crying out loud. Be honest. I'd far rather know about it than have my trust dented a little more each time! |
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"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss 
Obviously didn't look at all the pics..."
Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play  |
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"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss
Obviously didn't look at all the pics...
Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play "
I have considered incorporating it into fancy dress, but then I remember I'm about as creative as a flea |
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"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss
Obviously didn't look at all the pics...
Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play
I have considered incorporating it into fancy dress, but then I remember I'm about as creative as a flea "
sink plunger and some silver spray paint |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"We had a guy message first, all excited etc. When the word disabled/wheelchair came up, that was it. Abrupt end. Oh well, his loss
Obviously didn't look at all the pics...
Oh he did I'm sure, but thought you were into Dalek role play
I have considered incorporating it into fancy dress, but then I remember I'm about as creative as a flea "
Get loads of egg boxes |
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.
And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.
That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.
I dont
Im just as cynical. And i have bloody good reason to be
Thinking youre the centre of someones universe and realising youre actually just a convenience
Its not nice"
Makes ya feel like pond scum don't it. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I tell people, when we start talking, that me replying doesn't mean we will definitely meet.
I need to talk a fair while before I'm sure I want to be naked with someone.
I really don't like being constantly asked when we're meeting for coffee, when I'm trying to get a feel for someone.
And I don't engage in sex talk from the beginning. That might come later, but it rarely happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
What were your hopes when you met him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right lesson in love No1
If dicksplash can't answer the phone at 8pm in the evening to say hi it's because he's with another bird..the one he hadn't told you about .
You should try it and any excuse why he can't say hi wotsyaface bla bla bla you know ya wasting time .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife."
That sucks ass, what a cnut  wanted his cake and to get to eat it too
But on a brighter note I and many others around the forums think you’re pretty amazing 
And I too am on the lookout for a kitten(s)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
What were your hopes when you met him?"
I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt
I could be wrong though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
You’ve had some right old bad times eh
But we’re not all cnuts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
What a twat he is
Bang out of order |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
I'm not easily shocked, but that has shocked me. For what it's worth, I'm sorry you went through that. That is utterly inexcusable.
And people wonder why I'm a cynical cunt these days who lacks faith in humanity for the most part.
That was when I was really vulnerable too, not long before I had a full on breakdown.
I dont
Im just as cynical. And i have bloody good reason to be
Thinking youre the centre of someones universe and realising youre actually just a convenience
Its not nice
Makes ya feel like pond scum don't it. "
Holy crap. I didn’t know about this one. I’m so sorry. Sending another massive hug xxxx |
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
You’ve had some right old bad times eh
But we’re not all cnuts "
The details may differ from person to person but being taken for a cunt, used and lied to are an extremely common narrative on here.
It's incredibly disappointing. |
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
What were your hopes when you met him?
I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt
I could be wrong though"
It was as I was wanting to explore the world of kink, the dynamics etc. Yes, I was looking to push boundaries and learn about myself, but the very least I didn't just hope for, but expected, was it to be done with respect and care. The whole "best interests" thing, and that's not meaning for him and his wallet.
Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.
I was hoping to build my confidence.
I'm not sharing my experiences as a woe is me, but as an example that people can be vile. If it makes one person think twice and trust their instinct instead of trying to push themselves because they're a little lost, then that'll do me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
What were your hopes when you met him?
I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt
I could be wrong though"
I think I asked the question really badly. Seeing some responses here, I guess I'm wondering what foundations people place their hopes on for them then to become false hopes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out "
I’m so sorry peach , that is truly terrible. |
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"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.
Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!
Sorry 
It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked! "
Twas a joke
Anyway, it was your lovely OH I met for a social soooooooo long ago now  |
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
What were your hopes when you met him?
I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt
I could be wrong though
It was as I was wanting to explore the world of kink, the dynamics etc. Yes, I was looking to push boundaries and learn about myself, but the very least I didn't just hope for, but expected, was it to be done with respect and care. The whole "best interests" thing, and that's not meaning for him and his wallet.
Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.
I was hoping to build my confidence.
I'm not sharing my experiences as a woe is me, but as an example that people can be vile. If it makes one person think twice and trust their instinct instead of trying to push themselves because they're a little lost, then that'll do me."
He should be strung up by his balls. Hope you don't tar us all with the same brush there is some honest men out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a couple chat to you, Ask you to meet UP for some fun.
Meet up had bit of fun.
Then told after we don't Usally meet single guys and it was a mistake,and a one off.
They only meet me because I was good to talk to and sounded decent.  |
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"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.
Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!
Sorry
It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked!
Twas a joke
Anyway, it was your lovely OH I met for a social soooooooo long ago now "
Seems like a lifetime ago! |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
What were your hopes when you met him?
I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt
I could be wrong though
It was as I was wanting to explore the world of kink, the dynamics etc. Yes, I was looking to push boundaries and learn about myself, but the very least I didn't just hope for, but expected, was it to be done with respect and care. The whole "best interests" thing, and that's not meaning for him and his wallet.
Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.
I was hoping to build my confidence.
I'm not sharing my experiences as a woe is me, but as an example that people can be vile. If it makes one person think twice and trust their instinct instead of trying to push themselves because they're a little lost, then that'll do me."
Actually until you posted this, I was pretty concerned for you. I now see that you have at least learned from past mistakes. Hey we all have quite a few of those!
There will always be predators looking for the vulnerable to use and abuse. If your story makes a few of those vulnerable ones a bit less automatically trusting then I am glad you shared it.
I am not at all glad that you have had such shitty experiences though!!!
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"Oh and a few years ago there was the "Dom" who was trying to set me up on so many meets I didn't know what the fuck was going on. He said I'd need to meet these guys to prove my submission to him. and he was giving them my address and I'd need to be ready at such and such a time.
I'm like dude no,
A) I don't wanna
B) what the fuck are you giving my address out for? that's putting me in danger
C) no
D) get fucked mate
Year or so later one of the dudes contacted me asking if it would still be the same price to meet me
"Dom" was nothing more than a cunt was trying to pimp me out
What were your hopes when you met him?
I would imagine she hoped she would be treated with respect. And that the other party would behave like a big boy and not a self serving cunt
I could be wrong though
It was as I was wanting to explore the world of kink, the dynamics etc. Yes, I was looking to push boundaries and learn about myself, but the very least I didn't just hope for, but expected, was it to be done with respect and care. The whole "best interests" thing, and that's not meaning for him and his wallet.
Yeah I chose badly. Did I choose? Was I coerced with lies? Both.
I was hoping to build my confidence.
I'm not sharing my experiences as a woe is me, but as an example that people can be vile. If it makes one person think twice and trust their instinct instead of trying to push themselves because they're a little lost, then that'll do me.
Actually until you posted this, I was pretty concerned for you. I now see that you have at least learned from past mistakes. Hey we all have quite a few of those!
There will always be predators looking for the vulnerable to use and abuse. If your story makes a few of those vulnerable ones a bit less automatically trusting then I am glad you shared it.
I am not at all glad that you have had such shitty experiences though!!!
Nobody should ever be treated in such a way if we lived in a perfect world "
My main mistakes have been having faith in other people. It's a sad state of affairs when that's a mistake, when basic hopes and expectations aren't even considered as normal human behaviour to some.... well, loads.
It does make me wonder how many people of both genders have been treated appallingly and simply left the site not saying a word, blaming themselves.
I bet it's far more than we can comprehend. |
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"I went on a couple of nice socials with someone. She said she enjoyed it but then blocked me and vanished.
Perhaps I should have sent dick pics?!
Sorry
It wasn't you! Not sure who you blocked!
Twas a joke
Anyway, it was your lovely OH I met for a social soooooooo long ago now
Seems like a lifetime ago! "
I think it was.... |
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"Am I being naive, I thought the idea of this site was because it’s the one place we can be honest about our sexuality. "
And some will use that honesty against you.
Some will be no more than fantasists.
Some will be outright liars.
And some will be diamonds in the rough. |
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"Finding out the single person you've been in a relationship with for almost 2 years isn't separated like they told you, that their version of the truth is one that's been twisted to suit their desires and that they're too spineless to tell their wife."
Awww hugs your way just had a similar experience, only I invested a year with them |
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"More times then most on here when you get talking to someone and they sound promising that they'll be coming to meet you soon. Chances are its a lie or it just never happens.
What has been your biggest anti-climax on here? "
I chst to countlesd people on here and nothing ever comes of it. Even before covid |
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