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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you respond to compliments?
I know it depends on whos giving them and why, but if its on here and the person is trying to be nice, how does one respond?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t have time.
If I had a penny for every compliment message I got on fabswingers.com then I could buy myself those pectoral implants I’ve always wanted and then go topless at the beach. |
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"How do you respond to compliments?
I know it depends on whos giving them and why, but if its on here and the person is trying to be nice, how does one respond?
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I am often guilty of "not accepting" a compliment, mostly I get complimented on things that I think I could be better at.
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I suppose it depends on how genuine I feel they are..so my response could be nice one, thanks or something more simcere.
If I'm told I'm gorgeous and they haven't even seen a face pic it means nothing more than, they've trying to get in my pants.
Which is fair enough I supposed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont. Ive tried it and the majority think a thank you in response means the conversation is open. You'll be flooded by messages "
Oh if it's random on here I wouldn't notice let alone respond. I don't really read messages anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t have time.
If I had a penny for every compliment message I got on fabswingers.com then I could buy myself those pectoral implants I’ve always wanted and then go topless at the beach."
I get beach body ready instantly by not caring what anyone thinks of my body on the beach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say thank you and try to pay one back.
I used to be self deprecating about it but learned that after a while it becomes very unattractive so try to stop that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not keen on them, I'm one of these people that don't know how to take them especially when its said directly to my face, awkward 'thanks'  Im also a little suspicious of people who over do the compliments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you respond to compliments?
I know it depends on whos giving them and why, but if its on here and the person is trying to be nice, how does one respond?
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I'm not good at accepting them
When the cringing stops, I either laugh it off or just say thanks
I won't recipricate if there's nothing to compliment back on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle to tell if a compliment is genuine or not, but I always say "thank you" in case it is sincere. I may not agree with them or trust their motivations, but it's quicker and more gracious to just accept it.
I got told off for deflecting a compliment once as it made the giver feel rejected. I'd never looked at it that way before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just say thanks these days. I used to always fight them but I've learned there is no point as you just come across badly like you're looking for attention. O.o |
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Really depends who off and what about.
Something about how I look from a friend and I'll say something like "well of course ya spanner, it's me"
Something personal about the "who" of me and I'm likely to burst into tears.
Anything off a random off here and if I do respond it's probably something like "you'll need to do better than shit I've heard before to get in my undercrackers, appreciate the sentiment tho"
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It depends on the compliment, the person, and the circumstances. The ones on here that tell me I'm beautiful when they can't see my face usually get either a sarcastic response or ignored. But generally I'll say something along the lines of "aww, thank you, that made me smile"  |
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"How do you respond to compliments?
I know it depends on whos giving them and why, but if its on here and the person is trying to be nice, how does one respond?
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I hide and don't reply for a few days |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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If its a compliment from the heart with no agenda.. 'Ahh thank you'. I'll take it into my heart. As I would want anyone to receive a compliment from me.. Fully.
Have it. Say it. We need to appreciate eachother and ourselves more. We bloom when seen, heard and acknowledged. Just like children.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like receiving compliments and always say thank you if someone has taken the time to say something nice, but I cringe when I get them, have never been good with compliments lol |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"My instinct is to deflect, but I know that's quite an annoying trait so I've tried to train myself to just accept it with a thanks."
So many women do this , you say your hair looks nice or that’s a nice dress and they deflect and start saying ‘It’s only.....something or other’ just receive it and say thank you it builds confidence |
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is what I mostly respond with 
