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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so. "
I’m bi, I always had doubts about my own gender and my own sexuality and I’m now a different gender to that on my birth certificate.
Should you be scared to say that you’re none of these or that you have personal preference to someone not like me ?
Absolutely not, you do you and enjoy your preference as long as we can all get along and respect each other. Peace out y’all   |
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so. "
Me. Although I do like bi females for fmf threeway fun   |
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"I am straight and all of my longterm playmates are straight as well
Definitely in the minority
Just the fab minority "
I’ve been chatting with a new female recently, and she was most insistent she was only interested in straight men, not Fab straight men who play with other men. Happily I passed the tests she set me..... |
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It’s those who label others, that I ever have an issue with. If you’re comfortable being what you are and how you label yourself then who am I to question it.
Straight, Gay, Bi, Pan, Queer or Other ...live your life and be proud of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're allowed your preferences. I dont think its phobia to have them as some people seem to think.
But this post is a bit strange lol.
I would be interested to know what turns you off Bi guys though? Like if it's just you and them and you have a good time what does it matter? |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"It is horses for courses on this site and everyone has there own preferences so don't worry about it. 
Oh. I'll try not to. Thanks "
But Granny.... if you want to worry about it then you go ahead.
Your choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so. "
You're a bit scared to say something? Anything? You've changed.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is horses for courses on this site and everyone has there own preferences so don't worry about it.
Oh. I'll try not to. Thanks
But Granny.... if you want to worry about it then you go ahead.
Your choice."
you could worry about it on Granny's behalf, your choice. |
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By *ljamMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"It is horses for courses on this site and everyone has there own preferences so don't worry about it.
Oh. I'll try not to. Thanks "
You post that you're scared... then are dismissive... it's almost as if this whole thread is pointless! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so. "
Yepp, well, straight men anyway.
Obviously I like gay or bi women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am straight and all of my longterm playmates are straight as well
Definitely in the minority
Just the fab minority
I’ve been chatting with a new female recently, and she was most insistent she was only interested in straight men, not Fab straight men who play with other men. Happily I passed the tests she set me..... "
What tests? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so. "
I wouldn't admit in public that I'd been with a straight person. There's allsorts of misconceptions about them. I think you're right to be scared. Some things like that are better kept secret. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"It is horses for courses on this site and everyone has there own preferences so don't worry about it.
Oh. I'll try not to. Thanks
But Granny.... if you want to worry about it then you go ahead.
Your choice.
you could worry about it on Granny's behalf, your choice. "
There are too many choices! I can't cope! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve just checked our profile and it turns out that we are both straight and that works ok for us unless we are outed!!!
But we tolerate any sexulality as long as it’s legal and have brought our five kids up to be the same.
There is fabswingers and fabguys so I think we now need fabstraightswingers but not like the bi not bi fabstraight on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just checked our profile and it turns out that we are both straight and that works ok for us unless we are outed!!!
But we tolerate any sexulality as long as it’s legal and have brought our five kids up to be the same.
There is fabswingers and fabguys so I think we now need fabstraightswingers but not like the bi not bi fabstraight on here.
T"
So you wouldn't allow Bi people to join your new site i guess?
Pretty sure that would fall foul of some sort of Discrimination law |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
The real issue is that, because of the Abrahamic religions, for over 2000 years anyone who was not straight or straight presenting was demonised, arrested, brutalised or murdered. To often straight people in promoting themselves do so by being negative about gay or trans people.
So when straight people say they are nervous about saying they are straight, just think what it has taken for gay and trans people to be proud and accepted.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve just checked our profile and it turns out that we are both straight and that works ok for us unless we are outed!!!
But we tolerate any sexulality as long as it’s legal and have brought our five kids up to be the same.
There is fabswingers and fabguys so I think we now need fabstraightswingers but not like the bi not bi fabstraight on here.
T
So you wouldn't allow Bi people to join your new site i guess?
Pretty sure that would fall foul of some sort of Discrimination law"
It was merely a humorous post and I wouldn’t exclude anyone but that’s just me.
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so. "
Same here but certainly not scared to say. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I'm straight, it's just a sexual preference. We live in a big wide world where there should be room for us all to respect each other and our differences.
Stay safe, love long & be happy
Mrs WD40 |
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"It is horses for courses on this site and everyone has there own preferences so don't worry about it.
Oh. I'll try not to. Thanks
But Granny.... if you want to worry about it then you go ahead.
Your choice."
Thanks. I could do with a bit of a worry |
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"Anyone else into straight people that have stayed the same gender since birth and have no doubts about their sexuality / gender / preferences
I am but sometimes i'm a bit scared to say so.
You're a bit scared to say something? Anything? You've changed. "
Sometimes a person just has to be up front about things. This is one of those times. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I'm straight and happy with my life choices don't want to be anything else nor tend to change anyone that isn't straight into straight everyone should be allowed to be happy in their own bubble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight and never doubted nor had any inclination otherwise or to doubt. Very happy that way. What others do or are is up to them.
Just be honest to yourself and don't pretend anything else. |
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"I'm straight and never doubted nor had any inclination otherwise or to doubt. Very happy that way. What others do or are is up to them.
Just be honest to yourself and don't pretend anything else."
I won't. I won't pretend anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m Cisgender (meaning I’m the same as my birth and i identify with being the same) but I know I am 100 percent bisexual it’s more than sexuality for me I can be in a relationship with a man or a woman. I would even say I’m leaning more towards pansexual meaning it’s about the person as opposed to their gender.
I think the are more and more diverse preferences and identity these days there’s something for everyone. If you’re straight and cis that’s cool if your gay and transgender that’s also cool. Each to their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I have find difficult to get my head round over the years I've been on here, is with people here not being honest about it. I'd have thought here would have been the best place to be open and honest about it and be free to express it. If you can't do it in this environment how much harder will it be in real life?
I keep hearing on forums how open and non judgemental fabbers are, maybe in reality it's little different to real world and we're promoting some motion that we're more open. I've always questioned that when faced with the evidence.
I hope you can be honest at least with yourself as that's all that really matter. |
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