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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hang in there (not literally!!!) it does get easier I’m in recovery from a relapse of my BPD but help is out there you’ve reached out even if it’s on a swingers site that’s the main thing. Talk about how you feel or put your effort into something creative that really helps me. Be kind to yourself. It’s an awful time for all of us at the moment let alone us with mental health on top. Remember you aren’t alone. Take care OP xx |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
It's a tough time for many people, but just hang on in there. Everyone is the object of someone's desire, even if they don't know it.
Also, better times are coming AND there is always something great to see.
Give this a watch, it's only a minute, but it's really funny: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3-SW7B8A-Y
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry you are feeling this way.
But trying to make contacts via messages is a lost cause right now because of Covid and all.
However, the forum has a great community and it's easy to make friends and connections in here.
I'm Cindi
Pleased to meet you 
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That's not a great way to feel. I don't suppose it helps but from what I see there are lots of people feeling the same.
Welcome to the forum...this is a great place to get involved and eventually even make friends.
I hope you feel better about things soon x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really tough mate I know. Bad enough in the best of Januarys and this is far from the best.
This isn't always the best place to make you feel better, but there are some lovely people to chat to if you hang in here and get used to it. |
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Thank you for your responses. I used to go in chat often, but found it a bit cliquey. I have reached out on the forums before and most people were amazing and I was very humbled.
Perhaps you are right about trying to reach out with messages, I've just been trying to put things in place to cope, but nothing seems to be working.
I've been living in a new area for over a year, thanks to lockdowns, making friends has been maddeningly difficult.
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have posted, I know there are others a lot worse off than me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's been such a struggle. Mental health has taken a kicking but I keep trying to reach out and connect with people. It's just not happening for me. So lost and lonely."
It just happened. All above connected with your words. I know its not what you meant. But it is something to cherish too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of people are feeling pretty similar right now, knowing you aren't alone can help somewhat with how you are feeling. Please know that although it doesn't feel like it things will get better. Keep reaching out. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for your responses. I used to go in chat often, but found it a bit cliquey. I have reached out on the forums before and most people were amazing and I was very humbled.
Perhaps you are right about trying to reach out with messages, I've just been trying to put things in place to cope, but nothing seems to be working.
I've been living in a new area for over a year, thanks to lockdowns, making friends has been maddeningly difficult.
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have posted, I know there are others a lot worse off than me"
Of course you should have posted. No need for comparing who has it worse.. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Thank you for your responses. I used to go in chat often, but found it a bit cliquey. I have reached out on the forums before and most people were amazing and I was very humbled.
Perhaps you are right about trying to reach out with messages, I've just been trying to put things in place to cope, but nothing seems to be working.
I've been living in a new area for over a year, thanks to lockdowns, making friends has been maddeningly difficult.
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have posted, I know there are others a lot worse off than me"
I'm glad you've posted. It's far better you did than you didn't. Plus watch that link I sent, it's really funny and will put a smile on your face  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for your responses. I used to go in chat often, but found it a bit cliquey. I have reached out on the forums before and most people were amazing and I was very humbled.
Perhaps you are right about trying to reach out with messages, I've just been trying to put things in place to cope, but nothing seems to be working.
I've been living in a new area for over a year, thanks to lockdowns, making friends has been maddeningly difficult.
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have posted, I know there are others a lot worse off than me"
Hey we might all be in the same storm but we’re not all in the same boat don’t worry about it. The worse thing you can do is compare. Only you know your story. Just keep talking and keep being open. Trust me there’s light at the end of the tunnel I’m living proof. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for your responses. I used to go in chat often, but found it a bit cliquey. I have reached out on the forums before and most people were amazing and I was very humbled.
Perhaps you are right about trying to reach out with messages, I've just been trying to put things in place to cope, but nothing seems to be working.
I've been living in a new area for over a year, thanks to lockdowns, making friends has been maddeningly difficult.
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have posted, I know there are others a lot worse off than me"
You're way better off posting than messaging. There are always worse off people than you, but that doesn't negate your feelings.
Stick in there buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP you shared your thoughts and feelings, there's nothing wrong with that 
Don't feel bad about it.
Just because there is someone worse off than ourselves, it does not mean our issues don't matter
But I recommend being silly and daft in the forum, it helps keep you happy when you post stupid comments and jokes and you make friends along the way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP you shared your thoughts and feelings, there's nothing wrong with that
Don't feel bad about it.
Just because there is someone worse off than ourselves, it does not mean our issues don't matter
But I recommend being silly and daft in the forum, it helps keep you happy when you post stupid comments and jokes and you make friends along the way.
X"
This OP, this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sure a lot of people on here have felt similar emotions at times in their lives and you are absolutely not alone in spirit. Fab can be a rather brutal place for single men but I’ve seen a lot of very supportive and genuine people on the forums. Please continue to post whatever is on your mind - in current circumstances all positive contact must be a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take this thread as an example OP.
Look how many replies you have from us already.
Us forum folk might be a crazy bunch, but we are there for eachother
Is it better to send 20 messages with no reply, or have a laugh and make friends here  |
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"Take this thread as an example OP.
Look how many replies you have from us already.
Us forum folk might be a crazy bunch, but we are there for eachother
Is it better to send 20 messages with no reply, or have a laugh and make friends here "
Thank you, each and every one of you. That's all I can say at the moment x |
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Oh, OP. Never apologise for posting how you feel.
Just as the guys above say, chat & have fun in the forums. And if you're not sleeping, head to the Late Night Nocturnal thread - that's a very friendly group on there and you'll be more than welcome xx |
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"Oh, OP. Never apologise for posting how you feel.
Just as the guys above say, chat & have fun in the forums. And if you're not sleeping, head to the Late Night Nocturnal thread - that's a very friendly group on there and you'll be more than welcome xx"
I have popped in on occasion, I know Jim from there. I should come in more often x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, OP. Never apologise for posting how you feel.
Just as the guys above say, chat & have fun in the forums. And if you're not sleeping, head to the Late Night Nocturnal thread - that's a very friendly group on there and you'll be more than welcome xx"
Red I think we need to bring the hot tub back tomorrow |
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"It's been such a struggle. Mental health has taken a kicking but I keep trying to reach out and connect with people. It's just not happening for me. So lost and lonely."
Hey...a lot of people are struggling at the moment with Mental Health...myself included...since all this covid shite I'm more using fab as a social chat site...with the odd filthy phone call had  Hang on in there matey, have you tried any other help? Don't give up...when you feel down log on and say Hi...to me or any one...loads of people on here will want to help you feel so much better....Big Hugs to you..x |
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"It's been such a struggle. Mental health has taken a kicking but I keep trying to reach out and connect with people. It's just not happening for me. So lost and lonely.
Hey...a lot of people are struggling at the moment with Mental Health...myself included...since all this covid shite I'm more using fab as a social chat site...with the odd filthy phone call had Hang on in there matey, have you tried any other help? Don't give up...when you feel down log on and say Hi...to me or any one...loads of people on here will want to help you feel so much better....Big Hugs to you..x"
I joined a talking therapy type group and they have been a really good bunch, despite having problems of their own. I have been to the Drs, but I think I need to call back. Thank you x |
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"It's been such a struggle. Mental health has taken a kicking but I keep trying to reach out and connect with people. It's just not happening for me. So lost and lonely.
Hey...a lot of people are struggling at the moment with Mental Health...myself included...since all this covid shite I'm more using fab as a social chat site...with the odd filthy phone call had Hang on in there matey, have you tried any other help? Don't give up...when you feel down log on and say Hi...to me or any one...loads of people on here will want to help you feel so much better....Big Hugs to you..x
I joined a talking therapy type group and they have been a really good bunch, despite having problems of their own. I have been to the Drs, but I think I need to call back. Thank you x"
Have you got some antidepressants to take?...they do help!! you should feel proud that you have reached out and said how you are feeling..good for you  |
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"It's been such a struggle. Mental health has taken a kicking but I keep trying to reach out and connect with people. It's just not happening for me. So lost and lonely.
Hey...a lot of people are struggling at the moment with Mental Health...myself included...since all this covid shite I'm more using fab as a social chat site...with the odd filthy phone call had Hang on in there matey, have you tried any other help? Don't give up...when you feel down log on and say Hi...to me or any one...loads of people on here will want to help you feel so much better....Big Hugs to you..x
I joined a talking therapy type group and they have been a really good bunch, despite having problems of their own. I have been to the Drs, but I think I need to call back. Thank you x
Have you got some antidepressants to take?...they do help!! you should feel proud that you have reached out and said how you are feeling..good for you "
Yes I do, have upped my dosage, I'm not sure if they're working, but I'm still taking them x |
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"It's been such a struggle. Mental health has taken a kicking but I keep trying to reach out and connect with people. It's just not happening for me. So lost and lonely.
Hey...a lot of people are struggling at the moment with Mental Health...myself included...since all this covid shite I'm more using fab as a social chat site...with the odd filthy phone call had Hang on in there matey, have you tried any other help? Don't give up...when you feel down log on and say Hi...to me or any one...loads of people on here will want to help you feel so much better....Big Hugs to you..x
I joined a talking therapy type group and they have been a really good bunch, despite having problems of their own. I have been to the Drs, but I think I need to call back. Thank you x
Have you got some antidepressants to take?...they do help!! you should feel proud that you have reached out and said how you are feeling..good for you
Yes I do, have upped my dosage, I'm not sure if they're working, but I'm still taking them x"
Well keep taking them but you must call your Doctor as they may not be working...even if they did seem to be at one point..x |
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"with the odd filthy phone call had
Can I have your number please
Well hello Cindi...I cannot message you privately cos' of your filters...love a filthy chat...so get in touch "
I can't contact you either. Thank you for your kind words x |
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"In fact, if anyone here wants to get in touch, I will be most grateful for your time x"
Feel free to contact me mate not a problem I am suffering in a similar way. Maybe help talking to someone who is actually going through the same thing. I am sure most nice folks on here including me won't mind you con them or me
Take good care mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We bother suffer from a spectrum of mental health issues/disorders. January isnt a good month for anyone. I know it's just a swingers site, but you'd be surprised how many people here are struggling also. It's good even to reach out on here. Stay strong theres people that will chat so you aren't alone.
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"We bother suffer from a spectrum of mental health issues/disorders. January isnt a good month for anyone. I know it's just a swingers site, but you'd be surprised how many people here are struggling also. It's good even to reach out on here. Stay strong theres people that will chat so you aren't alone.
J "
Thank you |
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The first week of work has been a long nightmare for most of us. Add that we're a bunch of pervs so mental health doesn't live here at all. Jokes aside, sending messages can be very depressing: even if it's plenty of genuine people, it's hard to get an answer no matter how polite you are. But the forums are good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first week of work has been a long nightmare for most of us. Add that we're a bunch of pervs so mental health doesn't live here at all. Jokes aside, sending messages can be very depressing: even if it's plenty of genuine people, it's hard to get an answer no matter how polite you are. But the forums are good"
There are perves here 
Why was I not informed of this?  |
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