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I spent a lot of years going back and forth over this until a few years ago where something just clicked and I found myself happy with how I am.
I like this side of me but also really like my guy side of life too, too much to risk getting my choice wrong as the need to transition isn't strong enough to stop me enjoying life as it is. |
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Fuck no, however I have so much respect for those who take the ultimate step, to be their truthful self.
For me it’s a compulsion a need to express a feminine side to me, but it’s not the whole. I have a male side to my personality that requires the same nurturing that my female side needs.
So I’m happy being both, keeping my manhood in place forever and expressing my feminine feelings occasionally  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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No. I wouldn't be able to improve my position if I did. It would take me years for my chest skin to stretch enough to have giant fun sized implants AND I wouldn't be able to take them off for a guy to tit fuck whilst I went to pop some toast in and make a brew  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I wouldn't be able to improve my position if I did. It would take me years for my chest skin to stretch enough to have giant fun sized implants AND I wouldn't be able to take them off for a guy to tit fuck whilst I went to pop some toast in and make a brew "
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No.
Although I feel my soul/desire etc is feminine, I accept the fact that my physique is masculine.
This is the physique that I was brought up with.
This is the physique that my family and my friends recognise me.
This is the physique that carries me for the past 49yrs 4 months of my life.
I am contented to just putting on a wig and breast forms when I have the chance.
I am proud and fully accept both my feminine and masculine aspects.
Both of me should exist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" For me it is more of a fetish/sexuality thing. It not a gender thing for me."
Yes definitely, sets me free n a totally different way... Still lots to experience and explore in fab x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope though about this so much over the years even though I feel like I am in the wrong body
I came to accept my self for me and have no desire for a sex change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have thought about and dont know, but more on the side of probably not.
I know I'm pretty sure I would of much rather of been born a female.
I'm unhappy with who i am as it is, so i kinda think why chance it at even more unhappiness. I dont exactly have the figure to be 'Passable' as a female in my own mind.
As somone who struggled with bullying as a kid. Anxiety and depression its quit a challenge to put yourssself out there to be judged and looked at. It has got a bit easier of the last couple of years but even when i go to Pink Punters I feel uneasy. Let alone going down the shops or something
Hope that didn't come across as a ramble lol
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By *obbie BelleTV/TS
over a year ago
Preston, Lancaster, Blackpool |
"I am in awe of some of you girls, gorgeous, sexy bodies, boobs, but...
Would you go the whole hog and become fully trans and loose your manhood?"
What's more intriguing Stella, is why ask?
My answer is no.
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By *acha1TV/TS
over a year ago
Bolton |
"No my right hand would miss it too much x 
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe 
Haha I didn’t think of that x 
Hi sis "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No my right hand would miss it too much x
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe
Haha I didn’t think of that x
Hi sis
Hi hun admin have finally sorted my account so I can post on here x "
That's good news, I'll drop you a friend req |
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By *acha1TV/TS
over a year ago
Bolton |
"No my right hand would miss it too much x
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe
Haha I didn’t think of that x
Hi sis
Hi hun admin have finally sorted my account so I can post on here x
That's good news, I'll drop you a friend req "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No my right hand would miss it too much x
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe
Haha I didn’t think of that x
Hi sis
Hi hun admin have finally sorted my account so I can post on here x
That's good news, I'll drop you a friend req
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Does Lisa come on here much, or just fabguys? X |
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By *acha1TV/TS
over a year ago
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"No my right hand would miss it too much x
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe
Haha I didn’t think of that x
Hi sis
Hi hun admin have finally sorted my account so I can post on here x
That's good news, I'll drop you a friend req
Does Lisa come on here much, or just fabguys? X"
She usually does hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No my right hand would miss it too much x
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe
Haha I didn’t think of that x
Hi sis
Hi hun admin have finally sorted my account so I can post on here x
That's good news, I'll drop you a friend req
Does Lisa come on here much, or just fabguys? X
She usually does hun x "
I shall seek her out  |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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" For me it is more of a fetish/sexuality thing. It not a gender thing for me.
Yes definitely, sets me free n a totally different way... Still lots to experience and explore in fab x"
Are you one of them Gender Fluid thingies? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was around 10 I dreamt of just waking up female and wanted to be girl so badly I then went on to suicidal thoughts thinking if we have a choice when we come back id choose female. as I grew and got bigger I realised I did not have the physique to even be convincing so I gave up but still yearned to be a girl.
At about 17 I became aware of shemales I love them to me they are perfect female shape but with a dick again still unobtainable to me with my build.
So at late 40s would I change? No.
If I had a decent enough build would I take hormones and try shemale? Yes.
If I knew I could choose to come back as a girl would I cut this one short?
Yes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" For me it is more of a fetish/sexuality thing. It not a gender thing for me.
Yes definitely, sets me free n a totally different way... Still lots to experience and explore in fab x
Are you one of them Gender Fluid thingies? Lol"
Your man babe x everything else is sexually fluid x |
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My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over |
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I struggled with this question in my youth and up till my mid 20s . That and was I gay . Got it all figured out in the end though , at least enough of it so I can enjoy whom I am without self loathing ..
I never class myself as a female or a girl . ( I’m not so keen on the use of T girl ) If anything I would say I am Androgynous , I’m happy with the title of Transvestite . I don’t pad my boobs to create shape although I do use corsets cause I like that cinched waist look and if I wanted anything at all it would be hips because things just fit better and it’s somewhere to put your hands .. Oh and getting rid of the body hair permanently ( fortunately I’m not over hairy ..
My partner comments it’s like “ A “ is not in the room when there’s Crystals and Ruby’s about .. Some of my posturing and actions could be construed as feminine ( esq) I’ve always seen myself as more camp than anything else a bit of a cross between Julian Cleary and Frankie Howard .. with a great big dollop of Hyacinth Bucket thrown in for good measure ..
Possibly more Theatrical , than genuine femininity ..
There you go , as clear as mud then eh . The shorter answer is of course I’m happy who I am . I just keep taking it up the ass from her indoors .. no vagina needed here .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over "
I can confirm that I have definitely found this to be an issue as a post op woman myself.
It had definitely narrowed the pool of potential play partners as most admirers actually want that last vestige of masculinity to play with and very few cishet guys are still interested once they know my past.
It’s frustrating but I didn’t walk this path for others, I walked it for me and I’m far happier for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over "
It's the same in the porn industry.
Once you have it cut in reality you are useless and are an put in extremely extremely small niche.
People like to see a Tgirl with a cock. If they wanted to see a vagina they would just watch normal porn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was around 10 I dreamt of just waking up female and wanted to be girl so badly I then went on to suicidal thoughts thinking if we have a choice when we come back id choose female. as I grew and got bigger I realised I did not have the physique to even be convincing so I gave up but still yearned to be a girl.
At about 17 I became aware of shemales I love them to me they are perfect female shape but with a dick again still unobtainable to me with my build.
So at late 40s would I change? No.
If I had a decent enough build would I take hormones and try shemale? Yes.
If I knew I could choose to come back as a girl would I cut this one short?
Yes.
Xx"
Very similar to me. I used to dream about before I even knew what sex was, so I dont think it's just necessary a fetish for me.
I used to basically lie in bed wishing genies where real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
I can confirm that I have definitely found this to be an issue as a post op woman myself.
It had definitely narrowed the pool of potential play partners as most admirers actually want that last vestige of masculinity to play with and very few cishet guys are still interested once they know my past.
It’s frustrating but I didn’t walk this path for others, I walked it for me and I’m far happier for it "
I’m a few steps behind on the path as I’m post op but have yet to experience anything sexual.
I too did this for me.
If that means I spend my life without any sexual attention then I guess that’s my own fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over "
Why did the male sauna let a woman in? |
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?"
Beccause I am sure they can not stop entry because of gender for one.
And alot of Saunas do have Bi/couples days. I know for a fact the Luton Greenhouse did |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?"
I’ve been told I will not get into the greenhouse in darlaston any longer. Shame really; the swimming pool with the cave behind the waterfall is lovely. |
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?
Beccause I am sure they can not stop entry because of gender for one.
And alot of Saunas do have Bi/couples days. I know for a fact the Luton Greenhouse did"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?
I’ve been told I will not get into the greenhouse in darlaston any longer. Shame really; the swimming pool with the cave behind the waterfall is lovely. "
There will be other waterfall pools. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?
I’ve been told I will not get into the greenhouse in darlaston any longer. Shame really; the swimming pool with the cave behind the waterfall is lovely.
There will be other waterfall pools. "
It’s just another part of my journey and something else I’ve moved on from. X |
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By *irsty bTV/TS
over a year ago
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"No my right hand would miss it too much x
It might be just as if not more happy with new equipment hehe
Haha I didn’t think of that x
Hi sis
Hi hun admin have finally sorted my account so I can post on here x
That's good news, I'll drop you a friend req
Does Lisa come on here much, or just fabguys? X
She usually does hun x "
Nice to see you on here sexy girl x |
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?"
Because she said that she is trans, not sure if the trans looked feminine or still had a masculine face, you will find a lot of male only saunas have trans sessions where trans can arrive dressed and ready for the action whereas some saunas like the tropics in Portsmouth have a section known as the gatsby suite for guys to get changed into a tv, most male only saunas are trans friendly |
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"My girlfriend often asks me this to see if I've changed my mind, and it's still a no, even though I rarely get a erection nowadays because I suffer from erectile dysfunction, by what I've heard from a fully transitioned tgirl who went to a well-known male sauna, she didnt get any attention from the guys, as they didn't want a fanny to fuck but a tgirls nice arse and a cock to play with, so that makes me think would my days of fun suddenly be over
Why did the male sauna let a woman in?
Beccause I am sure they can not stop entry because of gender for one.
And alot of Saunas do have Bi/couples days. I know for a fact the Luton Greenhouse did"
The tropics do not allow women in at all, it's clearly advertised as male only on their website and I think you'll find their Facebook page too |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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My decision is to keep it. It’s been there all my life, might kinda miss it tbh.
Over the past 5 years or so got more and more used to being full time or as near as. I like being the true me.
I have the back end for the fun stuff, the front end is for the rare occasions with females - although not the priority- it occasionally works here
Hopefully the GIC will come through and I’ll get the hormones started, and have my own boobs. I’m looking forward to seeing how I develop into a real woman.The hair is almost there, so no more wigs.
Only done 1 pee standing up in 6 years - the one time was being distracted and forgot - very annoyed at myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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currently, I'm undecided, I am waiting to get further along with hrt, then possibly I may feel differently, however, whatever I decide I will feel no less fully trans either way |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
Sheffield |
I consider myself gender fluid so a full transition would not be suitable for me. However, I wish there was a way to be more female when I need to feel like that. I feel so happy when I'm femme but I'm often frustrated and upset by my body. |
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