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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'll try and keep it as short as possible! I'm completely new to this, Mike has done it before. We're straight, and it's clear on our profile, I feel uncomfortable when women message saying "I would love your wife's pussy" but he gets a bit moody because I'm uncomfortable. HELP!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi. Welcome! 
You can block women from messaging if you want to. You will get unsavoury messages on here anyway though whatever you’re looking for unfortunately x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll try and keep it as short as possible! I'm completely new to this, Mike has done it before. We're straight, and it's clear on our profile, I feel uncomfortable when women message saying "I would love your wife's pussy" but he gets a bit moody because I'm uncomfortable. HELP!!! "
This doesn't sound like this is for you, if you feel uncomfortable then pause and talk it over some more |
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Then you need to sit down and talk it through some more.
Swinging is meant to be about fun. If there are any negative feelings for either/both of you then you need to take a step back,talk about your feelings and work through them.
Good luck to you both and hope you can find a way to enjoy the fun swinging brings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello welcome to the forums you can use filters to block woman and then if you want to open a line off communication up with them then you message them first and it will over ride the filter and alow them to message back x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women really message couples and say things like that?"
I agree, sounds more like a male with a female account, and by the reaction possibly your OH testing your reaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women really message couples and say things like that?"
When I was in a couple profile, yeah, I got that occasionally. However I often found it was weird and suspected men with fake accounts.
OP, if you’re straight, that’s it! Never feel pressured to push outside of your comfort zone. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he’s moody because you’re uncomfortable then I think he needs to work on that! "
This ^^
We all have our particular boundaries and shouldn't be pressured to do things out of our comfort zone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll try and keep it as short as possible! I'm completely new to this, Mike has done it before. We're straight, and it's clear on our profile, I feel uncomfortable when women message saying "I would love your wife's pussy" but he gets a bit moody because I'm uncomfortable. HELP!!! "
First of all welcome to Fab and the forum.
My advice to you both is to talk and listen to each other without moodiness from either of you. Get to the bottom of you being uncomfortable and why he gets moody over it.
There are things you can do to combat women messaging you and that is to block them using your filters.
Having said that I am slightly envious that you receive such messages as I would welcome them on our couples profile because in all my years on Fab I have never received such messages 
If you both can't communicate or be honest with each other then swinging is not something which is suitable for your relationship, the last thing you need is something which should be an added pleasure to an already wonderful relationship and sex life to become the thing which causes problems.
Best of luck both
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll try and keep it as short as possible! I'm completely new to this, Mike has done it before. We're straight, and it's clear on our profile, I feel uncomfortable when women message saying "I would love your wife's pussy" but he gets a bit moody because I'm uncomfortable. HELP!!! "
Don't even consider meeting people until you are 100% comfortable
You both have things to work on, as both individuals and as a couple
Pushing you out of your comfort zone isn't on - for you or anyone you might meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Moody because you're uncomfortable is a massive red flag for me.
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Yep.
Nothing can be forced. It's not something one can convinced themselves of feeling and if you would just do that to fulfill a fantasy for a partner, whilst still uncomfortable, how would you feel afterwards? I would feel sexually coerced. |
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By *assy211279Woman
over a year ago
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I am bi and would love for some of what you get but no way would I stay with anyone who can't see that I want something. I also wouldn't be able to cope if people came on to me when I wasn't interested. You definitely need to discuss boundaries with your man and make sure you are both happy to play. |
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