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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does daily exposure to sexual content & discussion heighten your sexual desires or numb them?
I only speak for myself, but I feel that after 15+ years of being hyper sexual, I have become largely indifferent to sex and sexual imagery
Very little seems to excite or intrigue me these days
It could, of course, just be an age thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get what you’re saying. After years of the internet I reckon I’ve seen a lot of what’s on offer and am rarely surprised about what people get up to.
Having said that though there’s a certain lady who never fails to excite me. I look forward to every time we meet and look forward to trying new things together.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I'm completely unshockable and fab still teaches me new things regularly but other things like nudity and kinks don't surprise me anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see far too much where I once wouldn't have.
People in work were surprised to hear about 'upskirting' being an issue and couldn't believe it existed. I on the other hand .....  "
If the subject of sex comes up in office banter, I spend much of my time inwardly smiling & thinking 'you don't know the half of it' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.  "
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a fab context, I don't get aroused by sexual content(such as pictures or chat)
I think that's probably a culmination of using the internet for a long while to meet people to potentially have sex with, so knowing that I'm gonna have to see the whites of their eyes first, and seeing the contents of some folks minds in relation to sex |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I think to an extent I have become immune to it...and certainly don't get aroused by pictures or even videos on here, or even porn sites, in the way that I once would have done.
Can remember 22 years ago, when I first had the internet, just the thought of visiting a porn site was enough to cause the beginnings of physical arousal - nowadays it takes a lot more.
Bizarrely I do still get mentally stimulated and aroused by some images though and can appreciate them in other ways, or they set off a spark of imagination in my mind, even if physically they don't do a great deal.
Age probably plays a factor too of course, but don't think it's the sole reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does daily exposure to sexual content & discussion heighten your sexual desires or numb them?
I only speak for myself, but I feel that after 15+ years of being hyper sexual, I have become largely indifferent to sex and sexual imagery
Very little seems to excite or intrigue me these days
It could, of course, just be an age thing"
Speak for yourself |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Does daily exposure to sexual content & discussion heighten your sexual desires or numb them?
I only speak for myself, but I feel that after 15+ years of being hyper sexual, I have become largely indifferent to sex and sexual imagery
Very little seems to excite or intrigue me these days
It could, of course, just be an age thing"
Yes (and no!)
So having been in the scene for a while, images with sexual content have not numbed but perhaps desensitised my arousal/ excitement level a bit, true! It is like that first time in a club for example, when you really do not know where to look first and are excited like a kid in a sweetshop.
The NO part is about still finding erotic images very appealing. Perhaps that is why I am not a fan of cock and/or overtly pornographic images. What sets my pulse racing are pictures of a guy in a smart suit or in the shower with his back towards me... in short the images that allude to sexiness but are leaving a fair bit to my imagination.
Maybe us women are not so different from guys after all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it "
This is the same for me. Random content or pictures does not spark anything. But a picture of someone I have connected with and developed chemistry lights the fires immediately. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Does daily exposure to sexual content & discussion heighten your sexual desires or numb them?
I only speak for myself, but I feel that after 15+ years of being hyper sexual, I have become largely indifferent to sex and sexual imagery
Very little seems to excite or intrigue me these days
It could, of course, just be an age thing"
Maybe it is an age and experience thing, because I tend to agree with you. Although I'm not sure about the daily content part.
I've been lucky enough to have experienced many things over the 20+ years I've played. So it's more that I find the discussions and pictures etc a little blasé. In fact I find many of the discussions in the forum's a little naive and some quite silly, almost childish. I tend not to friend people unless we actually have conversations, many invites are from women just wanting their photos fab'd. Or maybe I'm just a cynic!  Likewise with the hotlist. If I like someone I would message them! |
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I still like posting pictures and fabbing other peoples, I enjoy the messages I get and, at the moment, the lack of perceived pressure and the “calm” that has developed. I don’t think I am desensitised to anything, different things about different people turn me on, depending on how they portray themselves through their profile. Fab is a smorgasbord of delight after all.
However without local updates I would be lost, I seem to be voyeuristically emotionally invested in the drama that plays out and I think I now understand peoples addiction to soap operas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it "
Oh yes definitely this. A random penis is a random penis. But I never tire of one that’s attached to someone I want  |
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it
Oh yes definitely this. A random penis is a random penis. But I never tire of one that’s attached to someone I want "
Attached with a sucker, like you can get those dildos that stick onto a tiled floor? But on a person??
That’s some fucked up kinky shit in your head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it
Oh yes definitely this. A random penis is a random penis. But I never tire of one that’s attached to someone I want
Attached with a sucker, like you can get those dildos that stick onto a tiled floor? But on a person??
That’s some fucked up kinky shit in your head "
You don’t know the half of it darling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it
Oh yes definitely this. A random penis is a random penis. But I never tire of one that’s attached to someone I want
Attached with a sucker, like you can get those dildos that stick onto a tiled floor? But on a person??
That’s some fucked up kinky shit in your head
You don’t know the half of it darling "
PS I like you. Show me your cock |
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"Oh god, I totally know what you mean! I've seen so many willies at this point I (and my bits) don't even flinch! Penis blindness I call it.
I am only like this to penis I have no interest in... One belonging to a man I want,I still like looking at it
Oh yes definitely this. A random penis is a random penis. But I never tire of one that’s attached to someone I want
Attached with a sucker, like you can get those dildos that stick onto a tiled floor? But on a person??
That’s some fucked up kinky shit in your head
You don’t know the half of it darling
PS I like you. Show me your cock "
Ha ha . Just for you, there’s a video on my profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think joining here has heightened it for me if anything. There are loads of gorgeous women on here and the fact a random person walking down the street could be on here is definitely sexy.
That being said, I have also seen a lot more penises than I would like to |
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"I think to an extent I have become immune to it...and certainly don't get aroused by pictures or even videos on here, or even porn sites, in the way that I once would have done.
Can remember 22 years ago, when I first had the internet, just the thought of visiting a porn site was enough to cause the beginnings of physical arousal - nowadays it takes a lot more.
Bizarrely I do still get mentally stimulated and aroused by some images though and can appreciate them in other ways, or they set off a spark of imagination in my mind, even if physically they don't do a great deal.
Age probably plays a factor too of course, but don't think it's the sole reason."
Pretty much this ^^^^ 
Again, I'm not sure if age is a factor and I'm losing interest naturally, or if I'm switching off internally either because there's no real alternative / outlet at the moment or because my head space is currently my own worst enemy 
Certainly not a lot here me going like it did even 6 months ago, either here or on porn sites.
But again,I get where you're coming from OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ever feel horny I just come on here and my fanny slams shut like massive iron gates on a cave.
Nice to know I haven't lost my touch.... "
*clang!* |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t get aroused by sexy talk or photos unless I already know someone intimately these days. Back in the day all it took to get me chomping at the bit was for a fella to talk a bit sexy.
I was either much easier to please back then, or I’ve grown up a smidge sexually. Or I’m jaded. I’m not sure |
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