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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since the admins are all over this forum. How does hiding people's verifications help anything or anyone in any way interms mental health. Surely if people were able to publish then they may get through to be able to chat to others alot easier if others can see their decent from their verifications being public. Also how does two people that have met verify each other. If new people can't verify until they been verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since the admins are all over this forum. How does hiding people's verifications help anything or anyone in any way interms mental health. Surely if people were able to publish then they may get through to be able to chat to others alot easier if others can see their decent from their verifications being public. Also how does two people that have met verify each other. If new people can't verify until they been verified. "
Your first veri needs to be from a verified person
Two unverified people can't verify each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly. So needs addressing as two unverified people can meet."
Send a suggestion to admin from the contact us page, but I don't think it's too priority, given Covid n all and staying at home  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly. So needs addressing as two unverified people can meet."
They can
I assume the measure is in place to stop one person setting up separate accounts and one account verifying the other
AFAIK, if you go on cam, you can get verified that way, allowing you to verify others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some off us hade them like I do because
I respect others privacy
Who I meet is my business not everyone on the sites
Plus also can spoil meeting people if say I meet someone
Who someone else dose not like then they may be inclined not to meet me
Even if it was years ago
For experience
Started to hide mine back in 2017 after one couple keep getting pestered from some a nother tv/ts who had seen they had meet me
They contact me asking me to undisply they verifies from my profile and also at the same time kind off muck me getting a nother meet from them
Even though it wasn’t my fault or had anything to do with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also OP, you appear to be verified
Meet verifications can be made now, but won't be shown publically until Admin deem it acceptable to do so
They have to demonstrate some commercial responsibility and can't afford to promote people meeting for casual sex right now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This has got to be up there as the most novel way to help mental health
Isn't it!"
Of course you get through as a female. Blokes will message anything. Is more directed at blokes on here where most the mental health is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And I am verified. But I still can't work out the benefits of hiding people's verifications. But can see the damage it could do. When genuine people can't get through to even basic chat as have nothing to prove they genuine on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has got to be up there as the most novel way to help mental health
Isn't it!
Of course you get through as a female. Blokes will message anything. Is more directed at blokes on here where most the mental health is"
I'm a bloke
If my mental health was suffering, the last place I'd look to remedy it would be on here
Also, there may be other reasons people aren't communicating with you - a lack of photos, little info on the profile, a relatively new account
Certainly in the forums if you make 'radical' statements, they get noticed and purely by making them, you can lose a lot of interest
I think you are opening a battle that will only serve to alienate existing users and perhaps get you a forum ban too
It's a battle you won't win
Your time is much better spent making your image here more visible, more interesting and less contraversial
Settle in quietly and politely and see if your luck changes
You are not going to make friends by challenging site rules and trying to get physical meets right now |
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We’re not verified, we’ve met someone from here but from an old profile (we became a little disillusioned and decided to leave for a while). We could ask them to verify us again but we haven’t and have no intention to as we don’t want to contact them again.
We’ve also had social meets but they were also unverified so neither of us could verify each other.
In short, yes it might be nice to get verified but in the grand scheme of things it’s not worrying us, we’ve still managed to meet people and chat to people without being verified. If it was really beneficial to get verified we’d go on cams, I’m sure the people struggling without veris could do that too.
As for your mental health, there’s better help out there than hooking up with strangers, if anything the rejection and disappointment from some of the people on here could be very harmful to your mental health. If you’re really struggling, seek professional help.
Lou x |
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