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If You Had A Meet And They Were Not What You Expected Would You Still Play !

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By *omSnow OP   Man  over a year ago

Woking

ok if you been chatting for a while and arranged a meet,and they were not how you expected .would you think oh well im here now lets do it or would you just have a drink and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hell no!! I’d leave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Need more context.

What factors are being hidden?

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If I still fancied them then yes.

If they totally weren't what floats my boat then no.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple  over a year ago

midlands

No

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why always have a social meet first. Has to be an attraction for me to play with a guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope, had this happen where the guy looked nothing like all his pics so asked him politely to leave. Gave me a load of abuse down the communal stairs. Ended up escorting him to the main road. In a headlock. Complete nut job.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d let them suck my cock before I left

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I should clarify he was a single guy, I didn't keep his wife hostage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if they looked or behaved nothing like they had portrayed then I would just leave.

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By *omSnow OP   Man  over a year ago

Woking

I think.....10 drinks then fuck her,lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's why you always have a social first just to make sure you actually get along and enjoy their company. It's that first and always for me.

Drinks or even dinner as by then I hope we both know we click and could take it further and have a second meet

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

I always make a effort to get too know someone very well before meeting and they do the same so we have a lovely connection that leads to enjoyment without any rush

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By *yrdsisWoman  over a year ago

Gleam Street

No... but then that's why I do socials initially.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman  over a year ago

somewhere

Noooooo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Met a guy after talking online. He was very chatty, full of bravado and funny

Wasn't at all like that when I met him. Never met again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No I wouldn't.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

No just stay long enough to not look rude just one coffee then go x

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"ok if you been chatting for a while and arranged a meet,and they were not how you expected .would you think oh well im here now lets do it or would you just have a drink and leave. "

I would be honest and say it’s not for me and politely leave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

this couple arranged a gang bang 3 guys him and the wife !! she got slowly pissed on anything that contained alcohol in between going outside for a fag .. talked shite for 2 hours still no action : i suggested she sucked my cock to get it going which she duly obliged for about 5 secs then husband drags her off outside for another fag !! turns out he wanted to be in control and got jealous !!! mills and boon wanker

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

Depends.

Had they intentionally tried to trick me or had I not managed my expectations properly?

If it was me, did I still fancy them?

If yes, then yes, I'd continue

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By *ittlekinks38Woman  over a year ago

outside belfast x

Social first to see if an attraction then meet again another time if all feels good!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always a social first

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends. I have had some meets where they looked nothing like the pictures, when there was no attraction then no.

If there was still an attraction then yes.

A few years of clubs and I would say only 20% actually looked like their pictures, but you have to take into account that people dont post bad photos of themselfs (usually) and a photo doesnt show how they look when they laugh, or talk, or even move in different angles.

Only one I got up and left was a date years ago, I turned up and he was easily 4st heavier and alot older than portrayed, and he outright said that I was the one who didnt look like my pictures

For the record, only person to say that negatively to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why always have a social meet first. Has to be an attraction for me to play with a guy "

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple  over a year ago

london

Walked into a meet last year stood there looked round at others there said sorry this is not for us we are going and left

Simples

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

If there is no chemistry in person and feel more a friend than anything, I wouldn’t go ahead with anything else.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope I went turned up at a meet as wasn't local needed the toilet went in there and I swear there was the biggest dump id ever seen not long i mean a fat dump I nearly puked quietly came out toilet as was down a corridor and exited the building literally as was in a block of flats.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely not. That would be simply fake and not fair on other person to pretend some attraction.

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple  over a year ago

Chepstow

We turned up to meet a couple and there were 2 extra guys there. Badger was still a (very) newbie at that point and we'd already said we didn't want anyone else there. They agreed and said they told the guys no. We walked in and walked straight out. Dont lie...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd do it. I'm a man. I'd probably even have a go if it turned out to be a man.

In fact this one happened to me once. I'm married to her now.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan  over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

It’s situations like this that have led me to prefer meeting for a social to begin with.

At the very least I insist on face pics, preferably a video chat at some point

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley


"ok if you been chatting for a while and arranged a meet,and they were not how you expected .would you think oh well im here now lets do it or would you just have a drink and leave. "

Never. We make our first meetings social only to avoid that issue.

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