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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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in the past i have chatted to some bi guys on fab who are married or have a gf.they dont know about their partner's lifestyle at all. The thing i dont get is in some cases the bi men will not meet other women on fab because they claim that if they do they are cheating on their partner at home. But they are ok if they meet another man.and feel that isnt cheating?.but if the partner did find out that her man had been meeting another man behind her back woudnt that be 100 times worse for her knowing that rather than he been meeting another female? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.
At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.
At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer."
really? I hadnt thought of it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay
You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply
Do these threads help you?
If they do, then great
If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things
The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.
At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer. really? I hadnt thought of it that way."
Obviously I would still be devastated because cheating is cheating. I would also be hurt that they didn't feel they could tell me about this side of them but I think I would be more understanding. |
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"in the past i have chatted to some bi guys on fab who are married or have a gf.they dont know about their partner's lifestyle at all. The thing i dont get is in some cases the bi men will not meet other women on fab because they claim that if they do they are cheating on their partner at home. But they are ok if they meet another man.and feel that isnt cheating?.but if the partner did find out that her man had been meeting another man behind her back woudnt that be 100 times worse for her knowing that rather than he been meeting another female?"
You direct your question at all bi guys... Why not all unfaithful people? Surely unfaithful people have more chance of answering your question than a faithful bi guy.
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"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.
At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer."
I’m confused, you have a anus , mouth , and could buy a strap on dildo......
What can’t you offer to a bi man? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I found out my partner was cheating, the gender of the other person is irrelevant. It's thw dishonesty that hurts. "
This, gender or sexuality is not a mitigating factor. If they cheated then that is cheating regardless.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay
You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply
Do these threads help you?
If they do, then great
If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things
The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.
At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer.
I’m confused, you have a anus , mouth , and could buy a strap on dildo......
What can’t you offer to a bi man?"
Very ignorant comment that! |
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Op from your previous posts you do seem to have a issue with bi men in general .Also wife’s from couple’s being jealous and insecure and not letting there husbands have fun while they are sleeping there way through fab.
Cheating is cheating regardless of who it is with I would feel exactly the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in the past i have chatted to some bi guys on fab who are married or have a gf.they dont know about their partner's lifestyle at all. The thing i dont get is in some cases the bi men will not meet other women on fab because they claim that if they do they are cheating on their partner at home. But they are ok if they meet another man.and feel that isnt cheating?.but if the partner did find out that her man had been meeting another man behind her back woudnt that be 100 times worse for her knowing that rather than he been meeting another female?"
Why would it be worse ? |
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"If my partner cheated on me I actually would cope better if it was with a male.
At least I would know it was something that they craved that I could not offer.
I’m confused, you have a anus , mouth , and could buy a strap on dildo......
What can’t you offer to a bi man?"
Because genitals are the only thing that affect someones sexuality....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay
You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply
Do these threads help you?
If they do, then great
If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things
The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open"
^^^^^^^^^^ loving this post!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants 
Has anyone found them 
Are they the yellow pants with green dots on? Ifs I have them
No, mine they have floral theme "
Oh ok, I have curtains like that |
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"sorry disturbing the thread i have lost my pants
Has anyone found them
Are they the yellow pants with green dots on? Ifs I have them
No, mine they have floral theme
Oh ok, I have curtains like that "
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"OP, I have seen you around here for many years and I am aware that, on more than one occasion, you have publically stated that your ex husband is gay
You seem to have some trouble understanding, processing and accepting this, to the degree where I believe it has damaged you deeply
Do these threads help you?
If they do, then great
If, however, you feel you can't get over this, then maybe look at some help in processing things
The amount of bi guys here (who are often encouraged to state they are married) must be like salt in an open wound if that wound is still open"
Better than anything I could have written |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op from your previous posts you do seem to have a issue with bi men in general .Also wife’s from couple’s being jealous and insecure and not letting there husbands have fun while they are sleeping there way through fab.
Cheating is cheating regardless of who it is with I would feel exactly the same way."
Agree totally |
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