With each other, always. With casual partners never.
We were 18 and sexually active in the mid 70s, the mention of bareback sex doesn't hold the power to shock us the way it does some younger people. However we are fully aware of the importance for safer sex. |
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Only between us. Everyone else=no gloveno love. Its not just hiv/std's either. Hepatitis will fuck you up quicker than them both. Not worth the risks ever. |
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I use to go BB with a fuck buddy but got regularly tested whilst doing it but those days are over as mentioned above no glove no love its just not worth it |
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"The nerd in me really hoped this was going to be a thread about Blood Bowl, everybody’s favourite table top fantasy football game."
Heard about it, never played it. Used to play other GW games and RPG games as well. |
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Some will, some won't, some might. It's a pity that bareback is not listed on the search criteria on this site as it is on fabguys. If you prefer bareback sex then be honest when contacting people and ask them if they will fuck without a condom. OK you may get less hook ups but you will enjoy the ones you do get more. |
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"I do. And more on here do than they'd admit xx"
Very true.
I've been swinging (on and off depending on relationship status over the years) for a fair while now and I've had several meets where a couple/single who'd clearly said "safe sex only" on their profile would then suggest BB on an actual meet.
Sometimes I've played "safe", other times I've enjoyed BB. Nowadays I'd tend to lean towards using condoms - especially for a first meet - but I think a lot of the time it can just come down to if something feels "right". Never say never and all that. |
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It is something I openly mention in my profile and will seek, fully aware there are risks etc.
As some have already said there are those that say the PC things but privately in messages ask about BB. Would be much better if everyone can be open about their wants without being shot down for it. |
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Just us? Always.
With others? Never.
It's just not worth the risk to us. Add to that the fact that we rarely fuck other people.
Bareback just doesn't have a place in our little world of swinging. And we won't play with those who do, at least not knowingly.
As always tho, to each their own.
Lu |
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We do enjoy swapping more than just partners lol.
We don't list safe sex in our interests list for a reason.
Unfortunately fab has made the decision for whatever reason that we can't be trusted to have a bb box to tick but the gay site does!
It never fails to amuse us the number of people who safe safe sex in their profile but by the second or third message are claiming they will happily play without!
The few we do play with who insiste on condoms are amazingly keen on oral without a second thought to the fact they are just as likely to catch something that way! peoples thinking be strange ?? |
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