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Life stuff allowing,.... Do you prefer a planned meet, where half the fun is in the build up and discussing desires,... or the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who?
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A bit of both. I love the build up end exchanging flirty txts. But did a dogging meet where Od set the whole thing up and we arrived and I didn’t have a clue who we were meeting. So it was definitely fucking a stranger  (obv Od had vetted him and checked veris etc but a stranger for me) Freya |
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"Life stuff allowing,.... Do you prefer a planned meet, where half the fun is in the build up and discussing desires,... or the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who?
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How about you guys? |
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"Life stuff allowing,.... Do you prefer a planned meet, where half the fun is in the build up and discussing desires,... or the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who?
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We've only had spontaneous meets and yet to meet anyone directly through fab |
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We like spontaneity of ending up chatting to people we find we really like in clubs. For going further than that, we like to arrange a rendezvous with people we have already established a rapport with. |
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Personally if I was to meet anyone planned would always be my preference. I just think you can get a feel for someone and what they like. Half the fun is in the build up and chase.
Also call me old fashioned if you like but I like to know that I get on with someone before I stick my pee pee in them!  |
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It's probably fair to say most people on here have tried both - spontaneous get togethers tend to be pretty short lived as far as fulfilment is concerned, and I've stopped doing it for that reason. Self care & awareness.
Connected, longer term, ongoing with someone you actually enjoy the company of, is WAY more interesting and rewarding for all parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It the excitement of spontaneous, not knowing what or who? Big turn on for me.
When it was safe I even had a couple of regulars that would call around with out messaging me before hand. |
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