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why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..
is it because
a. they have a face for radio
b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity
the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em
baffles me |
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"why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..
is it because
a. they have a face for radio
b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity
the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em
baffles me"
I have never sent a pic to anyone.
I webcam.
Yes I know it's not 100 per cent secure but it's better than leaving my pic with a total stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who knows?
I'd never meet someone without knowing what they look like.
If they don't look like their pics, I'd leave.
Honesty counts for a lot in my book.
Lu  |
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"why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..
is it because
a. they have a face for radio
b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity
the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em
baffles me
I have never sent a pic to anyone.
I webcam.
Yes I know it's not 100 per cent secure but it's better than leaving my pic with a total stranger"
But if you tick the automatic deleted box on the pics doesn't it work? |
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Had someone once of pof would not show me his face but kept asking to meet few years back I said no way he kept asking said we could meet such and such place and if I didnt like then walk away! I would never meet without first seeing a face pic x |
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Chances are they’re not really planning to meet you, just a fantasist.
We would definitely exchange face pics before agreeing to meet but they would be ‘clean’ pics, we would not send anything incriminating if they were to get into the wrong hands.
Lou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was chatting to a couple a while ago and they were pushing for a meet
I asked for a face pic (sent mine attached to the message).
I was told that they don't give out face pic's. I said no to the meeting without seeing them first. They didn't talk to me after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I would send a face picture of myself but not on this site
I would have to have to be talking through what’s app or something else I trust a little more
It’s a trust thing for some
Some definitely have a face for radio but I feel like you can tell who |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
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A photo, once sent, it is no longer your property. You can tick whichever box you want but the other person can take a photo with another phone, the pic can be leaked, anything can happen. Some people on Fab have the kind of job where they cannot risk it, especially as sexual women are not allowed to engage in casual sex without people passing judgement. It can ruin a reputation at work or a whole career, easily.
Meeting someone is not a contract to fuck! If you don't like their face in person, you don't have to have sex with them! And with today's society I wouldn't be too suprised if some photos aren't 100% accurate in all cases  |
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"why is it someone wants to meet but wont share a face pic? but willing to meet..
is it because
a. they have a face for radio
b. do they meet with a pillownslip over the head to keep animosity
the majority on here are discrete and trustworthy so surely a exchange is a better thing and to avoid dissapointment when a hook up happens and ya find ya not attracted to em
baffles me
I have never sent a pic to anyone.
I webcam.
Yes I know it's not 100 per cent secure but it's better than leaving my pic with a total stranger
But if you tick the automatic deleted box on the pics doesn't it work?"
Eh ...... stop that |
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"I wouldn’t meet or engage in conversation ( this doesn’t apply to chats springing from forum’s posts ) with someone whose face I’m not attracted to  "
I have
Would
do.........
I'm having a good old chat. I'd never meet for sex though with seeing them first. |
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"A photo, once sent, it is no longer your property. You can tick whichever box you want but the other person can take a photo with another phone, the pic can be leaked, anything can happen. Some people on Fab have the kind of job where they cannot risk it, especially as sexual women are not allowed to engage in casual sex without people passing judgement. It can ruin a reputation at work or a whole career, easily.
Meeting someone is not a contract to fuck! If you don't like their face in person, you don't have to have sex with them! And with today's society I wouldn't be too suprised if some photos aren't 100% accurate in all cases "
well said.when its put like that |
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I only tend to send face pics to those I plan to meet. Once we establish we are interested in the same things from here.
Wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't provide a face pic, even though I always do a social first.
Many men send a face pic and demand one back veey early in a convo. Thats a no from me |
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I think if your requirements don't match you're not compatible. So if you want a face picture but they aren't happy to send one you aren't fulfilling a basic requirement for each other and have luckily found out very early on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with
Agree with that, always women too!  "
Whoever said that fucking bravo  I wish there was a clap emoji you king |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the faceless, photo less profiles who insist on a face pic I have trouble with
Agree with that, always women too!
Or are they 
Hahaha!!!"
I don't have this issue, I have a filter active so only people with public pictures can message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there is no ''safe way to send a pic or cam both can be copied cams are so easy to record yet people think they are safe ... if you want to meet people then you have to send a face pic i only send one when im totally sure i want to ..my rule is if you message me first you send the pic first if i message you then ill send first...
i would never meet anyone blind ... best way to send a face pic is to send just a face pic no naked body attached that way its just a face pic and what can they do with that ... nothing its just a boring face pic |
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"there is no ''safe way to send a pic or cam both can be copied cams are so easy to record yet people think they are safe ... if you want to meet people then you have to send a face pic i only send one when im totally sure i want to ..my rule is if you message me first you send the pic first if i message you then ill send first...
i would never meet anyone blind ... best way to send a face pic is to send just a face pic no naked body attached that way its just a face pic and what can they do with that ... nothing its just a boring face pic"
Exactly and I bet most of us have a FB profile with our face on. So it's online to be copied anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only tend to send face pics to those I plan to meet. Once we establish we are interested in the same things from here.
Wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't provide a face pic, even though I always do a social first.
Many men send a face pic and demand one back veey early in a convo. Thats a no from me"
I’m exactly the same as this xx |
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"there is no ''safe way to send a pic or cam both can be copied cams are so easy to record yet people think they are safe ... if you want to meet people then you have to send a face pic i only send one when im totally sure i want to ..my rule is if you message me first you send the pic first if i message you then ill send first...
i would never meet anyone blind ... best way to send a face pic is to send just a face pic no naked body attached that way its just a face pic and what can they do with that ... nothing its just a boring face pic"
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
Anybody can provide a face pic. Might not be the face pic of the person your meeting though.
I would probably want a 'proof pic' by return. If I was to get to the point that it looked like we were likely to meet. |
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