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Atrophy, Hypocrisy or Justifiable?

By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Does popularity warrant an apparent atrophy towards hate speech within an increasing minority of bio postings by MTF Trans?

I really love transwomen. We all know that they get a lot of attention and with such persistence in numbers, poor behaviour from fans becomes an increasingly more uncomfortable reality, albeit an online reality. I'd like to see a less combative response, maybe as a community.

Unfortunately, women must tolerate us despite us being almost always impossibly intolerable. All women must learn the lecherous ways of man, however I see stern bios which do not aim to kill. Almost all of the simply unacceptable rudeness shown in bios, read by all, not just those of us with fury palms and poor eyesight, rather all and sundry; are drafted my MTF Transwomen.

Is such hate speech acceptable or is it unacceptable for myself to even pose the question?

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Almost all of the simply unacceptable rudeness shown in bios ... are drafted by MTF Transwomen.

What proof have you to make this allegation ?

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"Almost all of the simply unacceptable rudeness shown in bios ... are drafted by MTF Transwomen.

What proof have you to make this allegation ?"

What evidence is required? This is no court of law.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I agree. But is it acceptable to make allegations with no basis in fact ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the ranty profiles I've seen have belonged to women

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

It is not only not an allegation, at least no more than your passively aleging |I'm in command of misbegotten data or even non existent data.

Truth is, it doesn't matter. So why ask? Why not answer of address the questions raised, not infractions incurred during the making of this piece lol.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've read that through a couple of times now and still not sure I understand what you're saying OP but it seems to me you're saying that as a result of their popularity MTF profiles tend to be of the hateful variety - is that correct?

If so, I honestly can't say I've seen it but guess it depends how you define "unacceptable rudeness"?

If you're talking about ranty profiles full of do this, do that etc - I firstly wouldn't say that is the confine of any particular gender, and certainly wouldn't say it was unacceptably rude - ranty yes, but rude no. I'd also suggest that perhaps those profiles that are a bit ranty have become so over time as a result of the type of messages they have received - so it's kind of a vicious circle with neither being necessary but one begetting the other

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

To answer your question, I think any sort of hate speech is unacceptable.

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

May I just say, that having read your profile intro, you are a perfect example of what I was alluding to. No offensive at all, but without mincing words.

I am happy to quantitate my perception for you. I am a logical and reasoned person, not prone for making or endorsing assertions I have no reason to believe true.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"May I just say, that having read your profile intro, you are a perfect example of what I was alluding to. No offensive at all, but without mincing words.

I'm not a MTF Transwoman. I thought that is what your post was about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've read that through a couple of times now and still not sure I understand what you're saying OP but it seems to me you're saying that as a result of their popularity MTF profiles tend to be of the hateful variety - is that correct?"

You are doing better than me, i cannot make sense of it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Someone needs to leave the lawyer at the front door

what an awful lots of words for not much point

Basically, does being popular mean you can be a bitch? Nope

Then there's an odd segway into women needing to learn how to deal with men being dicks rather than men learning how to do better.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Someone needs to leave the lawyer at the front door

what an awful lots of words for not much point

Basically, does being popular mean you can be a bitch? Nope

Then there's an odd segway into women needing to learn how to deal with men being dicks rather than men learning how to do better.

Oh actually I think he was implying that cis women also have to deal with idiot men but their bios are not as harshly written.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"May I just say, that having read your profile intro, you are a perfect example of what I was alluding to. No offensive at all, but without mincing words.

I'm not a MTF Transwoman. I thought that is what your post was about. "

I genuinely can’t understand what it is about !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"May I just say, that having read your profile intro, you are a perfect example of what I was alluding to. No offensive at all, but without mincing words.

I'm not a MTF Transwoman. I thought that is what your post was about. "

He is saying that your profile asserts what you are or are not in to without being offensive whereby he believes a t girls profile would be more abrupt and rude (at least I think that's what he means

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well what a load of bollocks

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

If so, I honestly can't say I've seen it but guess it depends how you define "unacceptable rudeness"?

Very well said an d I totally agree. You thought were correct as to my references. As I touched on, women get badgered and it would test a very patient monks patients. But hey, thats life. You take the good with the bad. When I was youmg I would have travelled a thousand miles for sex and was frustrated beyond comprehension, trhat girls could quite literally fuck whenever they wanted, for a long time I could not reconcile why they would chose not what I yearn the most. Men a physically hormonal to a womens emotionally hormonal. I think thats a safe enough blanket for that fire. Back to point, the unwanted attention is a part of the fabric of the game we each and all have contracted to play, under the rules in play.

I have a thing frr MTF Trans. Fucking adore them, so, I've read many profiles. There is not a doubt that the nasty stuff comes from the side of the room with cocks. Some are brutal. And when you consider the context, isn't the aim to promote public acceptance and curry favour? Why sound like a complete cunt straight off the bat. I know its a turn off to me.

Once catches more flies with honey, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People can have their profiles as they wish.

If some don't like how it is, then just move on

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Why do you forgive men's appalling attitudes towards sex and women so easily but not a trans person's right to defend themselves on their profile. Quite telling I think.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

" (at least I think that's what he means

) "

Thanks for the explanation Evie

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"May I just say, that having read your profile intro, you are a perfect example of what I was alluding to. No offensive at all, but without mincing words.

I'm not a MTF Transwoman. I thought that is what your post was about. "

Believe me, I know you are not and I would never be so rude to state a fact not on the page. I meant no offence and sorry for my miscommunication. I had no reason whatsoever to believe you a MTF Trans. My point was, women quite often set out the stall, they just don't go smashing your face into it. Clear concise and not inflammatory yet passing a clear message. My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I have a thing for MTF Trans. Fucking adore them, so, I've read many profiles. There is not a doubt that the nasty stuff comes from the side of the room with cocks. "

Are you saying trans women have cocks ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery."

Because we quite often receive abuse online.

So stating "cunts can fuck off" on our profile is ok

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've read it 3 times and still can't make sense of what the question is

I must be thick

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If so, I honestly can't say I've seen it but guess it depends how you define "unacceptable rudeness"?

Once catches more flies with honey, so to speak."

You agree with me and yet my post was dispelling most of what I thought you had said?

Ultimately if you don't like a profile and the way it is written move onto one that does appeal - people are entitled to run their profiles how they like and if it works for them then good luck to them.

It never ceases to amaze me that people get so worked up about profiles that don't appeal to them rather than focussing on the ones that do.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

" My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery.

Because we quite often receive abuse online.

So stating "cunts can fuck off" on our profile is ok

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does popularity warrant an apparent atrophy towards hate speech within an increasing minority of bio postings by MTF Trans?

Is such hate speech acceptable or is it unacceptable for myself to even pose the question?"

Are you d*unk?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I have a thing for MTF Trans. Fucking adore them, so, I've read many profiles. There is not a doubt that the nasty stuff comes from the side of the room with cocks.

Are you saying trans women have cocks ?"

Again.... I think.... He is saying that the 'male' side of the brain writes the aggressive profiles because cis women's profiles are not as direct at telling people to fuck off.

This thread is Amazing.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I have a thing for MTF Trans. Fucking adore them, so, I've read many profiles. There is not a doubt that the nasty stuff comes from the side of the room with cocks.

Are you saying trans women have cocks ?

Again.... I think.... He is saying that the 'male' side of the brain writes the aggressive profiles because cis women's profiles are not as direct at telling people to fuck off.

This thread is Amazing."

I'm still lost!

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"Why do you forgive men's appalling attitudes towards sex and women so easily but not a trans person's right to defend themselves on their profile. Quite telling I think. "

Hey,

Hiya and thank you for that. I did not write it to confuse, I placed it down in an attempt to narrow all the noise that can come from the peripheries of such discussions.

You completely touched on every discussion point I made.

It is a convo I have regularly with some of my really bitch friends. My angle is of course goading them, but occasionally a wind up makes sense.

Yes, being popular gives no bitch or otherwise negative entitlements to the popular person. As you noted I was placing both feminine parties in the same boats in terms of men attention, both with different management strategies.

Truth of this world is that a minority can get away with a little more piss taking than one not in their minority, situational dependence notwithstanding. I would like to know what people think in relation to the minority perspective and why.

I was being frank, men are useless at dealing with women, at least strategically. Mens actions piss me off all the time, i tried to make a small joke at our expense but I certainly was not adding weight to any matter outside of it as was alluded to. I am embarrassed by even I act, let alone men at large. And a woman's right to build a defensive system wasn't mentioned. Simply a cause and effect situation, whereby before I had a chance to say hi, I would believe that this woman hated me without knowing i was even alive.

As my grandfather always told me, luckily manners are free, so you need not overspend simply to be a gentleman. Manners maketh the man indeed.

Oh I did notice that lawyer jabbing to the ribs, I'm a really shitty lawyer so i'm used to blows to the ribcage.

And any reader, please show some class when leaving a chat, not all the shit on the heels of your boots. Manners are free

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

" My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery.

Because we quite often receive abuse online.

So stating "cunts can fuck off" on our profile is ok

Yeah but thats funny. It's different.

We all come away from the online experience with a bit more shit than when we arrived, nature of the beast. Still, if the experience is so repugnant to someone, my advice with mental health in mind, is stop playing that stupid game which makes you feel shit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery.

Because we quite often receive abuse online.

So stating "cunts can fuck off" on our profile is ok

Yeah but thats funny. It's different.

So if we receive online abuse the answer is to not go online?

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

If so, I honestly can't say I've seen it but guess it depends how you define "unacceptable rudeness"?

Once catches more flies with honey, so to speak.

You agree with me and yet my post was dispelling most of what I thought you had said?

It never ceases to amaze me that people get so worked up about profiles that don't appeal to them rather than focussing on the ones that do.

Dude, I am totally not worked up. But the fact we are in agreement despite you apparent belief to the contrary, is a good thing. But I have a feeling that you primary objective was not a kiss on the cheek from me at the end of a lovely evening.

And hate speech is a thing. It damages lives and needs addressing wherever it appears. It is not a case of simply clicking next just like a problem isnt averted by sticking your head in the sand.

If you don't wish to think, jump into a forum about breast or cock size.

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"Does popularity warrant an apparent atrophy towards hate speech within an increasing minority of bio postings by MTF Trans?

Is such hate speech acceptable or is it unacceptable for myself to even pose the question?

Are you d*unk?"

Says the Scott hehe xxx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

Correct.

You've just won today's top prize of a Tupperware set.

Enjoy

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

" My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery.

Because we quite often receive abuse online.

So stating "cunts can fuck off" on our profile is ok

Yeah but thats funny. It's different.

So if we receive online abuse the answer is to not go online?

Please don't put words in my mouth. But perhaps I do not express myself clearly. Please allow me to use a sporting analogy.

if you join 2 teams. 1 team you have a good experience and those around you do so as well. Team 2 is different. whether it be the sport, the team mates or any other factor, you are not treated as well as should be expected, so a natural way of dealing with it could be through counter aggression or total ambivalence disguised as indifference. Either way it's a negative experience for you.

My advice is play in team 1. That is what I meant by stopping the game you do not enjoy.

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I have a thing for MTF Trans. Fucking adore them, so, I've read many profiles. There is not a doubt that the nasty stuff comes from the side of the room with cocks.

Are you saying trans women have cocks ?

Again.... I think.... He is saying that the 'male' side of the brain writes the aggressive profiles because cis women's profiles are not as direct at telling people to fuck off.

This thread is Amazing."

I like you. Your brain is analytical and sassy. Not much sneaks passed you I wager.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You agree with me and yet my post was dispelling most of what I thought you had said?

It never ceases to amaze me that people get so worked up about profiles that don't appeal to them rather than focussing on the ones that do.

And hate speech is a thing. It damages lives and needs addressing wherever it appears. It is not a case of simply clicking next just like a problem isnt averted by sticking your head in the sand.

If you don't wish to think, jump into a forum about breast or cock size."

Hate speech is of course a thing (and where it truly exists is an unwelcome thing) but I have yet to see one shred of evidence to back up your assertions which appear to be nothing more than wild generalisations based on your belief that MTF profiles are a little more ranty than others - and even then I'd disagree that they are "hate speech" rather than ranty profiles born out of necessity.

And if it is simply "ranty profiles" then clicking next is absolutely the thing to do.

Perhaps if you have some examples in plain English without actually naming profiles or direct copy/pasting it would help us understand your point.

As for objectives I have none other than trying to understand your OP and debating the merits of it, which, based on what you've said so far are minimal in my honest opinion.

All I'm getting so far is a torrent of words randomly organised that seem to be about how other users choose to run their profiles.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

" My assertion is that a MTF is more likely to adopt a militant approach compared to your no nonsense & no offense delivery.

Because we quite often receive abuse online.

So stating "cunts can fuck off" on our profile is ok

Bang bang

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does popularity warrant an apparent atrophy towards hate speech within an increasing minority of bio postings by MTF Trans?

Is such hate speech acceptable or is it unacceptable for myself to even pose the question?

Are you d*unk?

Says the Scott hehe xxx"

It's "Scot."

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

Correct.

You've just won today's top prize of a Tupperware set.

Enjoy

I'll take that tupperware set back thank you, as you haven't quite got it. Everyone rants. I specifically refer to hostile, rude, nasty, not meant as a joke, hate speech type of prefilled bio on your profile page.

It is quite a powerful thing to insult every single person you engage with before even knowing their existence.

I have noticed MTF Trans are more likely to leave these messages, even if when written they were laughing. Its the mind of the perceiver that gets the injury.

Don't tar all with the same brush, as I would like to clarify I am not tarring all MTF. I said a minority of MTF people, in my experience, tend to be more viscous than any other angry minority.

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"Does popularity warrant an apparent atrophy towards hate speech within an increasing minority of bio postings by MTF Trans?

Is such hate speech acceptable or is it unacceptable for myself to even pose the question?

Are you d*unk?

Says the Scott hehe xxx

It's "Scot.""

You're just making this too easy man lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

What an utter load of entitled crap.

OP, you yalk a hell of a lot of drivel for someone who simply cannot comprehend the manner in which others are treated by the very group that you have aligned yourself with.

Were you to ever be treated in the way that yrans people are then I suspect that you would be one of those producing the most 'ranty' of all of the profiles one would be likely to come across.

Your wish that trans people be more accepting of the way the are spoken to and about by men in almost all cases is your take on trying to push the blame onto a very small minority of people who have learned to react to their treatment from others in such a way as to be seen by you as defensive or entitled be abuse of their popularity. What you simply fail to grasp is the way they are treated, the massive numbers of 'admirers' who contact them in a vile and abusive way and how that constant barrage effects their mental state when many are already in a precarious position as it is.

What you need to do is not fix the effect for you own needs but look at the cause as there is always a cause to every single effect. You will find that cause is the treatment they receive in the first place.

You OP, I would avoid at all costs.

1 because you are male, yes many trans people do not like men as a sexual preference.

2 you are incredibly entitled and I suspect moreso than many of the trans people you are railing at with this thread, your rant would have me running and warning 'my kind' to avoid you at all costs.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What an utter load of entitled crap.

OP, you yalk a hell of a lot of drivel for someone who simply cannot comprehend the manner in which others are treated by the very group that you have aligned yourself with.

Were you to ever be treated in the way that yrans people are then I suspect that you would be one of those producing the most 'ranty' of all of the profiles one would be likely to come across.

You OP, I would avoid at all costs.

1 because you are male, yes many trans people do not like men as a sexual preference.

2 you are incredibly entitled and I suspect moreso than many of the trans people you are railing at with this thread, your rant would have me running and warning 'my kind' to avoid you at all costs.

Double bang bang

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What an utter load of entitled crap.

OP, you yalk a hell of a lot of drivel for someone who simply cannot comprehend the manner in which others are treated by the very group that you have aligned yourself with.

Were you to ever be treated in the way that yrans people are then I suspect that you would be one of those producing the most 'ranty' of all of the profiles one would be likely to come across.

You OP, I would avoid at all costs.

1 because you are male, yes many trans people do not like men as a sexual preference.

2 you are incredibly entitled and I suspect moreso than many of the trans people you are railing at with this thread, your rant would have me running and warning 'my kind' to avoid you at all costs.

Good morning

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"What an utter load of entitled crap.

OP, you yalk a hell of a lot of drivel for someone who simply cannot comprehend the manner in which others are treated by the very group that you have aligned yourself with.

Were you to ever be treated in the way that yrans people are then I suspect that you would be one of those producing the most 'ranty' of all of the profiles one would be likely to come across.

You OP, I would avoid at all costs.

1 because you are male, yes many trans people do not like men as a sexual preference.

2 you are incredibly entitled and I suspect moreso than many of the trans people you are railing at with this thread, your rant would have me running and warning 'my kind' to avoid you at all costs.

Good morning

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

Correct.

You've just won today's top prize of a Tupperware set.

Enjoy

Result, I hope it’s from John Lewis

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I was quite interested until this part....

QUOTE Men a physically hormonal to a womens emotionally hormonal. I think thats a safe enough blanket for that fire.

Then interest waned. I like fact Gradgrind...... fact.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

Correct.

You've just won today's top prize of a Tupperware set.

Enjoy

Result, I hope it’s from John Lewis

Sorry it's from Fenwick's.

I picked it up after my weekly flashing of my ass in the window

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By *adMerWoman over a year ago

Sandwich

OP are you dyslexic?

Either way I suggest that you stop using words in the wrong context and that are spelled incorrectly.

In answer to your original question I think all people are entitled to create and manage their profiles in the manner they see fit. If they want to come across as a bitch (and you say bitch like it’s a BAD thing) then that’s nobodies business but their own.

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

Do you really mean atrophy?

As in, it reached its full size and then shrunk?

Either way I don’t support hate speech.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thought we’d stumbled across the cryptic crossword page...ffs just be nice to each other

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

Correct.

You've just won today's top prize of a Tupperware set.

Enjoy

My Profile text isn’t full hostility, rudeness, nastiness or hate speech, neither has Cindi ...so who the hell are going on about ???

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By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

I'm super confused. I read the OP and figured he was mad about something.. but he was talking vaguely..is this in general? or has there been something I'm not aware of?

Can somebody give me a TL;DR we don't see tv/ts profiles as that's just not how we get down (no judgement, you do you, be happy 3)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You ever heard of the plain English campaign Op ?

I’m struggling to understand what you’re going on about. Is it MTF are more ranty in their profiles than other people on the site ?

Correct.

You've just won today's top prize of a Tupperware set.

Enjoy

My Profile text isn’t full hostility, rudeness, nastiness or hate speech, neither has Cindi ...so who the hell are going on about ???"

I'm so tempted to change mine now.

I'll just simply have:

"Fuck off"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh fkin 'ell

Somebody else that got a new dictionary for Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can anyone translate the OP?

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"You agree with me and yet my post was dispelling most of what I thought you had said?

It never ceases to amaze me that people get so worked up about profiles that don't appeal to them rather than focussing on the ones that do.

And hate speech is a thing. It damages lives and needs addressing wherever it appears. It is not a case of simply clicking next just like a problem isnt averted by sticking your head in the sand.

If you don't wish to think, jump into a forum about breast or cock size.

And if it is simply "ranty profiles" then clicking next is absolutely the thing to do.

Perhaps if you have some examples in plain English without actually naming profiles or direct copy/pasting it would help us understand your point.

As for objectives I have none other than trying to understand your OP and debating the merits of it, which, based on what you've said so far are minimal in my honest opinion.

All I'm getting so far is a torrent of words randomly organised that seem to be about how other users choose to run their profiles."

You challenging me with thought and consideration. Others may make flippant comments then go watch porn. It is a pleasure speaking with you.

Though, may I ask that you read what I have written, and that includes any rebuttal. please filter out what others say, and hear my opinion. I think you will find I have never said stated anything about propensity to rant or what should or should not be allowed on a bio. If i upload a cock dripping with hot dark chocolate pic as my main profile pic, that pic is not getting passed the approval stage.

Simply put, and I have missed a night of sleep and I am doing a few things at once, but I assure you these are not just letters crammed together to form a word count. You may not be reading what I'm writing, but rather reading what you think i am writing.

I'm a very left socialist ideologically and a greedy materialistic pig practically. My hypocrisy truly knows no bounds, however I rarely wear both hats. As a pseudo Marxist I am all for self expression and vehemently oppose censorship. So I believe I or any other can do what they want, whenever want want, provided one accepts its an informed decision and the consequences arising, we in my perfect world can do whatever the fuck we want and if it is a bad thing, then you take medicine coming in the form of punishment later.

Equality is a real bugbear for me. which is why I chose to discuss the privillage of the minority. That is what I am exploring.

I'm not a part of any notable minority. I'm a middle aged, white, middle class male. Enjoying all the bells and whistles which that comes with. What I saw has a child was not my good fortune, rather the gag stuck in my mouth should I ever want to call bullshit on someone whom I saw as a rascal, but a rascal protected by minority privilege. Really pissed me off with my friends as I knew they had been up to exactly the same shenanigans that i had, yet slipped through unscathed.

Very difficult subject to broach withpouy being branded a biggot from the get go.

Please excuse me, but I have a presentation I'm delivering in 61 min and im eating cereal in my pants.

I will reply later should you wish to chat,

peace

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Others may make flippant comments then go watch porn. "

I don't watch it, I make it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Where's the Shag, Punch, Marry thread please ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I'm super confused. I read the OP and figured he was mad about something.. but he was talking vaguely..is this in general? or has there been something I'm not aware of?

Can somebody give me a TL;DR we don't see tv/ts profiles as that's just not how we get down (no judgement, you do you, be happy 3)

My earlier pats seem to have summed it up well. As did cindi's

(and diamondsmiles

)

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"OP are you dyslexic?

Either way I suggest that you stop using words in the wrong context and that are spelled incorrectly.

OK, let us take a walk down the low road then. Yes I am a sufferer of the ironically challenging word to spell.

I also have a masters in Law, Hons in business, econs and commerce and two post graduate diplomas. My parents and brother died early in my life and excess is no stranger to me.

I also suffer a bipolar disorder and have an issue with life and death but enjoy most of life thanks to ADHD. ADHD is the glue that binds me into a human.

Any other medical questions?

i am writing in this forum, preparing my powerpoint presentation due at 12;30 and playing on my PS5 (Godfall in case you wondered) all at the same time as well as intermittent sex. I have also not slept.

I never used the word bitch other than a empowerment tools. Maybe you should read what I've written before insulting me.

Next concern with you submission. You talk rubbish. You know as well as the next person that you cannot write anything you want and expect the censor's arms to ignore you. Stupid comment.

So my dear intelectual mentor, tutor and guide, I humbly beg your forgiveness for any grammatical mistakes i did not catch in one of my many drafts.

Any lack of attention to insignificant details is due to its insignificance.

If you would like to challenge me in our grasp the subtleties and nuances of our Queen's English, consider looking like a tit before you embark on you forlorn follie. And it will be dealt to you by someone who cant read, but has in its stead memorised how they look and interact.

If i have used a word out of context, please bring it to my attention, that way this time I'm wasting with you right now would not be totally self indulgent.

Now fuck off.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"OP are you dyslexic?

Either way I suggest that you stop using words in the wrong context and that are spelled incorrectly.

OK, let us take a walk down the low road then. Yes I am a sufferer of the ironically challenging word to spell.

I also have a masters in Law, Hons in business, econs and commerce and two post graduate diplomas. My parents and brother died early in my life and excess is no stranger to me.

I also suffer a bipolar disorder and have an issue with life and death but enjoy most of life thanks to ADHD. ADHD is the glue that binds me into a human.

Any other medical questions?

I never used the word bitch other than a empowerment tools. Maybe you should read what I've written before insulting me.

Next concern with you submission. You talk rubbish. You know as well as the next person that you cannot write anything you want and expect the censor's arms to ignore you. Stupid comment.

So my dear intelectual mentor, tutor and guide, I humbly beg your forgiveness for any grammatical mistakes i did not catch in one of my many drafts.

Any lack of attention to insignificant details is due to its insignificance.

If i have used a word out of context, please bring it to my attention, that way this time I'm wasting with you right now would not be totally self indulgent.

Now fuck off."

Are you the October Revolution?

Because I'm seeing a lot of red flags.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You challenging me with thought and consideration. Others may make flippant comments then go watch porn. It is a pleasure speaking with you.

.. .I will reply later should you wish to chat, peace"

I think the problem you have here, and trust me I've re-read your posts several times, is that, respectfully, they *do* read as an incoherent mess of words that make not a great deal of sense but appear to boil down to a rant about MTF profiles having a propensity towards "hate speech" - and whilst I am perfectly capable of forming my own opinions without the need of influence from others, it seems I am not alone in that opinion.

You've been asked several times to explain yourself and provide examples of what you mean - yet have come back with more jumbles of words - so is it any wonder that people are both confused and taking the stance that they are? Especially when you write them off in the way you have?

Perhaps when you come back to this explain exactly what you mean in your OP in very simple terms and provide examples to back up your thinking and perception and a more reasoned debate could be had but as things stand your assertions that some "MTF profiles are full of hate speech because the profile owner has (or had) a cock" (which seems to be the thrust of your point) are coming across as sweeping generalisations and nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please let's not insult.

It's not cool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does popularity warrant an apparent atrophy towards hate speech within an increasing minority of bio postings by MTF Trans?

Is such hate speech acceptable or is it unacceptable for myself to even pose the question?"

What hate speech are they using? You just told someone in this thread to fuck off.

People, women, trans, etc can write whatever they want on their profiles. Admin can delete the text if it is against site rules.

Like attracts like. Ranty angry people attract ranty angry people.

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By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

2 things.

1, ADHD doesn't make you act like this.. I have ADHD. it means I can lick for hours as I get distracted by my own thoughts.. it doesn't make me go on a one man rant about the state of words on profiles or you hate trans people or something about Trump... I don't know.

Either way, ADHD is not the cause, the fact you're gibbering like the hobos you see in movies on the steps of a courthouse is.

and the second thing is..

'I see a lot of red flags, is this the october revolution' was fucking funny. legit spilled my cuppa on my desk.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

i am writing in this forum, preparing my powerpoint presentation due at 12;30 and playing on my PS5 (Godfall in case you wondered) all at the same time as well as intermittent sex. "

Impressive multi tasking. What is the subject of your PowerPoint presentation ?

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"What an utter load of entitled crap.

OP, you yalk a hell of a lot of drivel for someone who simply cannot comprehend the manner in which others are treated by the very group that you have aligned yourself with.

Were you to ever be treated in the way that yrans people are then I suspect that you would be one of those producing the most 'ranty' of all of the profiles one would be likely to come across.

You OP, I would avoid at all costs.

1 because you are male, yes many trans people do not like men as a sexual preference.

2 you are incredibly entitled and I suspect moreso than many of the trans people you are railing at with this thread, your rant would have me running and warning 'my kind' to avoid you at all costs.

Well thank fuck that:

1. "Your Kind" aren't as thick as unrefined sewage, as you are.

2. "Your Kind" are as unlikely to listen to you as any other might.

3. That you made talking to another person with such disdain and total lack of respect easy. Though I will probably apologise.

4. you summised me with such see,less efficacy one might think you are experienced and being a judgemental bitch. Assessing a character you know nothing of, you do not even know what this is all about. You swept up other peoples comments into a bin and patched them so very seamlessly together. You have no idea who, what or how I am or have done. You do not see the face of the beauty standing over me trying to get me off to work, as she reads your biography of myself. She certainly doesn't:

"Think you to be anything like me, let alone my friends, colleagues and family. We may all be TS, but you make me sick you presumptuous plump pudding, how dare you assign me a kind least of all yours."

Her words, but I did the spacing am da pretty punctuation thingies.

Ignorance is far from dead.

I am not apologising to anyone other than my boss for cancelling the meeting. Oh yeah, I'm the boss...bitch!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God is this still going on...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"God is this still going on..."

I think it's time it stopped

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Such a shame this thread has gone this way.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

I feel like I'm reading a dictionary - got a headache now.

Just avoid profiles you don't fancy OP.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Such a shame this thread has gone this way. "

I thought it started off this way !

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By *ussieDave OP Man over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

"2 things.

Either way, ADHD is not the cause, the fact you're gibbering like the hobos you see in movies on the steps of a courthouse is.

and the second thing is..

'I see a lot of red flags, is this the october revolution' was fucking funny. legit spilled my cuppa on my desk. "

Mate, as I said, ADHD is what holds me together in an inexplicable way. You don't seem to have grasped any of my politics or very often repeated fundamental tenets. My GF is TS and trump can snort coved-19 outta my asshole.

Though I am interested in this red flag thing. I'm afraid that one shot above my head, so if you can let a bit of what makes you smile rather than scratch rub off on me, I would honestly appreciate hearing it and the time taken to tell me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Trump can snort Covid19 outta my asshole"

How does this relate to your post ?

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"God is this still going on..."

This will be one of the famous threads, nevet to be forgotten, up there with the 'sh*t on a white sofa', 'shagging in a bush behind Asda' and 'cock snot up a fart pipe' threads.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"What an utter load of entitled crap.

OP, you yalk a hell of a lot of drivel for someone who simply cannot comprehend the manner in which others are treated by the very group that you have aligned yourself with.

Were you to ever be treated in the way that yrans people are then I suspect that you would be one of those producing the most 'ranty' of all of the profiles one would be likely to come across.

You OP, I would avoid at all costs.

1 because you are male, yes many trans people do not like men as a sexual preference.

2 you are incredibly entitled and I suspect moreso than many of the trans people you are railing at with this thread, your rant would have me running and warning 'my kind' to avoid you at all costs.

Well thank fuck that:

1. "Your Kind" aren't as thick as unrefined sewage, as you are.

2. "Your Kind" are as unlikely to listen to you as any other might.

3. That you made talking to another person with such disdain and total lack of respect easy. Though I will probably apologise.

Her words, but I did the spacing am da pretty punctuation thingies.

Ignorance is far from dead.

I am not apologising to anyone other than my boss for cancelling the meeting. Oh yeah, I'm the boss...bitch!"

OP, this may be a day where you look back at the things you have written and hope that you never end up in a place as dark and dismal again.

I really don't think that this is currently the place for you to be venting the things you're currently feeling as they're possibly not spoken from a sound mind.

I won't goad you into digging yourself into an even deeper hole than you already have as it won't help you or those around you, I do think you may need to take a step back from your current platform and maybe get some rest and possibly some help.

I wish you luck OP.

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