Just wondering what’s best to buy my wife as she seems to have lost all interest in sex and has been for several years, or am I going about it the wrong way, I’ve tried talking to her about it till I’m blue in the face and I’m losing all hope |
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Noooo please don’t do this. There could be reasons she has gone off sex putting pressure on her with a sex you won’t help your case.
My hormones are all over the place at the moment and sometimes I don’t want touching by another but do occasionally play on my own.
But try and start by improving intimacy before pushing for sex |
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"Is your wife aware of you being on here and meeting women for sex? Maybe her sex drive has gone due to her suspecting that you are playing away. You may not be as discreet as you think.
Ed"
This |
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If she's lost interest in sex, I doubt she has much interest in masturbation either.
If she feels like you're putting pressure on her, it's only going to make things worse.
Talk to her, spend time with her without trying to get into her knickers, give her cuddles without expectations.
If you don't know the issue, you can't try and fix it and the only person who can communicate that is her - but remember it could simply be that she just isn't interested. |
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"If she's lost interest in sex, I doubt she has much interest in masturbation either.
If she feels like you're putting pressure on her, it's only going to make things worse.
Talk to her, spend time with her without trying to get into her knickers, give her cuddles without expectations.
If you don't know the issue, you can't try and fix it and the only person who can communicate that is her - but remember it could simply be that she just isn't interested."
I’ve tried all that talking to her giving her space I haven’t even raised the problem for 15 months now but still tell her I love her and kiss her good night |
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"Is your wife aware of you being on here and meeting women for sex? Maybe her sex drive has gone due to her suspecting that you are playing away. You may not be as discreet as you think.
Ed"
I’ve only meet one person on here and that was for coffee nothing happened |
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"Is your wife aware of you being on here and meeting women for sex? Maybe her sex drive has gone due to her suspecting that you are playing away. You may not be as discreet as you think.
Ed
I’ve only meet one person on here and that was for coffee nothing happened "
The fact you’re on here and hoping to meet anyone at all might be enough to put her off having sex with you, she’s probably not as clueless as you think she is. Maybe she just can’t be arsed with the drama that would come from confronting you. Or she’s waiting for hard evidence first. Or she’s beat you and your own game and is getting her pleasure elsewhere.
Lou x |
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