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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i have a fantasy about being in a MMf situation.
In this fantasy as well as being intimate with the woman i imagine doing things orally with the guy..receiving and giving.
Outside of the situation it does nothing for me. Cant imagine being one on one with a man without a woman to balance it.
I dont think id enjoy kissing a man and definitely wouldn't be interested in anal.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Its a new year and i feel i want to live out the fantasys i have and do what i want guilt free.
I come from a VERY conservative family. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this is totally normal op. I know a few men who think this way. "
Really?!
That makes me feel better.
Ive had some pretty vile messages from people about it.
I can only choose from Straight/Bi curious or bi in my profile.
And its hard to know what to say to a couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this is totally normal op. I know a few men who think this way.
Really?!
That makes me feel better.
Ive had some pretty vile messages from people about it.
I can only choose from Straight/Bi curious or bi in my profile.
And its hard to know what to say to a couple.
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I’m sorry you’ve had vile messages  try and ignore them. I’d go for bicurious if I were you. As for what to say to couples, it’s important to discuss boundaries etc beforehand. Be honest about what you want, maybe a bi male will be happy to let you take the lead with that without any pressure from him. Hope you find what you’re looking for x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fair play to ya
Plenty of bi playful guys on here
That's some cock on you btw
I thought it was your leg at first  "
Bi Playful? I like the sound of that. I dont want to sort of label myself but sometimes it sort of helps if that makes sense?
And thanks pmsl.
It comes in handy.
Sometimes it comes in pussy.
Pardon the pun.
(Terrible joke)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fair play to ya
Plenty of bi playful guys on here
That's some cock on you btw
I thought it was your leg at first
Bi Playful? I like the sound of that. I dont want to sort of label myself but sometimes it sort of helps if that makes sense?
And thanks pmsl.
It comes in handy.
Sometimes it comes in pussy.
Pardon the pun.
(Terrible joke)
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I noticed that too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s each to their own hun so don’t feel judged x
I personally love bi guys. Watching them with my bf is amazing - I imagine the same as most guys fantasy of watching 2 girls x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of people are curious in finding different ways of attaining pleasure, just be honest with yourself and the people you are playing with and go for it  "
Thanks.
I find it weird myself.
Without a woman there it just does nothing for me.
But if she was to watch..maybe hold my hand while it happened id quite it.
I had thought it may be because the thought of being alone with a man is just too much for me to deal with.
I have no experience with that and wouldn't understand the dynamics |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that you have had some vile messages OP.
I am sure that you will find a really nice couple or singles to play with. There’s plenty of non-pushy bi males out there. Sadly as us women know only too well there are also plenty of abusive and plain ignorant ones too.
Once clubs are open again, I would suggest that a bi night might be a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s very common op.
Lots of guys find themselves orally interested when they’re turned on with the ‘safety’ of a lady present.
I’ve heard loads of guys say they couldn’t kiss a man and definitely wouldn’t want anal sex either way.
They don’t find men attractive but are interested to touch a cock.
It is bisexuality, well curiosity at least, but sexuality is on a sliding scale. Just because you are interested in one aspect of it doesn’t mean you have to be up for all acts. |
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"Lots of people are curious in finding different ways of attaining pleasure, just be honest with yourself and the people you are playing with and go for it
Thanks.
I find it weird myself.
Without a woman there it just does nothing for me.
But if she was to watch..maybe hold my hand while it happened id quite it.
I had thought it may be because the thought of being alone with a man is just too much for me to deal with.
I have no experience with that and wouldn't understand the dynamics "
Its the beginning of a journey for you, no need to rush and nothing is set in stone in regards to your sexuality, be who you want to be and enjoy yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of people are curious in finding different ways of attaining pleasure, just be honest with yourself and the people you are playing with and go for it
Thanks.
I find it weird myself.
Without a woman there it just does nothing for me.
But if she was to watch..maybe hold my hand while it happened id quite it.
I had thought it may be because the thought of being alone with a man is just too much for me to deal with.
I have no experience with that and wouldn't understand the dynamics "
I've thought about it on occasion, there's usually an element of female contact, usually giving her oral while im receiving oral from him or something along those lines.
Never had the chance to do anything about it up until now.
Might get a chance, might not.
Either way, you do you man. Life's too short to worry what others think I find |
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We like meeting guys that want to experiment. We find the meet can be really fun. Some guys hate it and some guys love it and want to meet again. You should try it with people that you feel comforatbale with. Meet a bi couple but play straight for the first meet and get to know them. |
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"Lots of people are curious in finding different ways of attaining pleasure, just be honest with yourself and the people you are playing with and go for it
Thanks.
I find it weird myself.
Without a woman there it just does nothing for me.
But if she was to watch..maybe hold my hand while it happened id quite it.
I had thought it may be because the thought of being alone with a man is just too much for me to deal with.
I have no experience with that and wouldn't understand the dynamics
Its the beginning of a journey for you, no need to rush and nothing is set in stone in regards to your sexuality, be who you want to be and enjoy yourself "
This advice is spot on! It’s about experimenting, discovery, and analysis of what you like doing and been done to you by whoever you choose. Step by step, |
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I have spoken to a few 'straight' men who do this or are excited by the thought of trying it.
Don't overthink it and go with the flow. There is no need to put a label on it. A big part of being on here I think is about becoming more open to new experiences. Just do what you enjoy
Mrs x |
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I've totally had exactly the same thoughts as part of a threesome.
All my previous threesomes have been straight so I've never crossed the streams but I'd definitely like to try a more bi playful three-day to see if I like it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've totally had exactly the same thoughts as part of a threesome.
All my previous threesomes have been straight so I've never crossed the streams but I'd definitely like to try a more bi playful three-day to see if I like it.
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Three-day....
Dear lord |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i have a fantasy about being in a MMf situation.
In this fantasy as well as being intimate with the woman i imagine doing things orally with the guy..receiving and giving.
Outside of the situation it does nothing for me. Cant imagine being one on one with a man without a woman to balance it.
I dont think id enjoy kissing a man and definitely wouldn't be interested in anal.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Its a new year and i feel i want to live out the fantasys i have and do what i want guilt free.
I come from a VERY conservative family. "
Completely normal. I have no attraction for guys in everyday life and don’t look for bi hook ups but when I had the chance of a MMF it was all very natural and enjoyable to play with the M, and have repeated it a couple of times. Perhaps your background is a factor - forbidden fruit ? Good luck if you try it ! |
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"I've totally had exactly the same thoughts as part of a threesome.
All my previous threesomes have been straight so I've never crossed the streams but I'd definitely like to try a more bi playful three-day to see if I like it.
Three-day....
Dear lord"
Haha I better get a fair few energy drinks in. |
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"So i have a fantasy about being in a MMf situation.
In this fantasy as well as being intimate with the woman i imagine doing things orally with the guy..receiving and giving.
Outside of the situation it does nothing for me. Cant imagine being one on one with a man without a woman to balance it.
I dont think id enjoy kissing a man and definitely wouldn't be interested in anal.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Its a new year and i feel i want to live out the fantasys i have and do what i want guilt free.
I come from a VERY conservative family. "
I feel totally the same as you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all. Its always nice to hear people feel the same and have the same thoughts etc.
It was really confusing.
And yes i agree that it may be an historic barrier etc.
Im really looking forward to this year.
Well....well actually that depends on covid doesnt it Hahahhaa |
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Whatever you do just go with the flow and don’t label it as anything more than experimentation. If you don’t like it, fine. If you do equally fine.
You decide your sexuality nobody else and those sending you abuse, they’re the ones with the problem not you |
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"So i have a fantasy about being in a MMf situation.
In this fantasy as well as being intimate with the woman i imagine doing things orally with the guy..receiving and giving.
Outside of the situation it does nothing for me. Cant imagine being one on one with a man without a woman to balance it.
I dont think id enjoy kissing a man and definitely wouldn't be interested in anal.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Its a new year and i feel i want to live out the fantasys i have and do what i want guilt free.
I come from a VERY conservative family. "
Hi I love sucking a cock, especially after it has come out of my wifes pussy. I wont kiss a man, but enjoy having a human sex toy.
Do whatever all parties are comfortable with, and enjoy xx |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
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"So i have a fantasy about being in a MMf situation.
In this fantasy as well as being intimate with the woman i imagine doing things orally with the guy..receiving and giving.
Outside of the situation it does nothing for me. Cant imagine being one on one with a man without a woman to balance it.
I dont think id enjoy kissing a man and definitely wouldn't be interested in anal.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Its a new year and i feel i want to live out the fantasys i have and do what i want guilt free.
I come from a VERY conservative family. "
Hey op don’t feel bad about it , it’s a fantasy not a am into guys as well , we all have that like I have fantasy of geting fucked By a tv while I fuck a women . This only happened when in that 3some situation if not I’ll never want to be receiving . So don’t feel bad about thoughts like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally not attracted to guys, very masculine but a hot TV ts that's convincing don't ask me why but hell yes??
Hey that’s called being gynesexual. Same as me "
Well I never knew that
Every day is a school day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gosh I know a few guys on the scene that fit into this category. Bi playful or bi situational is how they describe it. It's not what I'm looking for or nothing i would like to even experiment might I add. I do know a fair few people singles and couples that I've chatted with in the club's that would like to try this.
You have a great profile so just be yourself and word it on your profile exactly how you've done on this post. It's always best to be open and honest so people know exactly what you're looking for. Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re both bi and for me seeing D with another guy is a massive turn on , he doesn’t see a guy in the street and want to fuck him but in the right situation with the right person/people he really enjoys being with a guy if that makes sense ? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well its a new year after all. Time to shrug off certain hang ups i guess and open up a bit.
Really glad i did the post now thanks everyone "
Once we’re past lockdowns I think a lot of people are going to be trying new things and going a little wild. Embrace it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm the male half of DandLBi and yes it's hot! Losing any inhibitions that you may have (in any aspect of swinging) can be so liberating, especially if you have a partner like L who derives as much pleasure out of it as I do
I feel quite sad when I hear of guys that feel the need to suppress or hide their bi desires as I imagine that quite a large percentage of guys out there do have these feelings. Unfortunately we still haven't quite got to the stage where people can be more open about their sexuality without the fear of being labelled or judged (such is life).
I can't imagine the reaction of friends if we were standing in a pub having a drink and I suddenly blurted out the fact that I had sucked a guys cock although tbh I wouldn't really be that bothered and I'd like to think that my friends wouldn't judge me .
Anyway ... some great advice and support on this thread
Peace and happiness - D |
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"So i have a fantasy about being in a MMf situation.
In this fantasy as well as being intimate with the woman i imagine doing things orally with the guy..receiving and giving.
Outside of the situation it does nothing for me. Cant imagine being one on one with a man without a woman to balance it.
I dont think id enjoy kissing a man and definitely wouldn't be interested in anal.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Its a new year and i feel i want to live out the fantasys i have and do what i want guilt free.
I come from a VERY conservative family. "
Don't worry about it OP.
I am pretty much the same and have had many a nice MMF the way you describe and look forward to many more when this shit is over.
Problem with FAB is that there are only 2 labels to choose from.
Bi or Bi curious. I don't regard myself as either.
I would never meet a guy one on one or give/take anal and, like yourself, would never want to kiss a guy. Although in my more adventurous days in the distant past I've tried both, didn't enjoy it and vowed (and stuck to) never again.
So for me the Bi label just doesn't really fit.
Bi curious? Not really. I've had lots of sexual adventures over the years and I know what I enjoy and what I don't. I'm no longer curious about anything sexually.
These days for 90% of the time I play straight but if the occasion arises and all are happy then a bit of Bi contact up to oral can be enjoyable.
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"Gosh I know a few guys on the scene that fit into this category. Bi playful or bi situational is how they describe it. It's not what I'm looking for or nothing i would like to even experiment might I add. I do know a fair few people singles and couples that I've chatted with in the club's that would like to try this.
You have a great profile so just be yourself and word it on your profile exactly how you've done on this post. It's always best to be open and honest so people know exactly what you're looking for. Good luck OP "
Bi situational. I like that one. |
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Do whatever you want and fuck what anyone else thinks, life's too short!
Lu 
I think it's hot and it's not that uncommon.
Whatever floats your boat. 