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Dealing with no sex due to lockdown
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 'dealing' with it, because unlike alot of sad, selfish men on here I can restrain myself like an adult
I have a moral responsibility to my fellow humans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !  "
How absolutely awful for you
It must be truly dreadful to be bored |
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"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated ! "
Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.
Find things to do that make you happy
Good luck |
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"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !
Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.
Find things to do that make you happy
Good luck"
If this had happened 15-20 years ago we would have been in a much worse position. There's so much content, things we can do and learn, connect with others.
In some ways we're lucky. It's much easier to distract ourselves. |
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By *sm2020 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !
Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.
Find things to do that make you happy
So true
Good luck
If this had happened 15-20 years ago we would have been in a much worse position. There's so much content, things we can do and learn, connect with others.
In some ways we're lucky. It's much easier to distract ourselves."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t had sex in 5 months but starting to get really bored and obviously frustrated !
Find other things to do, thinking constantly about what you can't have rather than what you can will only lead to mental stress and sadness.
Find things to do that make you happy
Good luck
If this had happened 15-20 years ago we would have been in a much worse position. There's so much content, things we can do and learn, connect with others.
In some ways we're lucky. It's much easier to distract ourselves."
Indeed
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So many things you can do to get through not having sex. Webcam is good, toys I recently bought a latex vagina and it’s better than a wank.
I think it’s not so much the pleasure but the excitement that’s hard to go without. Not having any luck on here either?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spend a fair bit of time here and generally trying to distract myself.
Not going to lie and say that it’s been easy but for everything that others have had to forgo to keep their communities safe, this is a minor one in comparison |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God why has everything gotta get so political haha
How is a thread about sex toys political?"
When people yet again bring up how selfish everyone is even when they have mentioned meeting...dragging covid into it just to have a dig
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God why has everything gotta get so political haha"
Interesting comment. Due to your comment, I was curious and read through the thread, which I would suggest you ought to do before posting random comments.  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Alcohol is your friend in times like these. On a serious note though, there have been periods where I've gone up to 48 hours without speaking a word to anyone. That's a weird realisation I've just had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy op you wait this is going to go on for a long time no clubs will be open for a long time which is a shame
But I've saved a fortune and got a life so it's easy having a break for a while and no stress so win win for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God why has everything gotta get so political haha
How is a thread about sex toys political?
When people yet again bring up how selfish everyone is even when they have mentioned meeting...dragging covid into it just to have a dig
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I dont see how that is 'political'
Its a fact
There are quite a few selfish people out there
Many on this site |
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"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that.... "
Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....
Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without."
It was 3 years for me, by the end of my last significant relationship. One can get used to doing without sex, but the kissing/touching and general close physical contact and intimacy is the thing that I really struggled doing without - just as I am now. My last LTR really helped me develop a focus on what’s really important, in pursuit of amazing connections - that is: intimate/sensual always wins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....
Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without."
Absolutely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not the sex I miss so much as the feeling of being close to someone and kissing, oh my how I miss that....
Same, was married & for the last four years no intimacy at all, going without sex was bearable, can orgasm by myself but actual human intimacy is hard to go without.
It was 3 years for me, by the end of my last significant relationship. One can get used to doing without sex, but the kissing/touching and general close physical contact and intimacy is the thing that I really struggled doing without - just as I am now. My last LTR really helped me develop a focus on what’s really important, in pursuit of amazing connections - that is: intimate/sensual always wins. "
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By *innMan
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.
Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.
What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.
Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.
What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs. "
Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed. |
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By *innMan
over a year ago
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"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.
Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.
What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.
Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed. "
An 800 pupil high school with over 100 staff, multiple visitors is the perfect breeding ground for the new virus, which seems to enjoy the younger population.
If as a society we can take that level of risk the open the fucking pubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.
Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.
What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.
Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed.
An 800 pupil high school with over 100 staff, multiple visitors is the perfect breeding ground for the new virus, which seems to enjoy the younger population.
If as a society we can take that level of risk the open the fucking pubs. "
So let me get this straight: you think it’s ok to put your need to have a sociable alcoholic drink ahead of people’s need to be as safe as possible? That your need to have a drink is as great as a child’s need to have an education? |
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"Like a lot of fab people I miss the thrill of the lifestyle. But missing it doesn’t make me want to take silly risks or to add to the burden of the health care workers at this time.
Will I still feel this way in April? I don’t know.
What I miss most is a good pub - I’m at breaking point on this issue. If they open the schools they can open the pubs.
Schools are essential. Pubs aren’t. Case Closed.
An 800 pupil high school with over 100 staff, multiple visitors is the perfect breeding ground for the new virus, which seems to enjoy the younger population.
If as a society we can take that level of risk the open the fucking pubs. "
Hospitals are really high risk too. Lots of vulnerable people, lots of germs, lots of contacts. Let's close them, because obviously we're only considering risk, not benefit. |
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