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In this day and age when everything needs to be accepted by all, no predjudices anywhere. Why is it most and i say most women dont like bi guys, however its ok for them to fancy other girls, why are bi guys so off putting to women, can anyone give me a plausible answer... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do, some don’t. That’s the way of the world.
This is a sex site based largely around a tick box of what we think we are into at the time of signing up. As a bi guy I appreciate the honesty of those that don’t want to play with me, it save a great deal of time.
Focus on you and those plenty of men and women in here who do like bi guys, and enjoy! |
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Loads of people still have the misguided idea that bisexual folk are always out shagging anyone and everyone without being safe. Many folk think a bi guy is more likely to give them an STI (as if there aren't tonnes of straight men having unsafe sex.) Some people claim a random reason to cover the real one, i.e. their queerphobia. Some couples with a straight male think a bi guy won't be able to control himself around him. Whatever the reasons, don't sweat them, those people simply aren't for you. Plenty of people out there will happily meet a bi chap, you'll find them, or they'll find you. Probably after the pandemic calms down, mind.
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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"Loads of people still have the misguided idea that bisexual folk are always out shagging anyone and everyone without being safe. Many folk think a bi guy is more likely to give them an STI (as if there aren't tonnes of straight men having unsafe sex.) Some people claim a random reason to cover the real one, i.e. their queerphobia. Some couples with a straight male think a bi guy won't be able to control himself around him. Whatever the reasons, don't sweat them, those people simply aren't for you. Plenty of people out there will happily meet a bi chap, you'll find them, or they'll find you. Probably after the pandemic calms down, mind.
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Agree with a lot of this. You specify women, so maybe you are only looking for single women? It seems as if there are plenty of couples on here with a bi male. I always imagine that they would prefer to meet a bi male over a single male, so avoid messaging them as I am straight. Perhaps concentrate on those? |
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"In this day and age when everything needs to be accepted by all, no predjudices anywhere. Why is it most and i say most women dont like bi guys, however its ok for them to fancy other girls, why are bi guys so off putting to women, can anyone give me a plausible answer..."
What an entitled view you have.
When it comes to MY body I decide who shares it: I'm not a government department, UN, local government...
Neither do I need to justify or defend choices that pertain to ME!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In this day and age when everything needs to be accepted by all!
Accept that woman have a choice over who they sleep with! Personal preference!
Plausible? Why does it have to be plausible? Because women should just accept anything?
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"In this day and age when everything needs to be accepted by all!
Accept that woman have a choice over who they sleep with! Personal preference!
Plausible? Why does it have to be plausible? Because women should just accept anything?
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Well said! I would suggest it is his attitude that is the problem not his sexuality
Love your breasts and that bra btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do, some don’t. That’s the way of the world.
This is a sex site based largely around a tick box of what we think we are into at the time of signing up. As a bi guy I appreciate the honesty of those that don’t want to play with me, it save a great deal of time.
Focus on you and those plenty of men and women in here who do like bi guys, and enjoy! "
Agree here, appreciate the honesty of people that say they don't meet bi guys. At least I know that I should respect them and not bother them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of women who particularly like bi guys and many more who have no preference either way for straight or bi guys. Most are interested in the person. I find it is much more rewarding, and a better investment of my time and energy, to focus my attention on those who accept my sexuality as it is, and are interested in me as as a person, than concerning myself with those who don’t. |
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Totally wrong imo . Loads of women on here love bi guys .
I'm bi and for the first time in my life I'm accepted , and quite frankly encouraged to be bi .
There are a large number of women on here who love it on here trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just comes down to sexual preferences.
We all have them.
I would only meet a gay or bisexual man, I wouldn't meet a straight guy for his first bisexual experience, but there are other Tgirls who would.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t take it personally. We love bi guys but wouldn’t meet one on his own simply because mmf isn’t what we are looking for.
If we all wanted the same thing life would be pretty boring and that’s the joy of the diversity on here. |
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Acceptance and personal preference are two different things though.
My hubby isn't bi so we don't go out looking for bi men but that said it also wouldn't put us off if a bi guy approached us and was happy with a straight mfm. |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
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"Loads of people still have the misguided idea that bisexual folk are always out shagging anyone and everyone without being safe. Many folk think a bi guy is more likely to give them an STI (as if there aren't tonnes of straight men having unsafe sex.) Some people claim a random reason to cover the real one, i.e. their queerphobia. Some couples with a straight male think a bi guy won't be able to control himself around him. Whatever the reasons, don't sweat them, those people simply aren't for you. Plenty of people out there will happily meet a bi chap, you'll find them, or they'll find you. Probably after the pandemic calms down, mind.
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This is so true , I had so many time irl that when I tell a girl am bi she acts weird and then say she not interested in “fake gays guys” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In this day and age when everything needs to be accepted by all, no predjudices anywhere. Why is it most and i say most women dont like bi guys, however its ok for them to fancy other girls, why are bi guys so off putting to women, can anyone give me a plausible answer..."
Whilst they are knocking you back for being bi, they aren't knocking you back for a being a munter
I know which explanation I'm happier with |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
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"Loads of people still have the misguided idea that bisexual folk are always out shagging anyone and everyone without being safe. Many folk think a bi guy is more likely to give them an STI (as if there aren't tonnes of straight men having unsafe sex.) Some people claim a random reason to cover the real one, i.e. their queerphobia. Some couples with a straight male think a bi guy won't be able to control himself around him. Whatever the reasons, don't sweat them, those people simply aren't for you. Plenty of people out there will happily meet a bi chap, you'll find them, or they'll find you. Probably after the pandemic calms down, mind.
This is so true , I had so many time irl that when I tell a girl am bi she acts weird and then say she not interested in “fake gays guys”"
For a while I hide my sexuality from girls cos I didn’t want to me called gay. But coming to fab helped open up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In this day and age when everything needs to be accepted by all!
Accept that woman have a choice over who they sleep with! Personal preference!
Plausible? Why does it have to be plausible? Because women should just accept anything?
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This
Prejudice vs Preference. Not the same thing at all. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's a common misconception here that "most" won't meet bisexual men - in my experience it's the minority that won't - "most" people either aren't in the slightest bit concerned about bisexuality or actively seek it out/encourage it.
The perception about it being a majority that won't I think comes from two angles - firstly those that won't meet bisexual men stand out more as they usually make a point of stating so on their profiles etc, and secondly a lot of men make a "thing" of it as a reason the site is not working for them as something to "blame" for their lack of "success" from the site.
Personally if someone doesn't want to meet me I accept and respect it whatever reason, my sexuality, the fact I'm overweight, am mid-50s, or am a complete arse in their opinion - so long as they express that reason (if they even choose to give one, which I also respect if they don't) in polite and non-bigoted terms then I have no problem with it in the slightest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are plenty of women who particularly like bi guys and many more who have no preference either way for straight or bi guys. Most are interested in the person. I find it is much more rewarding, and a better investment of my time and energy, to focus my attention on those who accept my sexuality as it is, and are interested in me as as a person, than concerning myself with those who don’t."
Fully agree...focus on those who have a preference for what you are into ,otherwise you will feel something missing.
They are out there ...best place is clubs when they re open .
Here is 70% fakes,20% wannabes, 10% swingers  |
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"There are plenty of women who particularly like bi guys and many more who have no preference either way for straight or bi guys. Most are interested in the person. I find it is much more rewarding, and a better investment of my time and energy, to focus my attention on those who accept my sexuality as it is, and are interested in me as as a person, than concerning myself with those who don’t."
This is how I look at it as well.. I am orally bi but that doesn't mean I fancy every guy or girl. In fact I am very picky about who I meet. I like to think its just attraction (or lack there of) thats the reason for being turned down. Put in the time, and just be yourself, not a sexual orientation billboard.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you should not bleat on here regarding who won't meet you and concentrate on who will meet you. We are a bi cpl and accept some cpls will not meet us because i am bi although they would meet jenny as a bi lady. Just search out the ones who will meet you and let the others who do not accept you because you bi well alone. Peoples choices change on their journey on here so a woman who won't meet you now cos you're bi might well next year be ok with meeting bi guys. Just chill out and concentrate on the ones who will meet you.good luck. John |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are plenty of women who particularly like bi guys and many more who have no preference either way for straight or bi guys. Most are interested in the person. I find it is much more rewarding, and a better investment of my time and energy, to focus my attention on those who accept my sexuality as it is, and are interested in me as as a person, than concerning myself with those who don’t.
Fully agree...focus on those who have a preference for what you are into ,otherwise you will feel something missing.
They are out there ...best place is clubs when they re open .
Here is 70% fakes,20% wannabes, 10% swingers "
Agreee^ |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Search for those who do via the search facility. I've just done this, I chose women and ticked the bisexual/bi curious option and concentrated on the 'bisexual' not bi curious women, there were loads with my 50 mile radius. Surely this is your field/demographic and where you should be looking. |
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"There are plenty of women who particularly like bi guys and many more who have no preference either way for straight or bi guys. Most are interested in the person. I find it is much more rewarding, and a better investment of my time and energy, to focus my attention on those who accept my sexuality as it is, and are interested in me as as a person, than concerning myself with those who don’t.
Fully agree...focus on those who have a preference for what you are into ,otherwise you will feel something missing.
They are out there ...best place is clubs when they re open .
Here is 70% fakes,20% wannabes, 10% swingers "
Haven't come across many fake profiles but I would agree that its a small percentage of swingers with a large percentage just wanting a free and easy fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a bi guy purely and simply because I like both guys and ladies. That doesn’t mean I sleep with anyone or I’m just out to fuck everyone on here, just means I appreciate the human body for what it is. If I have those thoughts then I assume others will have theirs so if someone doesn’t want to meet a bi guy, that is their prerogative! |
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