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over a year ago
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When did you last have a bona fide crush? I seem to be suffering from a teenage level one that's driving me a bit insane! I don't mean just someone on here you wouldn't mind hooking up with, but a real world, writing their name in your jotter type one about someone who has no idea! I feel so ridiculous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When did you last have a bona fide crush? I seem to be suffering from a teenage level one that's driving me a bit insane! I don't mean just someone on here you wouldn't mind hooking up with, but a real world, writing their name in your jotter type one about someone who has no idea! I feel so ridiculous "
it's alright you can message me if you want  |
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I love a good crush. I don’t think I’ve ever been without one since I was about 14
I have a crush on my boyfriend but then he says stuff like ‘I don’t really like Chinese’ or ‘die hard is the best Christmas film’ and I crush less hard.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When did you last have a bona fide crush? I seem to be suffering from a teenage level one that's driving me a bit insane! I don't mean just someone on here you wouldn't mind hooking up with, but a real world, writing their name in your jotter type one about someone who has no idea! I feel so ridiculous
it's alright you can message me if you want "
Will you ask him to nip me for me ?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love a good crush. I don’t think I’ve ever been without one since I was about 14
I have a crush on my boyfriend but then he says stuff like ‘I don’t really like Chinese’ or ‘die hard is the best Christmas film’ and I crush less hard.
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I never crush. I'm a bit dead inside usually . I don't really like this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got one at the moment and it kills me had this crush for the past 5 years
Can’t even tell her at all as the situation is very complicated
Plus she sends so meny mixed signals that I truly don’t know whare I stand blows hot and cold more than a Scottish summers day
I am so madly crushing on her that I would give everything up for her ie natalie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got one at the moment and it kills me had this crush for the past 5 years
Can’t even tell her at all as the situation is very complicated
Plus she sends so meny mixed signals that I truly don’t know whare I stand blows hot and cold more than a Scottish summers day
I am so madly crushing on her that I would give everything up for her ie natalie"
Aw that sounds tough  . I wouldnt lose yourself to get someone else though, hard as that seems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got one at the moment and it kills me had this crush for the past 5 years
Can’t even tell her at all as the situation is very complicated
Plus she sends so meny mixed signals that I truly don’t know whare I stand blows hot and cold more than a Scottish summers day
I am so madly crushing on her that I would give everything up for her ie natalie
Aw that sounds tough . I wouldnt lose yourself to get someone else though, hard as that seems."
It is very tough and wouldn’t be loseing my self as she be worth it in my eyes
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got one at the moment and it kills me had this crush for the past 5 years
Can’t even tell her at all as the situation is very complicated
Plus she sends so meny mixed signals that I truly don’t know whare I stand blows hot and cold more than a Scottish summers day
I am so madly crushing on her that I would give everything up for her ie natalie
Aw that sounds tough . I wouldnt lose yourself to get someone else though, hard as that seems.
It is very tough and wouldn’t be loseing my self as she be worth it in my eyes
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I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, hope something comes of it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had a major crush on someone at work a few years back, didn’t help when she came into work with her gym gear on. This was before desk risers became mechanic "
This one is work related too, that's part of the problem. It's a bugger isn't?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got one at the moment and it kills me had this crush for the past 5 years
Can’t even tell her at all as the situation is very complicated
Plus she sends so meny mixed signals that I truly don’t know whare I stand blows hot and cold more than a Scottish summers day
I am so madly crushing on her that I would give everything up for her ie natalie
Aw that sounds tough . I wouldnt lose yourself to get someone else though, hard as that seems.
It is very tough and wouldn’t be loseing my self as she be worth it in my eyes
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, hope something comes of it x"
Thanks but I don’t think anything will to much on the line for me to say or try anything just need to keep dropping the odd hints and what not
And hope she one day asks or says something x |
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"Had a major crush on someone at work a few years back, didn’t help when she came into work with her gym gear on. This was before desk risers became mechanic
This one is work related too, that's part of the problem. It's a bugger isn't?!"
I can imagine it's tough at work because you don't want things to become awkward etc. |
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"Had a major crush on someone at work a few years back, didn’t help when she came into work with her gym gear on. This was before desk risers became mechanic
This one is work related too, that's part of the problem. It's a bugger isn't?!"
Yes, luckily I asked a friend of hers if she’d said anything about me as we got on very well at a Xmas party and said no, just how she is and left it as just me being too over analysing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yup! There might be one that’s doing that for me at the moment. It’s ridiculous and I’m kinda disgusted by myself if I’m honest. "
It's embarrassing isn't it haha! |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"When did you last have a bona fide crush? I seem to be suffering from a teenage level one that's driving me a bit insane! I don't mean just someone on here you wouldn't mind hooking up with, but a real world, writing their name in your jotter type one about someone who has no idea! I feel so ridiculous "
Me, not for many years, although I still have a crush on M of course.
M has one for a fellow Fabber. They get on well and have some shared interests, but some are a mile apart. Regardless, he's like a smitten kitten, the daft sod.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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As long as you're not going beetroot red OP, enjoy it. It's nice indulging in that feeling sometimes. I get them from time to time and normally try and ignore them as much as possible because I lose the ability to converse like a normal human being. 
Also I have the song stuck in my head now so thank you for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I probably would say something if I was more of a relationship person. But I know I don't really want to date him, I just desperately want to sleep with him. Knowing me though, I think it'd be out of my system right away then. I wouldn't mess anyone around like that, unless I knew they had a similar mindset, which I don't think he does. In an ideal world, I'd find him on here and could just be up front that I really need him in my bed once, so long as he just forgets about it after and doesn't tell any work people! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As long as you're not going beetroot red OP, enjoy it. It's nice indulging in that feeling sometimes. I get them from time to time and normally try and ignore them as much as possible because I lose the ability to converse like a normal human being.
Also I have the song stuck in my head now so thank you for that. "
I do go red, and stuttery, around him which I bloody hate. I think getting him naked is the only cure but it's not gonna happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about a mutual crush where you both know it's dangerous and other people are involved, so you both stay away?
Is that a crush or is that unrequited lust? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about a mutual crush where you both know it's dangerous and other people are involved, so you both stay away?
Is that a crush or is that unrequited lust? "
The latter I'd say. Sounds equally, or more, frustrating though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one recently. She knows and we messaged each other and sexted, but she wouldn’t take it further. I just assumed she liked the attention but wanted nothing more from it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about a mutual crush where you both know it's dangerous and other people are involved, so you both stay away?
Is that a crush or is that unrequited lust?
The latter I'd say. Sounds equally, or more, frustrating though!"
Although maybe not if it's mutual. Unappeasable lust? |
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I had a proper teenage level crush about two years ago, with a girl from work. She was so much younger than me, she was about 20, and I rarely have any interest in ladies younger than me, especially that much younger.
We chatted at Xmas party and in office. Did feel like a connection, she was admin girl and me head of department I was wary of rumours starting so made myself keep distance.
She started seeing a lad and got pregnant, I was over come with jealousy lol. Crazy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about a mutual crush where you both know it's dangerous and other people are involved, so you both stay away?
Is that a crush or is that unrequited lust?
The latter I'd say. Sounds equally, or more, frustrating though!
Although maybe not if it's mutual. Unappeasable lust?"
It's done now, gone
It was mightily aaargh inducing at the time though
Do you think you will act on your crush Lana or is it one solely destined for diary entries? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a bit dead inside usually ."
Sounds like me!
I think the last time was about 20-22 years ago (taking a guess there, based on age). There was a girl who used to regularly go to some of the pubs and bars I frequented at the time. Snogged her a couple of times but could never get it further than that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about a mutual crush where you both know it's dangerous and other people are involved, so you both stay away?
Is that a crush or is that unrequited lust?
The latter I'd say. Sounds equally, or more, frustrating though!
Although maybe not if it's mutual. Unappeasable lust?
It's done now, gone
It was mightily aaargh inducing at the time though
Do you think you will act on your crush Lana or is it one solely destined for diary entries? "
Ha yeah I think this is going to be solely for the diary of Lana, 37 3/4 . Unless I ever meet him in a situation that's more appropriate for straight up propositioning. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Crush in terms of it being one sided, is never revealed openly, completely consumes you and you can't stop thinking about the person, and go out of your way to have contact with them etc?
Probably 25 years ago with two different ladies from the office, one left the company and the other I came to realise it wasn't reciprocated but we became very close friends and still have occasional contact now via FB. |
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