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We dont get it.... Please help
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some couples are straight and want to swing with a straight guy some woman only want to swing with a straight guy I do t think swinging is longer defined to Only couples i’m much broader spectrum |
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There are many dynamics within relationships.
Some fellas simply like to watch their partners get fucked by someone else.
I've had MMFs where the guys don't engage in pork sword jousting with each other.
I've been involved in group action with single guys.
Same as women may not want fem on fem action but enjoy watching their man with another woman.
No one size fits all.
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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
Evesham, Worcester, Pershore |
It just means that I'm not looking to play with the male directly. Im comfortable with my sexuality to have my cock out in the same room with another man. And join him in playing with his female partner. Im just no going to give him my cock and im not going to take his.
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
Do you have something against single guys?
We only ever met with single men, it's why we joined the site.
The green arrow shows that you have a bee in your bonnet about single men being on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
Exactly! Finally, someone who gets us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a single guy, im on here for many reasons. When able I enjoy the clubs, I enjoy making friends and chatting to non judgmental (for the most part) people, hopefully I will eventually find a single woman on here or not on here to join me in the swinging world. Until then I enjoy meeting both couples and singles for social and for play 
Personally no I'm not just here for a quick shag or to pretend to be anything other than myself :D
Hope that helps OP x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another thread where people are labelled. If you don’t want straight guys then that’s your choice. Why start a thread, why not just ignore it and let the people who want them have them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
Yeah it's not as much fun with straight people is it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
What!  So to be a single guy and a swinger you've also got to be bisexual? |
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
Do you have something against single guys?
We only ever met with single men, it's why we joined the site.
The green arrow shows that you have a bee in your bonnet about single men being on here."
Checked the green arrow and I agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
What! So to be a single guy and a swinger you've also got to be bisexual?
Say ahhhhh doc!!!  "
Probably would if I turned bisexual!  |
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
Do you have something against single guys?
We only ever met with single men, it's why we joined the site.
The green arrow shows that you have a bee in your bonnet about single men being on here."
Quite a recurring theme ....
Odd as the OPs have several feedbacks from single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
Do you have something against single guys?
We only ever met with single men, it's why we joined the site.
The green arrow shows that you have a bee in your bonnet about single men being on here.
Quite a recurring theme ....
Odd as the OPs have several feedbacks from single men "
Must be fake verifications! |
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It is really odd that you’ve raised this topic in 5 separate threads and each time you get the same answers. I don’t get what you’re after?
You can easily avoid singles by blocking them from messaging you and setting what you’re looking for to couples only.
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"The green arrow shows that you have a bee in your bonnet about single men being on here.
Checked the green arrow and I agree
Me too "
Yes - green arrow says it all really 
You can block/ignore single guys - but strangely you have veris from single men - smacks a bit of double standards to me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps they like the dynamic of MFM.
Otherwise, surely the same could be said of every male from a couple who invite males to join them??"
Some people want men over 6ft...pffft fussy buggers x  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I'm a single Tgirl, available for weddings, bar mitzvahs, funerals, singles, Tgirls and couples, not necessarily in that order, but it would be one hell of a party if it involved them all at once |
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"Perhaps they like the dynamic of MFM.
Otherwise, surely the same could be said of every male from a couple who invite males to join them??
Some people want men over 6ft...pffft fussy buggers x "
Yep, can't cope with small man syndrome.
Seen it far too many times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
Ah so using your logic all the single non bi females are also looking for a free fuck and pretending.
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I'm single and bi curious on occasion at most. Not a guy either but I think my viewpoint may help the OP understand a bit better since they are asking to understand.
I am here cos vanilla relationships don't work for me. I like variety, and the freedom to have different partners. To get my kicks partially from one person then some others from someone else. Hard to find someone into all the things I enjoy doing.
Likewise I enjoy more than 1 partner at a time which I can get here with a little planning.
Not all swinging is couples swapping or meeting together. Its about variety for me but also regularity with that variety if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
Swingers are couples where the husband is a shit shag so they wife needs to get it from elsewhere. It's best if the single guy is straight so that he doesn't have the disappointment of shagging the crap shag husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought we were all here for a “free fuck”? "
Free fucks over here ....special deal.. get one free and get another....free ..
It's the deal of the fucking century x |
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
Ah so using your logic all the single non bi females are also looking for a free fuck and pretending.
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I am though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a single guy - but why do you care OP?
Everyone on here is pretending one way or another 
I'm just here for the "free fucks"
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Would need a non-refundable travel deposit first just in case you wasn't worth it! |
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"Strange that the OP has asked this question in various different forms over the last year or so. So not really curious or confused or trying to understand at all..."
Have they ever returned to their threads once they have set the cat amongst the pigeons? |
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
Ah so using your logic all the single non bi females are also looking for a free fuck and pretending.
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That's total rubbish ! Let's face it very few of us would want to pay for the said fuck  |
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"Is this an example of question shaming?"
You're probably right but the OPs have asked that question several times in the last year , the OPs also seem to enjoy the company of single men with Fabs profiles so I guess I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy... |
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"Strange that the OP has asked this question in various different forms over the last year or so. So not really curious or confused or trying to understand at all...
Have they ever returned to their threads once they have set the cat amongst the pigeons? "
Not that I've see so far but I could be wrong |
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"I'm single and bi curious on occasion at most. Not a guy either but I think my viewpoint may help the OP understand a bit better since they are asking to understand.
I am here cos vanilla relationships don't work for me. I like variety, and the freedom to have different partners. To get my kicks partially from one person then some others from someone else. Hard to find someone into all the things I enjoy doing.
Likewise I enjoy more than 1 partner at a time which I can get here with a little planning.
Not all swinging is couples swapping or meeting together. Its about variety for me but also regularity with that variety if that makes sense "
Same. |
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
I'm not sure what the "not bi" bit matters. If you take the traditional view that swinging is "wife swapping" then no single can be a swinger.
I suspect that most singles don't see themselves as swingers at all, but then again what does it matter. The swinging environment is all about sexual excitement, fulfilled fantasies, then everyone is welcome.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
I'm a single woman and not bi either |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?
I'm a single woman and not bi either "
I was thinking the same, what is it that you have against straight single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this an example of question shaming?
You're probably right but the OPs have asked that question several times in the last year , the OPs also seem to enjoy the company of single men with Fabs profiles so I guess I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy... "
I’m a hypocrite too. My glasshouse is on very shaky ground. |
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"Is this an example of question shaming?"
Usually you’d have a point and it’s something that I don’t like. But they’ve said it on numerous occasions and in the end the genuine males will have had enough of being targeted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this an example of question shaming?
Usually you’d have a point and it’s something that I don’t like. But they’ve said it on numerous occasions and in the end the genuine males will have had enough of being targeted "
They are firing broken arrows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this an example of question shaming?
Usually you’d have a point and it’s something that I don’t like. But they’ve said it on numerous occasions and in the end the genuine males will have had enough of being targeted
They are firing broken arrows."
They can ...they are hot |
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"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?"
I have a solo guy profile in here, and am as straight as an arrow. I've met solo females and mf couples, sharing fun times with likeminded people. Do I class myself as a swinger? Not really. Do I enjoy the swinging lifestyle? Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say this a broken arrow as it is a question that is I’ll framed with perverted intent. The motive fromthe way it is worded suggests it is weaponised to have a go at single guys. Furthermore it is backed up by similar questions on previous threads. Therefore I think the question deserves confronting and challenging.
Finally I think the OP needs to revisit the thread to explain their frame or give illustrations of why their view has merit.
However as a hypocrite myself, I find it difficult to say things like that without opening myself to the slings and arrows I deserve. |
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"We have absolutely nothing about single guys. Just putting it out there if they looked at our profile they would know. That’s what put’s us off......"
It's still not quite clear.
I think you're saying you don't have that you're looking for single guys on your profile yet they are contacting you? Viewing your profile? Maybe even fabbing your pics?
If that is the case, you'll be given the same advice others get. Block them from messaging you.
Yes it's a shame people don't read profiles, and yes, it's mainly single guys that are guilty. However it isn't only single guys, couples, single women, TVs & TSs are also very capable of jumping right in with a message without doing their research. |
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"We have absolutely nothing about single guys. Just putting it out there if they looked at our profile they would know. That’s what put’s us off......
It's still not quite clear.
I think you're saying you don't have that you're looking for single guys on your profile yet they are contacting you? Viewing your profile? Maybe even fabbing your pics?
If that is the case, you'll be given the same advice others get. Block them from messaging you.
Yes it's a shame people don't read profiles, and yes, it's mainly single guys that are guilty. However it isn't only single guys, couples, single women, TVs & TSs are also very capable of jumping right in with a message without doing their research."
Also lots of others get the same messages and views etc from people we aren't looking for or who don't bother to read profiles either OP.
I've always had men blocked and it makes life a lot more peaceful but the amount of couples who contact me for the man's fun was awful hence I no longer bother to say anything on my profile and strangely it has meant I get less messages. I like women but very few couples ever bothered to take any notice so its far from just the single males who do this. |
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"We have absolutely nothing about single guys. Just putting it out there if they looked at our profile they would know. That’s what put’s us off......
It's still not quite clear.
I think you're saying you don't have that you're looking for single guys on your profile yet they are contacting you? Viewing your profile? Maybe even fabbing your pics?
If that is the case, you'll be given the same advice others get. Block them from messaging you.
Yes it's a shame people don't read profiles, and yes, it's mainly single guys that are guilty. However it isn't only single guys, couples, single women, TVs & TSs are also very capable of jumping right in with a message without doing their research.
Also lots of others get the same messages and views etc from people we aren't looking for or who don't bother to read profiles either OP.
I've always had men blocked and it makes life a lot more peaceful but the amount of couples who contact me for the man's fun was awful hence I no longer bother to say anything on my profile and strangely it has meant I get less messages. I like women but very few couples ever bothered to take any notice so its far from just the single males who do this."
Sadly I think our replies will fall upon deaf ears. |
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"I'm a single Tgirl, available for weddings, bar mitzvahs, funerals, singles, Tgirls and couples, not necessarily in that order, but it would be one hell of a party if it involved them all at once "
Oy, where's my invite? That sounds like a party I need to be at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have absolutely nothing about single guys. Just putting it out there if they looked at our profile they would know. That’s what put’s us off......"
Absolutely no clearing explanation at all, as far as I'm concerned! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The OP’s like single bi guys and dont appreciate contact from single straight guys ‘trying their luck’ with them, is my interpretation.
** ive not read their veris though so could be wrong. |
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"We have absolutely nothing about single guys. Just putting it out there if they looked at our profile they would know. That’s what put’s us off......
It's still not quite clear.
I think you're saying you don't have that you're looking for single guys on your profile yet they are contacting you? Viewing your profile? Maybe even fabbing your pics?
If that is the case, you'll be given the same advice others get. Block them from messaging you.
Yes it's a shame people don't read profiles, and yes, it's mainly single guys that are guilty. However it isn't only single guys, couples, single women, TVs & TSs are also very capable of jumping right in with a message without doing their research.
Also lots of others get the same messages and views etc from people we aren't looking for or who don't bother to read profiles either OP.
I've always had men blocked and it makes life a lot more peaceful but the amount of couples who contact me for the man's fun was awful hence I no longer bother to say anything on my profile and strangely it has meant I get less messages. I like women but very few couples ever bothered to take any notice so its far from just the single males who do this.
Sadly I think our replies will fall upon deaf ears."
That doesn't happen on Fab surely! |
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"It is really odd that you’ve raised this topic in 5 separate threads and each time you get the same answers. I don’t get what you’re after?
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They're obviously the answers they don't want to hear. |
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If you don't want single guys contacting you, the message filters come in very handy
Single men have just as much right to be here as anyone.
We don't have single men on our interests or we get bombarded... doesn't mean we're not looking for them ourselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want single guys contacting you, the message filters come in very handy
Single men have just as much right to be here as anyone.
We don't have single men on our interests or we get bombarded... doesn't mean we're not looking for them ourselves "
Message my way! |
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A deep-seated hatred of single guys?
"So if you are a single guy and not bi, how can you be a swinger? Is it all about trying to get a free fuck and pretending?".
Or just plain, downright hypocrisy?
"Strangely you have veris from single men - smacks a bit of double standards to me".
Or just narrow-mindedness?
You decide. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"The OP’s like single bi guys and dont appreciate contact from single straight guys ‘trying their luck’ with them, is my interpretation.
** ive not read their veris though so could be wrong. "
Nope checked their veris and several from single guys both "straight" and "bi" so as Toyah said, it's a mystery.
Perhaps the OP will pop back and clarify.
To answer from my perspective though - anyone can be a swinger regardless of gender or whether single or not or indeed sexuality - if as my dear friend Princess Peach suggested this is about single guys contacting the OP when they are not looking for them then this isn't about whether someone is a swinger or not but about whether they have read the profile or not, and in this instance I'd suggest even if they had the presence of single guys in the OPs veri list may be part of the problem - although that is easily fixed by either blocking single guys from messaging or hiding the veris/veri summary or both |
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