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"I'm in the early stages of discovering this currently, early days but I'm excited  "
Oh you won’t be disappointed by the erotic possibilities of your arsehole, I promise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people for it sharing their views. Not a shock that those who wouldn't consider it are very very silent..."
Until a few years ago I would have been in the other camp. I had an experience at Derby Royal after a bad week with Montezuma’s Revenge, following a holiday in Spain. An A&E doctor gave me an unexpected examination with a fat finger and no lube. I swore nothing was going up there again.
Fast forward 25 years and a woman I met off another site was massaging me, and slipped a well lubed finger in unexpectedly. However this time she knew what she was doing and milked me until I was leaking like a tap.
I then began a journey of self exploration with fingers and toys, but didn’t really discover the possibilities until January last year, when I discovered the real possibilities and was climbing the walls in ecstasy, with a very skilled friend.
Mind blown  |
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"A lot of people for it sharing their views. Not a shock that those who wouldn't consider it are very very silent...
Until a few years ago I would have been in the other camp. I had an experience at Derby Royal after a bad week with Montezuma’s Revenge, following a holiday in Spain. An A&E doctor gave me an unexpected examination with a fat finger and no lube. I swore nothing was going up there again.
Fast forward 25 years and a woman I met off another site was massaging me, and slipped a well lubed finger in unexpectedly. However this time she knew what she was doing and milked me until I was leaking like a tap.
I then began a journey of self exploration with fingers and toys, but didn’t really discover the possibilities until January last year, when I discovered the real possibilities and was climbing the walls in ecstasy, with a very skilled friend.
Mind blown "
This is exactly what I mean. I'm not saying it will be for everyone but as someone who enjoys playing with someone else's ass, only to find most sit firmly in the "have never and will never try it" category |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
I'd be all over it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
My mrs has a strapless strapon so it is arse for arse rather than tit for tat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people for it sharing their views. Not a shock that those who wouldn't consider it are very very silent...
Until a few years ago I would have been in the other camp. I had an experience at Derby Royal after a bad week with Montezuma’s Revenge, following a holiday in Spain. An A&E doctor gave me an unexpected examination with a fat finger and no lube. I swore nothing was going up there again.
Fast forward 25 years and a woman I met off another site was massaging me, and slipped a well lubed finger in unexpectedly. However this time she knew what she was doing and milked me until I was leaking like a tap.
I then began a journey of self exploration with fingers and toys, but didn’t really discover the possibilities until January last year, when I discovered the real possibilities and was climbing the walls in ecstasy, with a very skilled friend.
Mind blown
This is exactly what I mean. I'm not saying it will be for everyone but as someone who enjoys playing with someone else's ass, only to find most sit firmly in the "have never and will never try it" category"
If I had been asked I would have probably have said no. I’m not sure why I didn’t stop her. I hadn’t even considered issues of consent. However I’m glad I didn’t
I don’t think men talk enough about their sexual exploration, in a way that could open the mind to possibilities.
I think also the bum is, in many men’s minds , so linked to gay sex, that there is a phobic reaction to considering anal exploration and play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered."
I’d expect that logic from you. |
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"Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered."
Cant say i agree with you there but different strokes for different folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered."
I think I'm also a gay man in that case. |
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"Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered.
I think I'm also a gay man in that case."
Free sex change? Did it hurt? |
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"Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered."
Can never work out if you’re joking or not. Excellent commitment to miserable posts though. |
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"You shouldn’t commit to anything your not will to try, even though I’m very much a Top in the DS world I have always tried what is being dished out so you understand what it’s about,
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Curious to know, do you simply not enjoy bottoming, prefer topping, or is it more the dom and control thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
you could fuck my ass as much as you like... |
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"Strong ass-play game from Glasgow women, I see...
We are a unique breed up here
I'd fist pump you but this might the wrong thread for saying that  "
I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE! but not anally no... maybe you're right haha |
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"Strong ass-play game from Glasgow women, I see...
We are a unique breed up here
Oh, I know... I lived there for ten years!
And you left? Poor show..."
Sorry about that. I’ll bring my ass back for you to play with one day. |
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"9 months ago I would have been a strong no to this, but due to boredom and inquisitive I tried a small plug and now have some anak beads which I have to say I really quite enjoy. "
Excellent work. Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being pegged is one of the best sexual experiences I had in life. Even scientifically, men should get more pleasure out of it than women due to the presence of prostate gland nearby. If men were more open-minded and literate in this matter, you may actually see an increase in anal sex in your hypothetical scenario |
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"Being pegged is one of the best sexual experiences I had in life. Even scientifically, men should get more pleasure out of it than women due to the presence of prostate gland nearby. If men were more open-minded and literate in this matter, you may actually see an increase in anal sex in your hypothetical scenario "
100% agree. Not saying all would enjoy it but I think a lot more would if they were willing to try it.
But as stated, a lot of men think enjoying it will make them gay or appear gay. Some women think the same of men who enjoy it so its not all on the men. |
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
It'd die a death. |
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"Being pegged is one of the best sexual experiences I had in life. Even scientifically, men should get more pleasure out of it than women due to the presence of prostate gland nearby. If men were more open-minded and literate in this matter, you may actually see an increase in anal sex in your hypothetical scenario
100% agree. Not saying all would enjoy it but I think a lot more would if they were willing to try it.
But as stated, a lot of men think enjoying it will make them gay or appear gay. Some women think the same of men who enjoy it so its not all on the men."
It is probably my single favourite sex act. I’ve been pegged by quite a few women, including a group scenario in a club... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To all the men who have recently experienced it and never looked back, do you wish you'd opened up (pun intended) sooner? "
Yes I wish I knew about it in my 20s when I was actually sexually active |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it just surprises me that so many men love giving anal but instantly refuse to even try it. Maybe its just me, but how can you say you don't like something if you've never tried? "
I'm quite sure that bisexual and gay guys would disagree! And even some straight guys will enjoy it. |
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"I guess it just surprises me that so many men love giving anal but instantly refuse to even try it. Maybe its just me, but how can you say you don't like something if you've never tried?
I'm quite sure that bisexual and gay guys would disagree! And even some straight guys will enjoy it. "
Not disagreeing with you at all. I know there are plenty out there who do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have always been of the mind that I won't do anything to you that I wouldn't let you do to me. I have had analysis sex before but yet to find a woman willing to peg me in return |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have always been of the mind that I won't do anything to you that I wouldn't let you do to me. I have had analysis sex before but yet to find a woman willing to peg me in return "
No I couldn’t find a woman willing to peg me so I decided to try a cock instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have always been of the mind that I won't do anything to you that I wouldn't let you do to me. I have had analysis sex before but yet to find a woman willing to peg me in return "
Anal. Damn autocarrot |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
that would only encourage me  |
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I think the fundamental problem is the difference between giving are receiving.
That said, Anal sex is over-rated. Not sure why some people would see it as a big deal if the other person isn't into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it just surprises me that so many men love giving anal but instantly refuse to even try it. Maybe its just me, but how can you say you don't like something if you've never tried? "
Tried it, just don't like it |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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"But what pleasure does a woman get from a guy receiving it?"
Depends really, there's a power dynamic that really turns some women on, you need to remember that sex is as much in the mind as the genitals and that switch over can get a woman more excited than any ten minute finger bang from a man who puts the word Dom in his profile because he's read 50 shades of grey.
There are also "me too" strap on's that have a part that go into the women so she can get pleasure whilst she pegs the man, and some also have bullets in them to stimulate the clit.
Basically once you get your head round the idea that good sex isn't just penetration your sex life goes up a notch (or ten) |
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"I guess it just surprises me that so many men love giving anal but instantly refuse to even try it. Maybe its just me, but how can you say you don't like something if you've never tried?
Tried it, just don't like it"
Nothing wrong with that. Everyone has likes and dislikes after all |
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
Double the pleasure, sign me up. Tbh I prefer receiving to giving, especially from a sexy girl with a strap on, unless I’m with someone who gets off on receiving then I love, love, love to oblige  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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God maybe I'm totally closed minded on this one, but I wouldn't want to do this with a guy at all. For me, I guess I like the traditional set up... You bring the dick, I'll bring the holes. End of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity, how much of a decline would we see in anal if it became tit for tat.
Someone wants to finger your ass, they'll need to take the same, and so on...
Thoughts?"
Absolutely no problems here for that although I'm not sure where my tat is! |
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"Any guy who wants to give anal to a woman needs to own up to his own sexuality.
A straight guy has no wish to stick it in a body waste egress when theres a perfectly natural ingress for that purpose.
That logic cannot be countered.
Can never work out if you’re joking or not. Excellent commitment to miserable posts though. "
I love this every time I see it
As for me, what's good for the goose is good for the gander so if anyone wanted to turn the tables on me then I'd be only too happy to oblige.
Does it mean im gay if a woman sticks something up my arse? How stupid is that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a giver not a receiver. Not a chance I'll take it.
I think sex is about both (all) people having fun. It's not tit for tat.
I also give but don't like to receive oral.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"God maybe I'm totally closed minded on this one, but I wouldn't want to do this with a guy at all. For me, I guess I like the traditional set up... You bring the dick, I'll bring the holes. End of."
love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a giver not a receiver. Not a chance I'll take it.
I think sex is about both (all) people having fun. It's not tit for tat.
I also give but don't like to receive oral.
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That's you off my hot list! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a giver not a receiver. Not a chance I'll take it.
I think sex is about both (all) people having fun. It's not tit for tat.
I also give but don't like to receive oral.
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Once I’ve taken it I’m incapable of giving it, I’m usually a jibbering wreck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they were up for it then I'm game, having seen guys pleasure from having that area played with I don't see why some guys don't, don't knock it till you've tried it "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once a guy has a great prostate orgasm he will be begging to get his asshole fingered . Most guys have never had a prostate orgasm . Once they do the sales of vibrators and dildos will skyrocket . |
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"Once a guy has a great prostate orgasm he will be begging to get his asshole fingered . Most guys have never had a prostate orgasm . Once they do the sales of vibrators and dildos will skyrocket . "
Literally mind bending. I've had multiple orgasms this way and it takes some getting used to having an orgasm, without jizz erupting from your cock! |
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