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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never really understood the new year, new me saying. We all seem to be looking for ways to fix something or change something about ourselves. I've been guilty of this too in the past but not this year.
It's been a tough year, in all aspects and I for one am grateful to have just made it through. So for 2021, ill be doing no resolutions, no fake promises and no unrealistic goals.
Going into the new year confident in who I am, proud of what I've achieved and grateful for those around me.
Here's to 2021.. a year of loving harder, hugging tighter and laughing louder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good for you ! I’m Gonna lose weight, get fit, learn a new skill and jump out of a plane....... again  "
Haha yes me too!
Apart from the jumping out of a plane - I did that and the only good thing about it was that I was alive at the end  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, if I ever get allowed to be d*unk in Brum again I wanna hear you laughing from like 4 miles away or I'm totally calling you out on this thread I just bookmarked.   "
Challenge accepted |
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I’ve never done resolutions and the one year I made plans for myself, 2020, that all went to pot, but delivered something I wasn’t expecting at all.
So I’ll just be taking it one day at a time, as I’ve always done previously and see where the path leads me. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Brilliant post OP. I'm tired of thinking I have to reach a size 14 before I'm attractive. This coming year I'm going to actually enjoy myself, stop saying no, stop beating myself up for not being this ideal I have in my mind which is absurd. I have a lot to be proud about and should embrace that.
I do want to love harder, laugh louder, live more. I have a lot to love about myself and I don't want to regret not living life to the fullest because I didn't think I was enough. I'm more than enough, as are we all.
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I love New Year. A time to use our Janus head to look back and forwards. It has certainly been a different year but there have been positives too.
I like your resolutions op. A year to cherish freedoms and interactions with people. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make one resolution every single year and have never broken it! So once again my NY resolution is to not make any NYs resolutions ... feel it's going to be hard this year   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant post OP. I'm tired of thinking I have to reach a size 14 before I'm attractive. This coming year I'm going to actually enjoy myself, stop saying no, stop beating myself up for not being this ideal I have in my mind which is absurd. I have a lot to be proud about and should embrace that.
I do want to love harder, laugh louder, live more. I have a lot to love about myself and I don't want to regret not living life to the fullest because I didn't think I was enough. I'm more than enough, as are we all.
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I wish I had known this at 30!
I was about to write exactly this - but not sure knowing the information makes me know how to apply it
Small steps x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Brilliant post OP. I'm tired of thinking I have to reach a size 14 before I'm attractive. This coming year I'm going to actually enjoy myself, stop saying no, stop beating myself up for not being this ideal I have in my mind which is absurd. I have a lot to be proud about and should embrace that.
I do want to love harder, laugh louder, live more. I have a lot to love about myself and I don't want to regret not living life to the fullest because I didn't think I was enough. I'm more than enough, as are we all.
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Absolutely we all need to stop chasing this ideal in our mind and just be happy with who we are. Your a beautiful woman, don't ever think otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve never done resolutions and the one year I made plans for myself, 2020, that all went to pot, but delivered something I wasn’t expecting at all.
So I’ll just be taking it one day at a time, as I’ve always done previously and see where the path leads me. "
Exactly, just take each day as it comes and try to be happy is the best way too spend the year |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Brilliant post OP. I'm tired of thinking I have to reach a size 14 before I'm attractive. This coming year I'm going to actually enjoy myself, stop saying no, stop beating myself up for not being this ideal I have in my mind which is absurd. I have a lot to be proud about and should embrace that.
I do want to love harder, laugh louder, live more. I have a lot to love about myself and I don't want to regret not living life to the fullest because I didn't think I was enough. I'm more than enough, as are we all.
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Attractive to you ? Or to others ?
You have the most delectable body embrace it lots of woman will kill for those curves now days . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Brilliant post OP. I'm tired of thinking I have to reach a size 14 before I'm attractive. This coming year I'm going to actually enjoy myself, stop saying no, stop beating myself up for not being this ideal I have in my mind which is absurd. I have a lot to be proud about and should embrace that.
I do want to love harder, laugh louder, live more. I have a lot to love about myself and I don't want to regret not living life to the fullest because I didn't think I was enough. I'm more than enough, as are we all.
I wish I had known this at 30!
I was about to write exactly this - but not sure knowing the information makes me know how to apply it
Small steps x
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We all should know this from a young age, very good advice |
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Fantastic, I love that so good on you! I never ever do the new year new me thing, mainly because I don’t like being told that that’s the date you should do it on haha! I tend to make changes on a random date I’ve chosen! 2021 will involve cutting out people who treat me like shit and have no respect for me! 2020 has highlighted those fake friends, so bye bye  . We deserve to be treated kindly, don’t forget that folks. Miss PC xx ps I would mention eat less chocolate, but let’s keep it real, that’s never going to happen  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I make one resolution every single year and have never broken it! So once again my NY resolution is to not make any NYs resolutions ... feel it's going to be hard this year "
Best resolution there is! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fantastic, I love that so good on you! I never ever do the new year new me thing, mainly because I don’t like being told that that’s the date you should do it on haha! I tend to make changes on a random date I’ve chosen! 2021 will involve cutting out people who treat me like shit and have no respect for me! 2020 has highlighted those fake friends, so bye bye . We deserve to be treated kindly, don’t forget that folks. Miss PC xx ps I would mention eat less chocolate, but let’s keep it real, that’s never going to happen "
Good advice, surround yourself with people who are kind to you always PS. We all need a bit of chocolate joy in our lives, so keep that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good for you.
I start every year with that but the reality is I'll still be fat and will make the same mistakes all over again by next christmas.
What will be will be now |
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2021 for me will be to keep hope and expectations to an absolute minimum.
That helps avoid disappointment and is always a softer kick in the nuts at the end of the year.
The Bigger you dream, the harder the fall. I like the minimalistic approach  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"2021 for me will be to keep hope and expectations to an absolute minimum.
That helps avoid disappointment and is always a softer kick in the nuts at the end of the year.
The Bigger you dream, the harder the fall. I like the minimalistic approach "
Don't ever stop dreaming or give up hope. It's all we have sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the end of the year really give people a chance to reflect on what's happened and gives hope for what could be.
I like to make a list of what I would like to achieve and I if I can accomplish 2 or 3 of them I'm happy as it's at least shown progress on the year before  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the end of the year really give people a chance to reflect on what's happened and gives hope for what could be.
I like to make a list of what I would like to achieve and I if I can accomplish 2 or 3 of them I'm happy as it's at least shown progress on the year before "
Nothing wrong with a bit of reflection and hope absolutely |
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"OP, if I ever get allowed to be d*unk in Brum again I wanna hear you laughing from like 4 miles away or I'm totally calling you out on this thread I just bookmarked. "
If you ever get d*unk in Brum again I want a sodding invite! |
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I'm the opposite. I never make resolutions or vow to change things in the new year.
However, this year, I am haha. I'm gonna get fit again. I got really fit during the first lockdown but slipped again when back at work so going to get back on it and stop making excuses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm the opposite. I never make resolutions or vow to change things in the new year.
However, this year, I am haha. I'm gonna get fit again. I got really fit during the first lockdown but slipped again when back at work so going to get back on it and stop making excuses. "
I second that one, nothing wrong with fitness. Mine's a working progress but I'll get there |
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"I’ve never done resolutions and the one year I made plans for myself, 2020, that all went to pot, but delivered something I wasn’t expecting at all.
So I’ll just be taking it one day at a time, as I’ve always done previously and see where the path leads me.
Exactly, just take each day as it comes and try to be happy is the best way too spend the year "
It worked this year so why change it, smiles all around |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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Tbh though I'm just gonna let life bring what it brings
2018 ended on a shit note.. relationship ended
2019 spent picking myself back up and building myself up again
2020 this will be the year.... Oh wait!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get fitter and healthier, not so fussed about dropping dress sizes or pounds, just wanna climb the stairs to my flat without feeling like I'm gonna die haha"
Im with you on that one! However, you are stunning already |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve never done resolutions and the one year I made plans for myself, 2020, that all went to pot, but delivered something I wasn’t expecting at all.
So I’ll just be taking it one day at a time, as I’ve always done previously and see where the path leads me.
Exactly, just take each day as it comes and try to be happy is the best way too spend the year
It worked this year so why change it, smiles all around "
Very true |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Get fitter and healthier, not so fussed about dropping dress sizes or pounds, just wanna climb the stairs to my flat without feeling like I'm gonna die haha
Im with you on that one! However, you are stunning already "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't compete with anyone so I don't. Haven't for years. There is always someone better than me. "
You don't need to compete, your lovely as you are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tbh though I'm just gonna let life bring what it brings
2018 ended on a shit note.. relationship ended
2019 spent picking myself back up and building myself up again
2020 this will be the year.... Oh wait! "
Just take each day as it comes, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never make resolutions but I plan to spend more time having fun than working.."
I swear ive been on fab too long, I read that as wanking at first agreed fun comes before work! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2021 atm is a bit of a dont know for everyone .
I so hope this shite is over because if it is I am so looking forward to next year "
Hopefully it will be over soon and next year will be better |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"2021 atm is a bit of a dont know for everyone .
I so hope this shite is over because if it is I am so looking forward to next year
Hopefully it will be over soon and next year will be better "
Yes please xx |
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By *elethWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, if I ever get allowed to be d*unk in Brum again I wanna hear you laughing from like 4 miles away or I'm totally calling you out on this thread I just bookmarked.
If you ever get d*unk in Brum again I want a sodding invite! "
Me too, that's the sort of thing that needs witnessing with one's own eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the same old thing again. I have to be this or that for someone to want or like me. Millions of people all have different wants needs, big, small, hairy or not etc etc.
Be what you are embrace what you got. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Super post OP! I agree wholeheartedly. Well done to all of us! We are enough. So much love to all, and here's to an easier 2021 "
Thank you, yes lets look forward to a happier 2021 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Great post OP.
D you know I know! 
Meli said it beautifully though!
Here's to a positively healthy 2021!
Jo.Xx "
Yes happy and healthy is all we need for the new year |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the same old thing again. I have to be this or that for someone to want or like me. Millions of people all have different wants needs, big, small, hairy or not etc etc.
Be what you are embrace what you got. "
Exactly, always be you no matter what |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I believe in bettering once self either by keeping fit or developing a new skill. Every year, I put myself on a course that would help me either at work or personally.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I believe in bettering once self either by keeping fit or developing a new skill. Every year, I put myself on a course that would help me either at work or personally...."
Absolutely, nothing wrong with having goals |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend not to make new year resolutions. If I want to set goals etc will just do them as and when.
Alice x"
Me too, I find I achieve them easier like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the same old thing again. I have to be this or that for someone to want or like me. Millions of people all have different wants needs, big, small, hairy or not etc etc.
Be what you are embrace what you got. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll keep it simple. Just to say healthy and hope my family and friends are good.
Happy and healthy is all we need "
Up for trying being rich, unhappy and unhealthy forces change! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm still going to be the awkward, sarcastic and socially unacceptable shit that people'love' about me "
Well I love a awkward sarcastic little shit.. most likely because I am one too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll keep it simple. Just to say healthy and hope my family and friends are good.
Happy and healthy is all we need
Up for trying being rich, unhappy and unhealthy forces change!"
Happy and healthy is the way forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ll keep it simple. Just to say healthy and hope my family and friends are good.
Happy and healthy is all we need
Up for trying being rich, unhappy and unhealthy forces change!
Happy and healthy is the way forward "
In your council house!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ll keep it simple. Just to say healthy and hope my family and friends are good.
Happy and healthy is all we need
Up for trying being rich, unhappy and unhealthy forces change!
Happy and healthy is the way forward
In your council house! "
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