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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they fancy you. 
They may identify as straight. They may not be 'out' in real life and need to hide their sexuality in case anyone they know sees their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Girl its obvious they want you
But why start a thread about it
You start threads with single random words as the OP.
You what?"
People can start whatever threads they like within the rules.
She started the thread to ask a question.  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Girl its obvious they want you
But why start a thread about it
You start threads with single random words as the OP.
You what?
People can start whatever threads they like within the rules.
She started the thread to ask a question. "
I know she can most of my emails are from straight men x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because the site doesn't have enough options for sexuality - some of us are not included by the limited options on here so we put straight even though we don't identify as straight, bi curious or bi.
I am none of those things |
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"So why do so many straight men keep messaging me on here looking for meets ??"
Same reason we often get bi/curious guys messaging us. They don't bother to read our profile first and quite a few then go on to claim that they're not really b/b-c at all despite their profiles stating it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does this question come up at least once a month?
Who cares?
What's the obsession with how people label themselves?"
Because people on here are hugely judgemental, and sexuality matters to a lot of people.
I agree with you, labels shouldn't matter but it's annoying not being able to express your preference and being forced to choose between options that don't include you |
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"Why does this question come up at least once a month?
Who cares?
What's the obsession with how people label themselves?"
We couldn't care less how people label themselves, we're just not interested in bi/b-c guys and appreciate honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does this question come up at least once a month?
Who cares?
What's the obsession with how people label themselves?
We couldn't care less how people label themselves, we're just not interested in bi/b-c guys and appreciate honesty. "
I'm curious to know why you won't meet bi or bi curious men? Feel free not to answer, I'm just interested in the thought behind it |
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I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption. |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption. "
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot"
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply. |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply."
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read "
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it. |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it."
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own"
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site! |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!"
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both "
Or nothing at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both "
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you. |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you."
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you.
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality "
You just said I'm bi in your eyes.
Then you said you don't get to feel what I do about my sexuality
Which is it? You can't have it both ways.
And as I said before, it isn't that black & white. I have zero desire for men, and I don't think about men at all on a daily basis - however, if I'm in a group situation and the moment arises, sometimes I will and have played with guys. Clear?
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you.
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality
You just said I'm bi in your eyes.
Then you said you don't get to feel what I do about my sexuality
Which is it? You can't have it both ways.
And as I said before, it isn't that black & white. I have zero desire for men, and I don't think about men at all on a daily basis - however, if I'm in a group situation and the moment arises, sometimes I will and have played with guys. Clear?
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That's through my eyes not yours, doesn't mean I'm feeling your sexuality for you does it? It's my opinion and that is all.
Yes that's clear but you're saying you are attracted to them right?
I'm not attracted to men and won't play with them which makes me straight. It's impossible to be straight and be attracted to and want to play with men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you.
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality
You just said I'm bi in your eyes.
Then you said you don't get to feel what I do about my sexuality
Which is it? You can't have it both ways.
And as I said before, it isn't that black & white. I have zero desire for men, and I don't think about men at all on a daily basis - however, if I'm in a group situation and the moment arises, sometimes I will and have played with guys. Clear?
That's through my eyes not yours, doesn't mean I'm feeling your sexuality for you does it? It's my opinion and that is all.
Yes that's clear but you're saying you are attracted to them right?
I'm not attracted to men and won't play with them which makes me straight. It's impossible to be straight and be attracted to and want to play with men"
I don't think you get this - you keep making judgements but keep saying you're not judging me. You are. Repeatedly. It's fine, I don't care, but I just wish people would have more self awareness and actually understand what they're saying on this subject.
I feel entirely straight, because I do not fancy men. Yes? In a play scenario, I have played with men, but not because I'm all of a sudden massively into men. I'm not sure why I feel compelled to justify this to you! |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you.
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality
You just said I'm bi in your eyes.
Then you said you don't get to feel what I do about my sexuality
Which is it? You can't have it both ways.
And as I said before, it isn't that black & white. I have zero desire for men, and I don't think about men at all on a daily basis - however, if I'm in a group situation and the moment arises, sometimes I will and have played with guys. Clear?
That's through my eyes not yours, doesn't mean I'm feeling your sexuality for you does it? It's my opinion and that is all.
Yes that's clear but you're saying you are attracted to them right?
I'm not attracted to men and won't play with them which makes me straight. It's impossible to be straight and be attracted to and want to play with men
I don't think you get this - you keep making judgements but keep saying you're not judging me. You are. Repeatedly. It's fine, I don't care, but I just wish people would have more self awareness and actually understand what they're saying on this subject.
I feel entirely straight, because I do not fancy men. Yes? In a play scenario, I have played with men, but not because I'm all of a sudden massively into men. I'm not sure why I feel compelled to justify this to you!"
Ok so by play you don't touch them or anything, just play with a woman involved?
I'm not making any judgements, I'm just giving my opinion and the way I see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you.
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality
You just said I'm bi in your eyes.
Then you said you don't get to feel what I do about my sexuality
Which is it? You can't have it both ways.
And as I said before, it isn't that black & white. I have zero desire for men, and I don't think about men at all on a daily basis - however, if I'm in a group situation and the moment arises, sometimes I will and have played with guys. Clear?
That's through my eyes not yours, doesn't mean I'm feeling your sexuality for you does it? It's my opinion and that is all.
Yes that's clear but you're saying you are attracted to them right?
I'm not attracted to men and won't play with them which makes me straight. It's impossible to be straight and be attracted to and want to play with men
I don't think you get this - you keep making judgements but keep saying you're not judging me. You are. Repeatedly. It's fine, I don't care, but I just wish people would have more self awareness and actually understand what they're saying on this subject.
I feel entirely straight, because I do not fancy men. Yes? In a play scenario, I have played with men, but not because I'm all of a sudden massively into men. I'm not sure why I feel compelled to justify this to you!
Ok so by play you don't touch them or anything, just play with a woman involved?
I'm not making any judgements, I'm just giving my opinion and the way I see it "
And there it is - the old classic, "it's just my opinion". This is you judging, over and over.
OK I'm going to leave it there - we're flogging a dead horse.. Have a nice Sunday |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
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I said this in another thread recently and it fits here too. I'm straight, I like women. I don't like men, not even when they're dressed in a frock on a Friday night, no matter how good he tells me he looks. But nor do I thin that "you like cock or pussy" is very helpful, I don't believe in reducing someone to the sum of their genitalia. I would date a trans woman - emphasis on a woman, someone who just happens to have (or have had) a penis, if she's my type. Nothing to do with her genitalia. I'd date her because I was attracted to her, whether or not I knew from the start she was trans.
BUT
By the same token, I wouldn't date a trans man (because yes, it's a two way street) on the grounds that "he has a pussy, I'm straight so I like pussies, so I should like him" which is pretty much the same logic as lots of people here seem to use when it comes to defining straight/bi/gay.
I've no interest in men whatever their genitalia, but would never say no to a woman purely because of hers if she were my type (and to be fair, most of the trans women here aren't).
The whole labels thing is pretty unhelpful though too on here, as it lumps everyone from "bloke who wears a frock for sexual thrills on Friday night" to "man/woman who just happens to have different genitals" in the same category, which neither helps those seeking/open to one or the other, nor the wider community understanding of the difference between sexuality and gender. |
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"I don’t pay attention to what it is listed on the profile anymore.
Have had guys who are straight list themselves as bisexual in order to stand out from the crowd and have also had the reverse.
If they are messaging me then they must be interested is my assumption.
I don't understand why anyone would list orientation as anything other than what it actually is because they will surely just be shooting themselves in the foot
What if your sexual orientation isn't listed on here? There are only 3 options for me - none of them apply.
Then write it in your profile or as header for those too lazy to read
I have done exactly that, but people don't read profiles, and it would still be nice to have the chance to make the choice wouldn't it.
Also it gives you choice of straight, bi, bi curious or gay so there's not any other options to put there really unless you've made a orientation of your own
What? There are tons of other alternative sexualities. I'll give you just a few off the top of my head:
Pansexual
Demisexual
Mono
Poly
Omnisexual
The list goes on and on.....even Govt websites have these options but not on a sex site!
Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
No it doesn't. It comes down to way more than that - not everything is quite so black & white - my desires change constantly. Also, and with respect, you don't get to choose what someone else feels about their sexuality just because it doesn't apply to you.
So some days you want cock and some you want pussy, that's bi in my eye's.
Some days I want meat and some I don't but I'm still a meat eater not a vegetarian.
I never said I did get to feel what you do about your sexuality
You just said I'm bi in your eyes.
Then you said you don't get to feel what I do about my sexuality
Which is it? You can't have it both ways.
And as I said before, it isn't that black & white. I have zero desire for men, and I don't think about men at all on a daily basis - however, if I'm in a group situation and the moment arises, sometimes I will and have played with guys. Clear?
That's through my eyes not yours, doesn't mean I'm feeling your sexuality for you does it? It's my opinion and that is all.
Yes that's clear but you're saying you are attracted to them right?
I'm not attracted to men and won't play with them which makes me straight. It's impossible to be straight and be attracted to and want to play with men
I don't think you get this - you keep making judgements but keep saying you're not judging me. You are. Repeatedly. It's fine, I don't care, but I just wish people would have more self awareness and actually understand what they're saying on this subject.
I feel entirely straight, because I do not fancy men. Yes? In a play scenario, I have played with men, but not because I'm all of a sudden massively into men. I'm not sure why I feel compelled to justify this to you!
Ok so by play you don't touch them or anything, just play with a woman involved?
I'm not making any judgements, I'm just giving my opinion and the way I see it
And there it is - the old classic, "it's just my opinion". This is you judging, over and over.
OK I'm going to leave it there - we're flogging a dead horse.. Have a nice Sunday"
That's exactly what it is and sorry but sounds like a bit in the closet to me, again my opinion that people aren't allowed to have in your eyes and I'm not judging anyone and I never have done.
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Yes but at the end of the day it comes down to you either like pussy, dick or both
I said this in another thread recently and it fits here too. I'm straight, I like women. I don't like men, not even when they're dressed in a frock on a Friday night, no matter how good he tells me he looks. But nor do I thin that "you like cock or pussy" is very helpful, I don't believe in reducing someone to the sum of their genitalia. I would date a trans woman - emphasis on a woman, someone who just happens to have (or have had) a penis, if she's my type. Nothing to do with her genitalia. I'd date her because I was attracted to her, whether or not I knew from the start she was trans.
BUT
By the same token, I wouldn't date a trans man (because yes, it's a two way street) on the grounds that "he has a pussy, I'm straight so I like pussies, so I should like him" which is pretty much the same logic as lots of people here seem to use when it comes to defining straight/bi/gay.
I've no interest in men whatever their genitalia, but would never say no to a woman purely because of hers if she were my type (and to be fair, most of the trans women here aren't).
The whole labels thing is pretty unhelpful though too on here, as it lumps everyone from "bloke who wears a frock for sexual thrills on Friday night" to "man/woman who just happens to have different genitals" in the same category, which neither helps those seeking/open to one or the other, nor the wider community understanding of the difference between sexuality and gender."
Life is getting way too complicated nowadays, I don't judge anyone for liking what they like, it's up to them and doesn't affect me in any way but people should just be open and honest about it and not care what people think. We're all here because we want fun or just some good conversation |
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"Girl its obvious they want you
But why start a thread about it
Because it’s a public forum and a fair question.
Yes it is I was asking keep your childish digs to yourself."
Stating this is a public forum and the Ops question is fair one to ask is a dig, ah ok. |
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Maybe it’s because gynosexual is not an option for sexual orientation on the site. They may be attracted to the feminine form regardless of gender. As such they wouldn’t consider themselves anything but straight. Because they aren’t attracted to the masculine form. |
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Well, all sorts of reasons OP as discussed above and in all previous similar threads.
If I got any, I'll take it as a compliment.
You can only control your own action and not other's.
In this site, many people are intimidated by other people's opinion on their sexuality, who they meet etc 
Pity to the people whose pleasure depends on the permission of others but then, to a certain extent, we all are. |
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"Maybe it’s because gynosexual is not an option for sexual orientation on the site. They may be attracted to the feminine form regardless of gender. As such they wouldn’t consider themselves anything but straight. Because they aren’t attracted to the masculine form."
I didn't know this was a thing but very well explained! I saw someone higher up say that you're either attracted to dick, pussy, or both but it's not as simple as that.
It would be interesting to see whether people think being attracted to a FTM trans person would be straight or bi as we usually only see this debate come up with MTF trans people. But I'm sure that's a conversation for another day  |
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"Maybe it’s because gynosexual is not an option for sexual orientation on the site. They may be attracted to the feminine form regardless of gender. As such they wouldn’t consider themselves anything but straight. Because they aren’t attracted to the masculine form.
I didn't know this was a thing but very well explained! I saw someone higher up say that you're either attracted to dick, pussy, or both but it's not as simple as that.
It would be interesting to see whether people think being attracted to a FTM trans person would be straight or bi as we usually only see this debate come up with MTF trans people. But I'm sure that's a conversation for another day "
Surly if have muscle or not doesn't really make a difference because a dick is a dick. I can only see it from my point of view at the end of the day and everyone is different and that's what makes the world interesting and intriguing.
To me it is that simple but that's me and I only speak for myself as a guy that's only attracted to women.
I understand it's not the same for everyone though |
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