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Why is it hard for single lads on here lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, it's hard because of the ratio of women to men, mainly, I think!
There's such an abundance of every kind of man, basically"
For women its Like the scene from Aliens where she writhes about in a pit of alien bodies, only its with every kind of man. And all the drool  |
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"It is defo hard work. I had one meet but apart from that nothing. But as one guy said if easy then it’s boring. "
Lmao your right like bro had a load of lads message me at first thought it's just men on here had to block men some proper creepy fuxxxrs on here |
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"It's hard because it's a swinging site
it should actually just be couples looking for couples"
Swinging hasn't always been couples for couples, people have always looked for an extra man for MMF etc. The 'M' is single. |
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There are a lot of unkind and desperate men on here that think that the women amongst us are there for the mens pleasure and not their own. Most using explicit or inappropriate first contact messages or pictures, and when turned down get they get abusive with messages. This makes it very difficult for genuinly interested singletons to engage properly with the ladies as their suspicions are rightfully aroused. Be gentle guys, respect goes a long way.  |
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"It's hard because it's a swinging site
it should actually just be couples looking for couples
Swinging hasn't always been couples for couples, people have always looked for an extra man for MMF etc. The 'M' is single."
Yep. Also you get plenty of couples like me and my partner. We meet others one on one. We don't generally meet together and don't generally seek other couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Won't lie they a few creeps on here which I think if makes it hard for us genuines what's your thoughts "
How so, you think women presume men operate as a collective unit and not as the individuals we undoubtedly are ?! |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive. "
Lmao some answer that lmao and j know what you mean think it's cause they get that much interest feels like they think they gods gift some of them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
Lmao some answer that lmao and j know what you mean think it's cause they get that much interest feels like they think they gods gift some of them x"
Why would you expect women to be 'interested' during the worst health crisis in hundreds of years?
Im curious as to your thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus the pandemicky world won't be helping
You just made that word up 
I make most words up
Usually they have accompanying actions  "
Cuntspangle is my favourite word of the day |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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"You guys have had meets. Ive been trying for a month now. Still nothing x"
Sorry to break it to you but I've been on here years and not had a meet from here. I've met people from here at socials and in clubs but never as a result of messaging. I suspect that's the same as for lots of other men here.
(Obviously no physical meets anyway during covid, cam meets, all the usual disclaimers) |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
"Plus the pandemicky world won't be helping
You just made that word up
All words are made up.
It was a joke, Peach understood that  "
I was also joking. It's one of my favourite lines from Thor in Infinity War. (And it's also true, making it even more funny, in my opinion). |
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I think it depends what you expect from here. If you're looking for easy sex then you will find it difficult. If you're looking to engage with swingers or find people with unique attitudes to sexuality then with a bit of perseverance, you'll find what you seek. |
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"You guys have had meets. Ive been trying for a month now. Still nothing x
Possibly from this thing called the pandemic and most of my meets are from clubs and socials pre covid"
Can confirm Joel is real, very tall and handy for removing dr*nk Irish men from your wheelchair at 2am (or was it 3am?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The dickheads don't ruin anything for anyone but themselves. If anything, they make the good guys stand out.
Any one can be successful here.
You get out what you put in.
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"You guys have had meets. Ive been trying for a month now. Still nothing x
Possibly from this thing called the pandemic and most of my meets are from clubs and socials pre covid
Can confirm Joel is real, very tall and handy for removing dr*nk Irish men from your wheelchair at 2am (or was it 3am?) "
Am I, I thought I was a digital construct haha and if my memory serves me right I think it was closer to 1am |
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"You guys have had meets. Ive been trying for a month now. Still nothing x
Possibly from this thing called the pandemic and most of my meets are from clubs and socials pre covid
Can confirm Joel is real, very tall and handy for removing dr*nk Irish men from your wheelchair at 2am (or was it 3am?)
Am I, I thought I was a digital construct haha and if my memory serves me right I think it was closer to 1am"
And I'd been on the lemonades all night 
It was after the lights came up anyway  |
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"You guys have had meets. Ive been trying for a month now. Still nothing x
Possibly from this thing called the pandemic and most of my meets are from clubs and socials pre covid
Can confirm Joel is real, very tall and handy for removing dr*nk Irish men from your wheelchair at 2am (or was it 3am?)
Am I, I thought I was a digital construct haha and if my memory serves me right I think it was closer to 1am
And I'd been on the lemonades all night
It was after the lights came up anyway "
Plus it’s what an honourable gentleman should do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
Lmao some answer that lmao and j know what you mean think it's cause they get that much interest feels like they think they gods gift some of them x
Why would you expect women to be 'interested' during the worst health crisis in hundreds of years?
Im curious as to your thinking"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is defo hard work. I had one meet but apart from that nothing. But as one guy said if easy then it’s boring.
Lmao your right like bro had a load of lads message me at first thought it's just men on here had to block men some proper creepy fuxxxrs on here "
Yep that's why some women block all men. Or their raging sex drive turns to fanny dust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive. "
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Mine stinks, especially after loads of veggies.
You come across as if you really hate women."
Good.
That's the way I need to come across with 99.9% of the birds on here.
Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its tough for guys as your outnumbered, that's it. Don't bust your ass trying to be what someone else wants you to be. Be you, have a sense of humour and you will end up meeting the right people |
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"Its tough for guys as your outnumbered, that's it. Don't bust your ass trying to be what someone else wants you to be. Be you, have a sense of humour and you will end up meeting the right people "
Spot on |
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"Its tough for guys as your outnumbered, that's it. Don't bust your ass trying to be what someone else wants you to be. Be you, have a sense of humour and you will end up meeting the right people "
The big shiny nail of the thread has been well and truly hit on the head! |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive."
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Mine stinks, especially after loads of veggies.
You come across as if you really hate women.
Good.
That's the way I need to come across with 99.9% of the birds on here.
Thanks."
Gosh, aren’t you the charmer.
Your turn off phrase is clearly a dig at the women you think are less attractive than the demand for them would lead them to believe.
No need for nastiness. It’s supply and demand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive.
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers? "
Yeh...your kinda struggling now.
Looking desperate.
But hey! This is your kinda place.
Enjoy(transient verb) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Mine stinks, especially after loads of veggies.
You come across as if you really hate women.
Good.
That's the way I need to come across with 99.9% of the birds on here.
Thanks.
Gosh, aren’t you the charmer.
Your turn off phrase is clearly a dig at the women you think are less attractive than the demand for them would lead them to believe.
No need for nastiness. It’s supply and demand. "
I'm not here to charm.im not bothered by anyone on here and god forbid,want to meet them.
I'm not being nasty.thats your interpretation. |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive.
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers?
Yeh...your kinda struggling now.
Looking desperate.
But hey! This is your kinda place.
Enjoy(transient verb)"
Struggling? I'm having a joke . Desperate for what? |
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"If it was easy it would be boring
Rubbish. If it was easy I'd be having too much fun to be bored.
If easy is fulfilling for you then that’s great  "
Look at it this way: You want a thing.
After much time, effort and suffering you get the thing.
Alternatively, you immediately just get the thing. No mess or fuss.
Would you *really* choose to go through all the stress and misery first? It's absurd to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive.
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers?
Yeh...your kinda struggling now.
Looking desperate.
But hey! This is your kinda place.
Enjoy(transient verb)
Struggling? I'm having a joke . Desperate for what? "
Jumping in on this as I don’t know if it’s just meant to stir the forums up.
Fab attracts all people from all walks of life. If you think the woman are up themselves then you should read some of the men’s profiles. They are not better with demands and expectations or lack of effort but expect everyone to drop at their feet.
I was contacted by a couple this morning been on here over a year. Not verified genuine and unwilling to send pics of them. When I asked they blocked me
Horses for courses on here. We all have an option if we don’t like it, hide your profile for a bit or leave. Men slagging off woman and woman slagging off men gets you nowhere especially with the “green arrow” so people can see what you’ve been saying and will form an opinion
Last night was great in here on the forums and everyone was getting involved in a game. No arguments. Just good fun. Join in and you’ll soon see a change in how people interact with you |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive.
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers?
Yeh...your kinda struggling now.
Looking desperate.
But hey! This is your kinda place.
Enjoy(transient verb)
Struggling? I'm having a joke . Desperate for what?
Jumping in on this as I don’t know if it’s just meant to stir the forums up.
Fab attracts all people from all walks of life. If you think the woman are up themselves then you should read some of the men’s profiles. They are not better with demands and expectations or lack of effort but expect everyone to drop at their feet.
I was contacted by a couple this morning been on here over a year. Not verified genuine and unwilling to send pics of them. When I asked they blocked me
Horses for courses on here. We all have an option if we don’t like it, hide your profile for a bit or leave. Men slagging off woman and woman slagging off men gets you nowhere especially with the “green arrow” so people can see what you’ve been saying and will form an opinion
Last night was great in here on the forums and everyone was getting involved in a game. No arguments. Just good fun. Join in and you’ll soon see a change in how people interact with you "
Is this supposed to be a reply to me or have you replied to the wrong comment as I can't see where I've slagged off men and I have no issues with how most people interact with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive.
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers?
Yeh...your kinda struggling now.
Looking desperate.
But hey! This is your kinda place.
Enjoy(transient verb)
Struggling? I'm having a joke . Desperate for what?
Jumping in on this as I don’t know if it’s just meant to stir the forums up.
Fab attracts all people from all walks of life. If you think the woman are up themselves then you should read some of the men’s profiles. They are not better with demands and expectations or lack of effort but expect everyone to drop at their feet.
I was contacted by a couple this morning been on here over a year. Not verified genuine and unwilling to send pics of them. When I asked they blocked me
Horses for courses on here. We all have an option if we don’t like it, hide your profile for a bit or leave. Men slagging off woman and woman slagging off men gets you nowhere especially with the “green arrow” so people can see what you’ve been saying and will form an opinion
Last night was great in here on the forums and everyone was getting involved in a game. No arguments. Just good fun. Join in and you’ll soon see a change in how people interact with you
Is this supposed to be a reply to me or have you replied to the wrong comment as I can't see where I've slagged off men and I have no issues with how most people interact with me. "
No sorry is actually to the person you’re talking to and agreeing with your opinion |
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People tend to find their own matches, everyone isn't for everyone.
Ive had plenty of knock backs, but I've also had a fair few meets.
You get out what you put in regards to here, I don't try to out shine the next guy, I am what I am and ladies that i do appeal to certainly make it known. Yes I'll try sell myself to those I like but ultimately matches and meets are a mutual thing.
Definitely no point in getting bitter or angry about those that didn't reply or read and block - creates bad karma and word gets around. |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Ok shit sniffer. I won't kink shame, each to their own. You've been busy to sniff most our shit though. Impressive.
I knew someone would say this.
Unimpressive.
Psychic as well!? Is that why you sniff women's shit? Does it give you super powers?
Yeh...your kinda struggling now.
Looking desperate.
But hey! This is your kinda place.
Enjoy(transient verb)
Struggling? I'm having a joke . Desperate for what?
Jumping in on this as I don’t know if it’s just meant to stir the forums up.
Fab attracts all people from all walks of life. If you think the woman are up themselves then you should read some of the men’s profiles. They are not better with demands and expectations or lack of effort but expect everyone to drop at their feet.
I was contacted by a couple this morning been on here over a year. Not verified genuine and unwilling to send pics of them. When I asked they blocked me
Horses for courses on here. We all have an option if we don’t like it, hide your profile for a bit or leave. Men slagging off woman and woman slagging off men gets you nowhere especially with the “green arrow” so people can see what you’ve been saying and will form an opinion
Last night was great in here on the forums and everyone was getting involved in a game. No arguments. Just good fun. Join in and you’ll soon see a change in how people interact with you
Is this supposed to be a reply to me or have you replied to the wrong comment as I can't see where I've slagged off men and I have no issues with how most people interact with me.
No sorry is actually to the person you’re talking to and agreeing with your opinion"
Haha no worries |
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One pound.... that's all I ask.
Just one pound for every time a bloke says the other blokes are creeps but he is a decent guy........
JUST ONE ...... thanks
It's difficult cos ...... there's more men than women ..... men are sluts...... there's covid....... we all live miles from each other and people search for ( not shags - but ) people of a given gender, people of a certain height, certain weight, certain race, certain intelligence, certain looks, certain location,....... now
Wouldn't it be easier if we all just looked for a shag and just shagged anyone ....... the men'd have to go bi tho.... ( many of em have waiting for a vag ) or maybe fully gay cos lets face it ... the m to f ratio means the vagies would spark into flame the number of times they'd have to fuck someone....... sales of drink'd go up tho .... is that a blessing ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of profile visits but nothing much else, but im me and nothing will change that. Thst until me being bug headed, I'm a genuine bloke, looking to broaden my horizons, take me or leave me haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Average is easy.
That’s why it’s popular.
It’s no different to real life. If you want to succeed, you’ve got to do better than others, around you.
This years proven difficult for sure, and people shouldn’t be meeting, but some, clearly are, judging by status updates & verifications.
You’re not always going to appeal to everyone  |
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"I'm not here to charm.im not bothered by anyone on here and god forbid,want to meet them.
Then why are you on here at all? "
Read his profile. It's clearly his 'thing' to be rude, dismissive, arrogant etc. Presumably he thinks this gives him some sort of personality trait. Now he'll come on and say 'I knew someone would say this'. It's all very contrived to say the least. |
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Having worked in sales for years it was always the last resort of the desperate when you had to even mention your competitors.
A good sales pitch should be based on what you have to offer and not take into account what anyone else is offering.
Anyone using that old chestnut about other guys spoiling it for the "good" ones clearly have very little to offer themselves.
If people are so shallow to tar everyone with the one brush and claim that because a certain percentage of people on here are ignorant or abusive they must all be then those people aren't worth meeting.
If two people are selling similar products and one spends their time slagging off the other I'd always choose the one who focuses on their own strengths. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately the majority of men on here think a half complete profile with some awful quality pictures or terrible dick pics, and a one line, poorly spelt, and generally rude opening message is attractive and a good way to approach a woman. Then wonder aghast why they get no responses! These men unfortunately probably taint some women's views of all single men, or they simply can't deal with the constant influx of shit in their mailboxes, so they filter out single men completely and just stick with couples and other women.
However, some men on here are genuinely nice, respectful and honesty just trying to have good fun. Then it just comes down to chemistry which is largely outside of their and the woman's control. Sometimes I get lovely offers from man which I feel bad declining, I always try to be kind in the way I do it. But if there is no attraction then there is no point I'm afraid, and not everyone can find everyone else attractive.
Personally I love hearing from nice single guys! And if it weren't for covid I'd have a hell of a lot more meet verifications! But it is tiresome going through 99 crap messages for the 1 good guy... Xx |
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"Don't blame the actions of others for your failures
It's up to each of us to find what works for us and how to use the site to our best advantage "
This!
Never understood the blaming others for personal failure mindset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of unkind and desperate men on here that think that the women amongst us are there for the mens pleasure and not their own. Most using explicit or inappropriate first contact messages or pictures, and when turned down get they get abusive with messages. This makes it very difficult for genuinly interested singletons to engage properly with the ladies as their suspicions are rightfully aroused. Be gentle guys, respect goes a long way. "
Have to agree with this one 100%! A nice, respectful message goes a long way. I'm a fellow human being, not a slab of meat purely for your pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women look at profiles first. If your profile has one sentence on it which tells us nothing to gauge compatibility, we move on to the next profile "
This entirely. I put effort into my profile, if you don't then I'm not likely to be interested. Doesn't have to be the 20 point essay that mine is though |
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It’s like it’s been said on here a well written profile with some basic understanding of the English language goes a very long way. Also having the slightest amount of respect as well if you get told no politely accept it as there is absolutely no need to send abuse. The amount of abuse I’ve had from men because I said no to them is astronomical. Also what was said about nice genuine men we are here it’s just wading through the shit messages and profiles to find them. |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Mine stinks, especially after loads of veggies.
You come across as if you really hate women.
Good.
That's the way I need to come across with 99.9% of the birds on here.
Thanks.
Gosh, aren’t you the charmer.
Your turn off phrase is clearly a dig at the women you think are less attractive than the demand for them would lead them to believe.
No need for nastiness. It’s supply and demand.
I'm not here to charm.im not bothered by anyone on here and god forbid,want to meet them.
I'm not being nasty.thats your interpretation. "
It will also be the interpretation of others as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Telling people you are genuine doesn't make it so... And if it is, it doesn't make you attractive nor interesting enough to make people want to respond, only your pics, profile text and messages can do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you make your own success on here, the answers are within, and the problem is almost never outside ourselves. Then again that too could be bollocks, but it is true for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did a small experiment the other night on this. I searched women looking for Guys within 5 miles, there were 8 who had been on-line within the past week. I did the same search for men looking for women. There were 3 pages (30 to a page) who had been on-line within the previous hour.
That’s why. |
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Good pictures and a decent write up, active on the forums, chat rooms or cam and when they’re available socials or clubs. The odds of getting a meet increases.
Plenty of guys moaning about the women being too choosy or stuck up, often put in little or no effort with their profiles or activity on here.  |
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I’ve only had one meet. Which was spontaneously arranged in the space of 1/2 hour at a hotel I was staying in. Unfortunately I was so out of my comfort zone I failed to rise to the occasion. Shocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The vast number of single guys and a high percentage ( mainly newbies ) think it is just a sex site they can treat like Amazon, they look, they pick then they expect to receive!! |
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"All the girls on here dont think their shit stinks..
Tho judging by most....
Mine stinks, especially after loads of veggies.
You come across as if you really hate women."
I’ve eaten a full turkey dinner two days running so you can imagine what that’s done to mine!
And he definitely does. |
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OP, take a look at your profile and imagine it was someone else’s. Would you find it appealing? Would you reply to a message from said profile? Or would it put you off? Think about the messages you send in the same way, are they appealing?
There are 100s and 100s of single men on here with one line profiles and one generic photo. You need to stand out from them if you’re going to have any chance.
Oh, and genuine? Tell me, what does that mean to you? You talk about “creeps” as if they’re not “genuine”, but they are, they’re just genuinely creeps. Virtually every man on here says he’s “genuine” as if it’s a selling point, it’s not. |
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"The dickheads don't ruin anything for anyone but themselves. If anything, they make the good guys stand out.
Any one can be successful here.
You get out what you put in.
Lu "
This 100% + the pandemic, lockdowns/restrictions aren’t easing anytime soon people aren’t making that many plans for what will probably be months ahead anyway... Stop blaming others... Make yourself stand out put some effort in and when time allows see what’s happens then!
Remember it’s a swinging site I can’t speak for everyone but people who I’ve met and know in this lifestyle seek connection, friendship and similar interests or someone elusive add some tasteful pictures and more than a line for a bio.
Also if you do message someone just be respectful it’s not hard and goes a long way... Good luck |
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"I did a small experiment the other night on this. I searched women looking for Guys within 5 miles, there were 8 who had been on-line within the past week. I did the same search for men looking for women. There were 3 pages (30 to a page) who had been on-line within the previous hour.
That’s why. "
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"You guys have had meets. Ive been trying for a month now. Still nothing x
Possibly from this thing called the pandemic and most of my meets are from clubs and socials pre covid
Can confirm Joel is real, very tall and handy for removing dr*nk Irish men from your wheelchair at 2am (or was it 3am?)
Am I, I thought I was a digital construct haha and if my memory serves me right I think it was closer to 1am
And I'd been on the lemonades all night
It was after the lights came up anyway
Plus it’s what an honourable gentleman should do"
Joel, a gentleman you most certainly are. If more blokes on here had your manners and demeanor, they'd get an awful lot further. Thanks to you, I didn't get dumped in the Mersey (or the oncoming traffic ) |
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