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By *1M2 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I the male have suggested a threesome with another male and my wife seems keen ish. How did you guys come to the conclusion that it would be fun and best advice on picking the extra man. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Firstly communication is key - talk, then talk some more, be open and honest with each other about how you feel, what you'd like to get from the experience, and what you wouldn't - agree and establish boundaries for what is/isn't acceptable and agree to stick to them. Basically be as sure as you can be that you are *both* as equally sure it's what you want as the other.
Would suggest agreeing that if one of you changes your mind at any point, for any reason at all, it's the same as you *both* changing your mind and you take a huge step backwards until you have discussed it and are either ready to go again or decide it's not for you.
When it comes to choosing a potential partner - do it together, either at a club or by going through profiles here and picking out likely candidates - again it's important that you both agree or you move onto the next candidate.
When it comes to actually meeting (when COVID allows) would suggest unless it's a club that you make it a "no play social" first which gives you the chance to talk it through without the pressure of time to decide hanging over you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I the male have suggested a threesome with another male and my wife seems keen ish. How did you guys come to the conclusion that it would be fun and best advice on picking the extra man."
We both wanted to. We discussed boundaries between us and with the other person to make sure we were all 3 happy.
We would never do anything with someone who was keen ish.
Sounds like she is playing along with your fantasy but doesn't really want to. |
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