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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??
Maybe talking and listening would help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a self proclaimed blowjob expert but I've been on the recieving end of disappointing oral many times, so I imagine men have the same issue with some women. Communication is key to teaching/learning, and practice makes perfect  xx |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??
Maybe talking and listening would help "
I would not say they cannot do it, more they do it in a way you are not keen on.
However, I agree that communication is vital to a healthy dynamic and having a good time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything can be learnt with time, practice and communication. "
Very true, that’s how you perfect a skill , whether it’s oral or something else
I’ve become quite an expert girl myself 
I think also the number one thing is... girls (and boys) you have to enjoy doing it otherwise it shows in the performance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about learning what the other person likes, rather than just doing your thing and expecting them to love it. I like to learn the little things that drive a guy wild, it's part of the fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive only met a few who can make me climax through a blowjob without help from me.
Im on the large scale so i dont expect her to get it in het mouth and i prefer to be licked than sucked which helps.
But i do agree people shouldn't talk a big game if they cant perform.
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I get the feeling that no matter how good you are at giving a blow job ( and after all it's not rocket science)on occasions it just doesn't happen, this of course is also true with sex in general...
I think the key is enthusiasm and the desire to do it...Many people deep down just don't want to do it,so they fake it...
The best imho is when both parties want it, the cock sucker wants to suck and the guy wants his cock sucking without other agendas. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Thing is, like most things about sex it's not about being "the best" for every person, but about being "the best", at that moment in time, for the specific partner you're with which takes communication in both directions and includes both talking AND listening, and not just blindly expecting a partner to know how you like it, or accept the way you do it.
Now obviously you don't want to sit down and have a clinical conversation about it beforehand, so to an extent it comes down to listening and giving cues and guidance during, or discussing after - but at the same time on a site like this having a conversation before meeting about boundaries and likes/dislikes allows that discussion too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a self proclaimed blowjob expert but I've been on the recieving end of disappointing oral many times, so I imagine men have the same issue with some women. Communication is key to teaching/learning, and practice makes perfect xx"
Couldn't of put it ant better.. I think some people lie to please... counter productive |
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"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??
Maybe talking and listening would help "
Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??
Maybe talking and listening would help
Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?"
No I would make suggestions in a tactful way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??
Maybe talking and listening would help
Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?
No I would make suggestions in a tactful way"
And as we are all different I'd encourage who ever I was playing with totally me what and how they like it |
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"Now I've had a fair few of these in my life and the amount of women who say they can do them yet when it comes down to it they really can't.. but then I guess its like guys going down on a women??
Maybe talking and listening would help
Would you tell the person if they were not doing it to your liking OP?"
I'm more subtle than that; I usually say "I really need to fuck you now" if the oral technique is going nowhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a willing cock sucking pupil. 
show me what youve learnt so far and we can take it from there
Yes Sir "
....and we can incentivise / reward with a spanking |
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"I find men like it done in different ways! My last fwb just liked the tip in my mouth and never his balls in my mouth or even touched others love their balls sucked x"
The tips the best bit ..the shafts just for show lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So true this op half whom have said they are great at it have actually been the worst all about soft and gentle for me not something from a dodgy porno were her eyes are watering and sucking it like trying to get water through a hosepipe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...
Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol"
I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol |
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"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...
Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol "
Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...
Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol
Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! "
definitely pal lol had an ex who could have me spunking with one lubed up finger on the banjo string or the frenulum as it's known |
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"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...
Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol
Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! definitely pal lol had an ex who could have me spunking with one lubed up finger on the banjo string or the frenulum as it's known "
Thats a name im only too familier, after ripping it!!  |
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I think the problem with both situations is people think one technique suits all and it doesn't. I know guys who love deepthroating and others who hate it. Some who like a lot of focus on the head and vein. Some who like a little grazing with the teeth.
Balls are the same. Everyone likes different things. Its part of what I love, discovering what someone enjoys and what does nothing for them. Maybe thats just me...  |
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Like others have also said it depends on what the other person likes .I give my husband the best blowjobs but that don’t mean I’m a expert it’s because I know exactly what he likes and how he likes it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just the head in the mouth, with a it of up/down and twist with a hand foes it for me...
Deepthroat is impressive, but doesnt do it for so much. Probably in a minority there!? Lol I'm same pal deep throat doesn't even feel nice to me i fucking hate it to be honest it's actually not a nice sensation for me personally just deal with the bit under my boss head with a warm gentle mouth lol
Absolutely... Got to be really careful the gun doesnt fire when its just the end! definitely pal lol had an ex who could have me spunking with one lubed up finger on the banjo string or the frenulum as it's known
Thats a name im only too familier, after ripping it!! "
ouch my mates lad did a few months back while i was in the house he was banging hes bird upstairs and ripped it honestly the blood coming out of it was not nice he ended up in A@E never seen so much blood from such a small tear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never had complaints from men or women when I give oral. I love giving it though, and sulk if he doesn’t let me suck him, haha. Luckily he’s very obliging. I like to see what people respond to and make it as enjoyable as I can. Love it when I suck and lick him to completion, or when a woman’s legs shake and she moans, as she cums again and again! such a buzz!! Viv xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, very important is to know that the woman is really enjoying giving the blowjob, in that case I enjoy the most. Also, it should be a proper suction not just touching it with your lips. And I like when she is touching and tickling my balls during the blowjob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having given both I feel it's definitely the person. Some like it rough some not some like the tougne action. I'm no pro but I could please some and disappoint others as we all could. I'm willing to be put to the test!! |
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"For me, very important is to know that the woman is really enjoying giving the blowjob, in that case I enjoy the most. Also, it should be a proper suction not just touching it with your lips. And I like when she is touching and tickling my balls during the blowjob."
Agree if she is enjoying it much nicer. I love to give oral but communicate even if just a oh are when it's good ladies every little moan helps and we are not talking about the light bulb that neads changing that's just moaning |
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Well i have never had any complaints from the ones iv given in the past
So much so they fuck off but then come back months later wanting to meet up agsin
But hey ho
Only get one chsnce with me tho
Fuck me fuck me off thrn come back for mor after seein people in relstionships n they split up
N msg me to meet thrm
Pity they fucked up first time
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Never had any complaints but then that's because they can barely remember their name while I'm sucking them off
Lol all jokes aside I genuinely enjoy sucking a cock and have been complimented on my skills numerous times.
Oddly I hate porn with endless blowjob scenes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Willing for women to practice on me ha ha
Seriously though, I guess communicating is paramount in anything to do with sex or anything else for that matter.
Probably why I get frustrated on here when you get no response lol x |
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